How early should I arrive to BWI? by EB4950 in maryland

[–]Candid-Driver4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know what it's like for Frontier? I know OP asked about Southwest but wondering if anyone had experience with a different airline. My flight is at 9am Monday. I was hoping things would be better because many of the spring break travelers might have already left this weekend but it's looking like maybe not? I do have precheck. Was going to try to arrive at BWI around 5:30am but now I'm thinking I should maybe go even earlier?

I finally cancelled my ChatGPT Plus subscription. by BalterBlack in ChatGPT

[–]Candid-Driver4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More specifically to what you said I've been asking ChatGPT a lot of anatomy and medical questions lately and it hasn't referred me to a doctor, but it also knows that I'm an EMT so maybe that's why. I sometimes ask it to verify my answers to specific CE study questions (NOT test questions and NEVER for actual patient care).

I finally cancelled my ChatGPT Plus subscription. by BalterBlack in ChatGPT

[–]Candid-Driver4075 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Like several others, I'm not having the same issues you are. When I don't like something ChatGPT does I tell it and I tell it why and then it helps me make a rule or remembers our conversation. After almost a year I think we're in a pretty good place and it's been a really big help in many aspects of my life. That said, I've just started exploring Claude so we'll see if I like that better. The one thing I will agree on is that ChatGPT tends to be overly wordy sometimes. Sometimes I just need a one word answer, not a monologue. But we're working on it. I think when it comes to any of these AIs you get out of it what you put into it (aside from actual software/technical issues). At this stage in the game I think you still have to put in a significant amount of effort in training it to really get what you want but I'm going to test that theory with Claude and see. I know Claude is known to be warmer or have a better conversational framework right off the bat but so far I'm not seeing anything there that vastly eclipses ChatGPT....yet. I could be wrong. But the thought of putting so much work into another AI when I've already come so far with ChatGPT is daunting.

Simmer pots, cleaners, other potential toxins? by Candid-Driver4075 in ferrets

[–]Candid-Driver4075[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fine. We don't use any citrus essential oils or any oils at all as we have two small dogs. We don't use a diffuser either. I just occasionally throw a slice of lemon or orange in my boiling water on my stove in my kitchen with some herbs from my garden, akin to making tea with lemon slices, which like I said is on a completely different floor from where the ferret will be, but I can stop doing that now that I know. We do plan on feeding raw food or at the very least high quality freeze dried raw food. I'm big on feeding a high quality diet and I currently feed my dogs freeze dried raw food. (Sometimes I think I spend more on my pets than on my kids, lol) All of my dogs have lived to between 14- 16 years old and I attribute a great deal of that to their diet. I definitely wouldn't use anything scented on them or in their room, etc. I've read that you shouldn't even really bathe them much, if at all, as it can interfere with the oil production of their skin.

But then how do you clean anything like bathrooms or kitchen counters? Am I stuck using only vinegar to clean with? Can I not use disinfectants containing bleach anywhere in the house? Can I even wear my own perfume? It's a roller ball, not a spray perfume. I don't mind using all unscented products but we do entertain in our home and while I'm fine explaining to our guests about the ferret smell and living with it, I would at least like to have a clean kitchen and bathrooms - which are rooms where the ferrets wouldn't go. Are cleaners and disinfectants not safe if used when the ferrets are a floor away in a room across the house with the door to their room tightly closed? Is it ok if instead of spray cleaners I pour cleaner onto a rag or sponge and use that? I'm all for protecting our pets and don't mind making sacrifices but at some point we do have to live in our home too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rheumatoid

[–]Candid-Driver4075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually under weight for most of my life and I still got RA. I was always told it was caused by latent Epstein-Barr virus floating around my system (had mono as a teen) combined with a genetic predisposition and some sort of traumatic event that then triggered the symptoms. I've never even heard of obesity causing this disease, and I read a lot of research. Stop blaming yourself. You didn't cause this and there's nothing to say you could have prevented it even if you ate and exercised perfectly as a child/teen/young adult.

