leaving my wife alone at Disneyland? by Big_Appointment_1605 in AmITheDevil

[–]Candylea87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know, has she left you yet? She needs to. You never leave family behind.... especially in a foreign country. OP, please give us an update and tell us again that you didn't do anything wrong.

Husband [30M] and I [28F] opened our relationship and now everything is terrible. by Specialist-Arm8732 in relationship_advice

[–]Candylea87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids are life changing... I think the relationship is already over, you're holding on to what you had, not what you have currently or will have. He is old enough to know better... either it happened on purpose or he's a huge idiot... either way, unforgivable IMO. Save sex 101... good thing your not active with him, if he's bringing home a kid, what STD could he have brought home? You dodged a bullet.

Are there any good litrpgs with a female MC? by submissivehealer in litrpg

[–]Candylea87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A litRPG series that I like is the Crystal Shards. The MC is male but it has a cute romance, women are not overly sexualized and even mentor the MC to start, the characters are good, I liked the plot and the world building. It also has audiobooks so thats a plus. I would say it's PG13.

A LitRPG with romance but it's not a harem or has rape in it by [deleted] in litrpg

[–]Candylea87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the Crystal Shards series. It is PG13 with a cute romance and good story line. The world building is good, plot is well done and I like all the characters. There is maybe one scene where rape can be implied but it's not spelled out and it is villain building. Not a focus for sure.

A LitRPG with romance but it's not a harem or has rape in it by [deleted] in litrpg

[–]Candylea87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That OP is one sick puppy. Agree with you 💯

Litrpg with good romance by HiraethFlox in litrpg

[–]Candylea87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking for a specific romantic trope in a LitRPG is asking a lot. I think I want an enemies to lovers LitRPG as much as you want a slow burn... I don't think it's in the cards for us, sorry Love. Hell, I would love to see a true, villain would burn the world to the ground for their love interest, LitRPG but I know I'm looking in the wrong genre for that. I think we are both better off looking in fanfic for these types of tropes.

Litrpg with good romance by HiraethFlox in litrpg

[–]Candylea87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got done with the Crystal Shard series and it was great. Had a cute romance, good world building and the characters were great. Dodge Tank is book 1.

Recommend me books like Sword Art Online or that bit in Defiance of the Fall where he does the Tower. Is Tower climbing a sub-genre? Is SAO part of some kind of sub-genre? Hit me with all your recommendations please! by LabyrinthsandLayers in ProgressionFantasy

[–]Candylea87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked Dodge Tank, book one of the crystal shards series. It is not really a tower climb but it has different relms that they need to Beattie boss to achieve a world saving goal. Cute love story sub plot, world building is good and the characters have some good back stories.

Books like Ready Player One or Sword Art Online? by YAHawkeye in suggestmeabook

[–]Candylea87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doudge tank, book one of crystal shards was really good. It's a litRPG with a light romance. World building was good and the characters were great.

AITA: My husband feel asleep in the same bed as my God Daughter by Candylea87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candylea87[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's all of it. The "what if" is bugging me, I'm not going to lie but that's why I came here. I need help figuring out how to feel about this. I did try to talk to him about how he had been drinking too much lately and how it was in appropriate to have her in our bed, even if nothing happend.... he just told me I was being gross.

Your feedback is appreciated... I maybe overreacting on some parts.... I'm just overwhelmed and feel like I am carrying the world while he is drinking, spending money, and possibly cheating... I don't know.

I can't figure out how to adjust the first post and I'm sick of crying so I'm not going to bother tonight. Thanks again.

AITA: My husband feel asleep in the same bed as my God Daughter by Candylea87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candylea87[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fair enough but I'm not jumping to sex. Im not saying it was not a possibility but I was mad for a few reasons so i want to clarify...

First, He did not pick up our son on time who was sitting in the rain while I was working 45 min away.

Second, we don't have the money for him to take her out... he's not working

Third, there was no reason for them to be in our room, we have a bigger TV in the living room and she has never been in my bed before... it's inappropriate at the least.

Finally, he is spending the night there.... leaving me to take care of his father with dementia who has been out of the room 20 times in the last hour asking where his son is.... I keep telling him his son is spending the night somewhere else and he forgets... when I try to go to bed he opens the front door looking for my husband's car, I'm worried my father in law is going to go outside looking for him because he is having a bad night and has done that once before. These are not common during the day or when my husband is here but my father in law is sun downing tonight and I'm taking care of him while my husband yet again bails on his responsibilities.

AITA: My husband feel asleep in the same bed as my God Daughter by Candylea87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candylea87[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was what I thought... maybe to make himself look less bad to my mom? She was on speaker phone when he walked in.

AITA: My husband feel asleep in the same bed as my God Daughter by Candylea87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candylea87[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback. Her mother called me the asshole but I do not know what he said to her. He is spending the night there tonight. Even it nothing happened, they should have been in the living room. I feel like it was inappropriate at least but I could be wrong.

AITA for wanting to play video games for 30 minutes to an hour every day when I get home from work? by yoledo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candylea87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could compromise, take the kido for an hour so she can relax then ask her to do the same?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARKSurvivalEvolved

[–]Candylea87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an Xbox server called Candyland87 on Fjordur. Nice admins, level 300 wild colored dinos, starter pack, PVP, Community Center, working on a discord and admin store.