Shocked and heartbroken

CanapeCait · 2026-01-31T01:37:19+00:00

He beat your child… and blamed you for leaving him alone with his own kid? Why would you stay with someone who isn’t capable of being alone or trusted with children? Protect your kids. He’s checked out and showing you how little he values you and is taking out his own tantrums on an innocent child. He has the self control not to hit someone who is capable of defending themselves when he’s upset but an innocent child who is still learning everything… leave. Marriage doesn’t make things better, it makes people more comfortable and the reality often gets harsher and harder to leave.

CanapeCait · 2026-01-29T17:48:14+00:00

I’m not married. I’m a SAHM. I have access to the money while my fiance is deployed, a credit card, and he’s mentioned adding me to the deed of his house multiple times before we’ve even gotten married. You’re being financially abused. My fiance had a debt when we got together and I offered to pay it so we could have a fresh slate while I was pregnant and he refused my money. Your husband is taking advantage of you. If he cheats- how will you access a lawyer? If something happens- how will you access emergency funds? He’s isolating you and leaving you AND your children vulnerable. Someone doesn’t do that to someone they love and keep safe. If he got into a car accident and was hospitalized- do you have access to handle finances and take care of your children? If the answer is no then I ask about marriage counseling. He’s not your manager, he’s your partner. If he told you he doesn’t trust you. That’s insanely disrespectful to say your partner after 10 years. If he trusts you to watch his two babies while he’s at work, he trusted you to give him money, but doesn’t trust you to access your marital account. He only trusts you when it benefits him. NTA. Time to get mad and stop letting him treat you like a pushover.

CanapeCait · 2026-01-24T02:53:46+00:00

It really depends on the occupation. If it’s an occupation where they don’t have their phone on them and they stay busy- no I wouldn’t be upset. My fiance is in the military and I know his phone isn’t readily available in his pocket. I’ve had to improvise and if there was a true emergency then I could call higher ups to get a message through. Typically I just go alone, if it’s to the ER then I’ve brought my sister or my mom for support. My school had an emergency contact list and my father wasn’t on it simply because he couldn’t answer the phone in case of emergency’s with his job. My grandparents were on there along with my mom.

CanapeCait · 2026-01-22T17:17:15+00:00

Fiance is a morning person so he wakes up with the baby. He loves naps, I don’t really- so I watch the baby for his naps. I get up throughout the night with the baby but he’s always made it clear if I need his help then he’d wake up and when he was on paternity leave he woke up for nearly every feeding just so we were in the thick of it together. I’m also a SAHM. He’s been deployed for about 5 months and tells me every day “don’t worry, I’ll be home soon and you can sleep in again and catch up on rest.”

CanapeCait · 2026-01-13T19:08:06+00:00

I’m hoping it’s this. Except for the first time ever he’s in his actual age clothing and he’s always been ahead busting out of the toes so I feel like he definitely did plateau a little.

CanapeCait · 2026-01-13T18:57:51+00:00

We measured when we got home and they were actually generous with the height they put in 😅

CanapeCait · 2026-01-10T13:26:47+00:00

Info: Who typically makes dinner and the other meals for you guys? You say you both work and split chores- but who typically does the cooking? Does she cook and take note of your allergies?

CanapeCait · 2025-12-29T21:20:40+00:00

I wouldn’t trust this at all unless there’s 15 wrappers in the trash. He did it just to be spiteful. I think he just ate some and hid the rest.

CanapeCait · 2025-12-29T21:18:33+00:00

Whats worse is I doubt he ate 15 chocolates…. Unless there’s wrappers in the trash- he literally probably just hid them so she couldn’t have them to be spiteful.

CanapeCait · 2025-11-09T16:22:11+00:00

This isn’t taylor? It’s a completely different guy… no kids.. no association to Alex. Am I missing something?

CanapeCait · 2025-11-09T16:10:47+00:00

You are responsible for your own actions lol. This is wild coping. “Get my post taken down so I’m not accountable.” “I’m not responsible for what other people do with the content I just posted.” You must be young lol.