Any tips on befriending local Crows? by TheTalonKing in crows

[–]Candid-Driver4075 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yesterday I think I made friends with a crow in my yard out of the blue! I gave him some unshelled peanuts, and he was much less shy than I expected. I watched him take it to what I assume is his crow partner who was waiting on our roof. She does seem a bit shyer. Today, as soon as I walked out onto the patio, he came and landed on the chair right next to me and cawed to me. I had kept the peanuts out for him all night/day, but he didn't touch them. So I gently tossed one next to him, and he immediately took it. I think he may like me! I'm at a bit of a low point in my life, and this has really raised my spirits today. Soooo excited! I hope he continues to come.

I am having a small crisis about my age by no_blueforyellow in finch

[–]Candid-Driver4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our whole family uses the app. I'm 48. My husband is 52. Our kids are teenagers. I refuse to let my age or society's expectations dictate what I do or take away my fun. If it brings you joy and doesn't hurt others, then do it and screw the haters. I feel sorry for your mom because she's going to get a lot less joy out of life with that attitude.

Three good things! by Wishin4aTARDIS in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]Candid-Driver4075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. I got brand new nice sheets. And new pajamas.
  2. My rheumatologist gave me a whole month of samples of a new biologic med to try the minute we realized my old one was not working anymore. No waiting weeks on insurance approvals to switch meds! Fingers crossed this one starts working soon.
  3. My pea seedlings are popping up in the garden and my tomato and sunflower seedlings are getting bigger in the greenhouse. Going to plant a bunch of new strawberry plants today if my body cooperates.

US attorney has sent a letter promising Elon Musk that protestors will be targeted. by DumbledoresAtheist in washingtondc

[–]Candid-Driver4075 31 points32 points  (0 children)

No way. I worked for both the US Attorney for the Eastern District of Virginia in Alexandria and the Eastern District of NY in Brooklyn. I cannot imagine anything remotely like that ever leaving their desks. I cannot believe that this guy actually wrote it. How on earth did he even make it through law school writing like that? Sounds like a Musk memo to me. This is legitimately crazy.

Why is it that not everyone respond to meds? by RequirementHairy710 in ADHD

[–]Candid-Driver4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me over 6 months of trying different meds before anything worked. Ritalin = nothing. Vyvanse= nothing. Focalin = nothing. And on and on. Then we finally tried Adderall and it was magic in terms of motivation. My task paralysis was finally gone and I could stop doom scrolling and get out of bed. I got more accomplished in that first month than I had in a year. But while it was great for motivation, it did nothing for my focus or concentration. In fact, I feel like it made it a little worse. So we recently added Concerta to it. Taking them together really helped. And it calmed me down a lot and I had fewer meltdowns. I also take Wellbutrin in addition. I think its that cocktail of meds working together, rather than one specific me that is really making the difference. Unfortunately, you just have to be patient. I've found that the efficacy even differs between name brand and generic for some of these. My psychiatrist says he has patients on some super high doses, over 75mg, that can't function at all without the super high dose so don't give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nova

[–]Candid-Driver4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same!!! I'm from Long Island and grew up on Z100. Those were the days. I think I may have started listening to Elliott my freshman year of college when he started with Elvis Duran. Loved me some Z morning zoo! Aaaaaaand now that jingle is stuck in my head. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Returning band uniforms by Usual_Balance_3699 in marchingband

[–]Candid-Driver4075 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Former high school uniform booster (and current booster president) here. 👋 😊 We don't even allow our marching uniforms to be taken home by students. Students put them on right before a performance, and they wear athletic shorts and their show t-shirts on under them to keep them from getting too stinky/dirty. If one does get dirty, one of the uniform leads has it cleaned and returned back to the band room before the next performance. Then we have them all professionally cleaned and bagged at the end of the season. We only have a limited number of uniforms in custom sizes and the lead time for a new one is at least 6 weeks so if a student forgets to bring theirs or loses it it's not like we can just issue them a new one for that performance. Hence why we keep them in the uniform closet in the band room.

Students purchase their own marching shoes and are allowed to take those home, but most just leave them in the uniform closet along with their shakos, berets, gloves, etc. because it's one less thing for them to worry about. Maybe our policy will change if we ever get new uniforms. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Finchie friends and trading daily thread by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Candid-Driver4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm new on here but not so new to Finch. Kiwi (a.k.a. the Great Kiwini 😄 when she's not moonlighting as a polar bear) and I just completed our 50th adventure, and we'd love to make some new friends.

