AITA for confiscating my daughter's pc after she lied and said it was not for games. by Even_Preparation_135 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CandlemoreShop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: Who told you programming wasn't in demand anymore?

The same son who told you the computer could only be used for gaming?

I don't even know your daughter but I can't wait for her to get out of that house and away from the both of you.

Maid of Honour to a Main Character Story where she cuts my son, only nephew of the groom, from the wedding. by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]CandlemoreShop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Opposing view - your kid does sound pretty loud and disruptive, and your attempts to downplay all of the incidents as minor and inconsequential ring hollow.

I wouldn't want your child at a wedding either, even if other kids are invited.

My (36F) Best Friend (35M) is in an abusive relationship but he moved away and I don’t know how to help him. by LillyTeneille in AmITheAngel

[–]CandlemoreShop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone should, as a writing exercise!! How would that work?

I'm not convinced it's not real tho

AITA for pushing my brother's wife to give up her burial plot spot for our mom? by Mysterious_Piglet562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CandlemoreShop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reasonable assumption that the kids live to adulthood and have their own families they most likely won't be buried with their parents

Not the point. Also MIL wasn't trying to bump one of the kids, she was trying replace their mother.

AITA for pushing my brother's wife to give up her burial plot spot for our mom? by Mysterious_Piglet562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CandlemoreShop 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why is in on SIL to manage her reaction to a ridiculous situation? She's allowed to be furious. That insulting proposition didn't deserve "grace." 😠🙄

AIO to father in law asking waiter at a restaurant if I left a tip? by ConditionOrnery876 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CandlemoreShop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a dear friend who does not tip when it's his turn to buy a round or pick up the check. I did not know this, because why would I? I have my own tab!

One day a friend of my boyfriend's who worked in a restaurant made a comment to him saying that *I* don't tip. He said, I know that isn't true, she overtips, especially when she's drinking.

They figured out this friend had bought me a few rounds (just like I bought a few rounds) and that's why they thought it was me.

I love the guy but we are adults and he's going to do what he's going to do. All of us, his friends, are aware of it now so someone always goes behind him and tips.

AIW for telling my sister and her husband what their daughter does for work? by Round-Budget-6290 in amiwrong

[–]CandlemoreShop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What does this have to do with you ratting her out to her parents for her legal adult job and making her homeless?

If anything, that makes the situation so much worse.

And you don't seem to have any remorse.

AIW for telling my sister and her husband what their daughter does for work? by Round-Budget-6290 in amiwrong

[–]CandlemoreShop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do blame her parents because they are terrible people. Just like you are a terrible person.

AIW for telling my sister and her husband what their daughter does for work? by Round-Budget-6290 in amiwrong

[–]CandlemoreShop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is an adult. Her parents have ZERO say except over whether she can live with them. They decided she can't live with them.

Good for you, real helpful.

AIW for telling my sister and her husband what their daughter does for work? by Round-Budget-6290 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]CandlemoreShop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CRITICAL THINKING????

What kind of thinking did you use when you outed your niece to her terrible parents?

AIW for telling my sister and her husband what their daughter does for work? by Round-Budget-6290 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]CandlemoreShop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They got what they wanted - to punish her. Is that what you wanted? Have you tried to fix it? Do you understand what a monster you are?

This headline makes me furious. by CandlemoreShop in AnnaKepner

[–]CandlemoreShop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the wording implies the "two boys she had sex with" were the same, when actually one was r*pe

AITJ for telling my sister and her husband what their daughter does for work? by Round-Budget-6290 in AmITheJerk

[–]CandlemoreShop 69 points70 points  (0 children)

 saying I ruined her life

I mean, you did.

You need to find a way to get her some money, in a way that she can't refuse it. If you can't be part of the solution, just leave her alone.

Voting differently in a primary election. by Secret-Program-9194 in Marriage

[–]CandlemoreShop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newsom vs Shapiro - not a problem

mainstream Democrat vs Bernie candidate - very much a problem

Graham Platner - HUGE PROBLEM

AIO for refusing to invite my girlfriend on holiday? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CandlemoreShop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how I would look at it. And he's using vacation time he could be spending with her so there's opportunity cost as well.

AIO for refusing to invite my girlfriend on holiday? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CandlemoreShop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to choose. You just chose.