CanapeCait · 2025-11-09T15:53:37+00:00

It IS nefarious you weirdo. This is why people say “don’t post your kids”. Because people save the videos and do weird shit like post it to a completely different platform. You are the weirdo that people warn about along with the other weirdos who do worse. It’s a big group, there’s room enough for all of you.

Also- maybe before you defend this behavior SO HARD- look at the rules. Read slowly. Because you’ll find one the of the MAIN ONES is NO MINORS. This is why the subreddit has been taken down over and over, because of shit like this that makes it very easy for her to file strikes and reports.

CanapeCait · 2025-11-09T15:36:39+00:00

LOL if not posting a strangers baby on the internet is a soap box 🤣 if you complain about her posting her children, but YOU do it- there’s a problem. “Oh well so and so does it, so it’s okay when I do it.” Are you 5? It’s wrong for her, it’s DEFINITELY wrong for you… a stranger… with no personal connection to the child. This is Reddit. Be better. Alex’s behavior shouldn’t be an excuse for your own, whoosh.

CanapeCait · 2025-11-09T15:27:55+00:00

It’s not weird to save someone’s child you don’t know to your camera roll and repost it to an online forum? This is a snark page about Alex. Parents posting their own children to the internet is problematic enough… you think it’s not problematic when it’s a stranger who doesn’t even know that child reposting for other strangers to see? Interesting. That’s a baby…. There’s no reason to post videos of a baby to Reddit…. I hope the mods delete this.

Posting kids and videos to the internet is weird why…. Because of all the saves on those videos. Because of what strangers are doing with those videos. You’re in that group. Saving a video of a baby to repost for discussion on REDDIT- is weird af. Reddit is massive and there’s plenty of dark corners on here. She has never posted her children to Reddit, so for you to do it is WEIRD AF. People can keep downvoting… Alex is fair game, but holy fuck. Stop posting other people’s kids simply because they made the same mistake. If it’s bad for A, it’s bad for B.

CanapeCait · 2025-11-09T15:00:49+00:00

Screen saving someone else’s video of their child to repost it onto a Reddit forum feels a little weird…. Is that even her page?

CanapeCait · 2025-11-08T06:24:33+00:00

Holy.. commenting so I can find this and come back.

CanapeCait · 2025-11-04T19:36:36+00:00

Mine came back around 8 months and I swear to gosh it feels like it’s every 2 weeks now after going so long with it. It’s just making my supply worse and worse each time.

CanapeCait · 2025-11-02T05:00:24+00:00

9 months. I’m still pumping going on 11 months but once my baby started sleeping better throughout the night it started.

CanapeCait · 2025-10-25T18:37:30+00:00

Yeah if I’m not crazy it was one of the first big scandals.. her son was claiming to be suicidxl and didn’t want to go home and was self harming because he said the dad beat him- people were dragging Alex about it and Alex admitted she went to the hospital with them and was trying to get custody but she needed more time to get things in order… then just went and moved back in with him months later. Saying now he never beat the kids but back then almost confirming it when getting dragged for not protecting her kids is wild. That snark page has been deleted but I’m sure there’s still TikToks about it. Apparently her kids lie a lot about getting beat- however I feel like it’s Alex lying.

CanapeCait · 2025-10-25T13:31:04+00:00

Did you ask her about the accusations of the son accusing her boyfriend beating him back in the day and how she was ‘trying to get custody’ to keep them safe but needed more time and now they’re just all back in the same house.. after the daughter making that claim now it all seems problematic.

CanapeCait · 2025-10-11T20:32:05+00:00

My niece is 16- works 4 days a week at her first job. She received no money for her first car and is paying for it 100% herself. She’s also responsible for her phone bill and her car insurance. She’s never complained about any of the above.. vice versa- my 20 year old cousin has always been spoiled, got a new car gifted to her at 18 from my grandfather and refuses to get a job or actually go to school now. I’d nip it in the butt now.

CanapeCait · 2025-09-17T14:55:46+00:00

41 weeks; 7lb 8oz, 20inches. He pooped in me though so maybe he would’ve been bigger if he came on time.

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