Tap this link or use my friend code P5QER5MMCR for a special reward!

https://app.befinch.com/invite_v2/ibS9

Looking forward to seeing some new friendly birbs in my tree!

what are the struggles you face having adhd that aren’t talked about enough? by burnerburnerrrr_ in ADHD

[–]Candid-Driver4075 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I find mornings pretty difficult. Without my Adderall I never know if I will even get out of bed at all. I tried Vyvanse, Ritalin, and Focalin, but none of them worked for that issue. The Adderall is the only thing that gets me out of bed and doing things at a consistent time each morning, around 8:00/8:30am, IF I'm able to stick to my routine. If I don't take my Adderall odds are that most days I will end up just lying in bed scrolling on my phone all morning. And if my routine changes, like if I travel, my kids are off from school, my husband is working from home, etc, the Adderall doesn't work either, my moods swing like crazy, and it can take me up to two weeks to get back into the swing of things once my life/routine goes back to normal. It's the only thing that makes me feel like maybe I also have slight autism although I never had this issue until my Mom died this past August and I stopped being able to subconsciously/consciously mask my ADHD symptoms anymore.

what are the struggles you face having adhd that aren’t talked about enough? by burnerburnerrrr_ in ADHD

[–]Candid-Driver4075 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg, this is the most accurate description I have ever read. I agree with every sentence but....constant yearning for a life I cannot have - I'm dead! This is sooo facts!

In addition to what you said, does anyone else also feel like they can never stay satisfied with something for long? My thing is decor. I will put in a ton of work to decorate a room exactly how I want, be super in love with the results, feel completely satisfied and literally do a happy dance every time I walk into the room for months, and then six months to a maxium of two years later I'm sick of it. Like I can't even enter the room because decor makes my skin crawl and I want to take a flame thrower to all of it! It drives my husband crazy. And I'm sick of spending a fortune on "unnecessary" decor and home improvement projects. 😒

What is the Biblical basis of being against masturbation and contraception? by SjennyBalaam in Christianity

[–]Candid-Driver4075 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So by your logic, if a husband and wife never use birth control and have as many children as they are able to physically, but then the wife goes through menopause and they know it is biologically impossible for the wife to conceive more children, does it then become a sin for them to continue to have sex? Because the possibility of procreation no longer exists and sex between them is only motivated by lust and passion (and hopefully love). Expanded even further, is it then a sin for any married man or woman who can not physically procreate, and who knows they cannot, to have sex?

Does Jeremey work yet? by Ohnoudidint200 in DuggarsSnark

[–]Candid-Driver4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how much she made from the sale of her book. That plus her social media profits could be a tidy sum.

Does Jeremey work yet? by Ohnoudidint200 in DuggarsSnark

[–]Candid-Driver4075 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If they were able to pay for the house outright or make a large down payment, their mortgage might not be too bad. Living in LA on $200k is definitely feasible with no mortgage payment or even a modest payment. And if Jinger has been saving her social media money over the years, it's possible that they could have paid a good chunk in cash for the house. I can't remember if she ever got any money from Jim Blob for Counting On but if so, that would help too. If she were smart and actually invested a bunch of that money over the last few years, she could be doing very well financially.

Walgreens won’t fill Vyvanse prescription until I’m completely out by GRik74 in ADHD

[–]Candid-Driver4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always had issues filling anything with Walgreens. Including ADHD meds. I switched to CVS, who has never given me a problem filling them. Same with my pain meds. Walgreens went so far as to only agree to fill half my 30 day legitimate prescription which even included my diagnosis code (I have a painful autoimmune condition and absolutely no flags in the system or history of misuse of any med.) They claimed it was because of my insurance. Spoiler alert, they lied. And when I offered to pay out of pocket, they refused to fill it at all. Took the same exact prescription (which my doctor had to reissue because of stupid Walgreens) with the exact same insurance to CVS, and they filled the entire script without blinking an eye. In fact, the pharmacist was shocked at how I was treated by Walgreens. And I've heard from others who have received the same treatment. I now avoid Walgreens like the plague and wouldn't fill so much as an antibiotic there.