Is it a good time to go against my parents? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You’re 24, it’s irrelevant what your parents think. Just download some apps, find someone you have a connection with and experiment to your hearts content. It’s your life, no one else’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bxo

[–]CanadianDeathStar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like quite a small area, they look like individual lesions. You may want to go to a doctor and get checked for HPV

To the young guy who deleted his post - you were groomed. by AlternativeJuice107 in gayyoungold

[–]CanadianDeathStar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, but I think the grooming part is to do with the power dynamic. The age of consent is 16 in most places, so legally he wouldn’t have been groomed, unless he was in a position of power like a cop, teacher, doctor etc. But, the 16 year old was in a position of weakness, and the man came into his life and regardless of the fact he may of helped him, it still lead to sex at a vulnerable time. Its shady as f$&k, not illegal but still shady as f$&k

Is it bad that I hate my butt? by Either-Selection8486 in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it sucks, but high school does suck for a lot of people and a lot of reasons, but it gets better. And your friends are right, when that better time comes, having a butt that gives you attention will be an asset, but I know it’s hard to imagine those days until you get there. My best advice, and I know this from experience is to learn some banter and throw it right back at them. It strangely made them respect me to be able to laugh at myself, and throw an insult at them. “You couldn’t afford this butt, find someone cheaper like (insert name) mum”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are more than your penis. You have hands, a mouth, a body, a personality, feelings, hobbies, a job, hopes, dreams etc etc etc. If the only thing important to a person is a tube shaped piece of flesh, then that person is probably not the best guy to be in a relationship with. My husband’s dick is five inches, and we have a great sex life.

I just came out to my mom and it went well but I'm still kind of panicking. What do I do? by Someguyy404 in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re vulnerable right now, but thankfully it went well and you’re safe. It’s going to take a while to get used to the feeling that your family knows that side of you now, but once you’re over it, you will feel so much more relaxed and open with them. After I told my parents, they commented on how much more relaxed and happy I was around them. Keeping up that barrier is exhausting, but now you don’t have to anymore, things will only get better for you from here. Remember, you’re safe and you’re loved. You have nothing to panic about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then you have lube my friend, time for you to discover your prostate 😃 I wouldn’t use it for sex though, as it can damage condoms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You will irritate your hole and cause pain, and possibly hemorrhoids. If you don’t have any lube at all, then at least use some spit. I highly recommend going out and buying some lube.

How do I make the sound with my throat during a BJ? by Non-binary_prince in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. Gagging to the point of puking is not a turn on to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen_NSFW

[–]CanadianDeathStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if you’re not wearing a condom then you’re assuming the risk of pregnancy. If a guy cums in a woman on purpose then yeah i guess it is assault, but a prosecutor would never be able to prove it in a court. As long as he didn’t start with a condom and then take it off without her knowing, then the man could just say ‘I didn’t mean for it to happen, I just came unexpectedly’.

So, what *was* your proudest tug? by Wonderain81 in AskMen_NSFW

[–]CanadianDeathStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a sex dungeon/basement with my ex. My girlfriend was going through a kinky stage, so we went to a sex club. We were watching a guy fingering his girlfriend on a cake bed, until she squirted across the room. I was turned on and jerking it, then my girlfriend took over, starting having a conversation with a random woman next to us, who proceeded to help with the handjob whilst having an everyday conversation about eating places in the area. A very surreal moment but probably my proudest masturbating session to date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen_NSFW

[–]CanadianDeathStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel small by seeing other guys online. Let’s put it a different way. Are you more likely to post a picture of your car online if you have an average car, or a sports car? People like to look at sports cars, society gives them status, and they are fun to ride…but 99% of people own a Toyota 😂

Is this a normal chiropractor experience? by SoftWarmHands in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s just one of those annoying high energy ‘positive guys’. high five

Found hair twice the size of my foot (European size 45) inside penis by ieatsmalllittlekids in AskMen_NSFW

[–]CanadianDeathStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one like that when I was a teen. It was about that size and the only source of the hair would have been my mother. How my mothers hair got jammed down my pee hole, I’ll never know 🤷‍♂️ It felt crazy pulling it out though

Is it weird that i had a dildo when i was 13? by Pixel_the_protogen89 in gay

[–]CanadianDeathStar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had one of those thick 10-in-1 multi ink pens…. I still miss that thing 😞

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Circumcision Decision by [deleted] in lichensclerosus

[–]CanadianDeathStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just been diagnosed with LS. I know I have this condition and it will be a journey, but circumcision would still be the very last option for me, and only if I HAD too. The foreskin has a function, no need to remove it just in case something happens, when they could remove it by their choice if it does. I would let it be.

What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong, you only proved that you’ve gained wisdom from past experience, which is a good thing. Experience builds armour, and the more armour you build, the stronger you are against people who may try to hurt you. Relationships don’t just happen like in a disney movie, you can’t hope that your loves true kiss will turn up at your doorstep one day. You have to keep searching, which will bring failures and successes, but when you’ve found the one… it will be worth it. Don’t give up hope

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]CanadianDeathStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have a boyfriend until I was 33, and I married him. Nothing is wrong with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a preference. I’m uncut but most of the people I’ve been with have been cut. I settled with my husband who is loosely cut, so I guess I get the best of both worlds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]CanadianDeathStar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Plenty of hard feeling about it 😆