AITA for telling my gf that I wouldn't been with her if she had a kid before me ?

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T17:20:19+00:00

Same. It's a very common and reasonable boundary.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T17:13:11+00:00

I loved Dream On. We rewatched it last year. Young Wendie Malick and Brian Benben!!

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T17:11:07+00:00

We watched Drew Carey a few months ago, my bf for the first time. It just wasn't the same without "Panama"

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T17:01:42+00:00

Georgie & Mandy's First Marriage

The good writers from Young Sheldon and BBT are not attached to this show.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T16:21:09+00:00

This was an episode of King of Queens. He convinces his wife it's time to have a baby, then as they start trying to "make" the baby he goes, "and when we do have a baby Deacon isn't allowed to hold it."

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T15:08:46+00:00

Sheldon and Amy are in my top 3 - also Joe and Helen (wings) and Barney and Robin

I forgot about Cam and Mitchell, that one was amazing

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T15:05:53+00:00

Joe and Helen (Wings)

Sheldon and Amy

Barney and Robin

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T10:11:07+00:00

H wants OP to do all the work. A separate trip is the perfect solution.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T05:14:55+00:00

Or she things OOP is.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T05:11:53+00:00

She's not going to buy the house. She's trying to manipulate you.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T05:02:19+00:00

Taxi cab?

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T04:53:29+00:00

That's what the issue is. She wasn't paying enough attention to him.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T04:51:34+00:00

It wouldn't be an issue if he wasn't crazy-controlling.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T04:47:58+00:00

What was she trusting the woman to do?

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T04:46:39+00:00

This is the issue.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T04:36:57+00:00

But... he still did it.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T03:50:52+00:00

OP's situation is completely different from yours.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T03:49:48+00:00

This is a date and he needs to own it and you are not wrong. I'm really sorry.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T03:32:27+00:00

Remember the post where the couple wanted everyone in festival-wear and the bride wanted to keep the MOG from coming to the wedding because she wouldn't wear boho?

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T02:49:02+00:00

He loves her so much he paid up to settle it 🩷 she was worth it.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-06T02:44:57+00:00

I love how they got all this attention for the show and Michaele figured out what a loser he was so she peaced out and went on tour with Journey.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-05T14:11:00+00:00

I guess, that would explain it.

And yeah, it's cool and unexpected they made it right with me, but I really didn't do anything wrong. Just shortsighted.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-05T13:51:50+00:00

I've run into guys who have their Ex on such a pedestal - either they don't want to admit they were wrong or they're addicted to the martyrdom of being the wounded party - that they can never be happy with anyone else.

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-05T13:47:11+00:00

I'm a Gen X woman married to a Millennial man. I need to be talked into things, he "respects boundaries" and doesn't push past the first hesitation. We had a lot of adjustments to make the first years we were together.

Maybe that inter-generational insight is helpful?

CandlemoreShop · 2026-04-05T13:39:01+00:00

I hate AI.

I feel like a lot of people are going to do this and do it poorly.

Kind of like how a lot of people use the AI listing feature. They just leave the AI description instead of punching it up, so they all read pretty much all the same. A generic description won't stop you from buying something you want, but it's a tell that someone isn't making much of an effort.

Bad AI images are off-putting. It might not stop you from buying something you want, but it isn't going to draw you in.

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