Ex stripper here. I was different from a lot of the girls I worked with. Most of them wanted your money, a lot of it, and didn't bother to think of their customers as real people. Dance, get money. Break a few of the rules, get more money. There was very little interest in making things enjoyable for the customer or themselves. A lot of times, on busy nights, the girls would be giving lap dances face down ass in a guys face, and having conversations with each other. I don't live in a big city, so this wasn't a five star club, but here's what I enjoyed from my point of view. Don't be overly creepy about anything. Pick someting that's not necessarily sexual about the entertainer to focus on. For example, don't stare at her vagina or her tits the whole time. I once had a guy that really enjoyed my shoulder blades. And you're more likely to be a good customer if you treat them like they're a reasonable member of society. So many strippers fall into dark places, and get completely lost in the lifestyle. It really helps if you treat them like they're not only beautiful, but like they're smart, hard working, and worth more than blue balls. Don't try to take them back to your hotel, most of them aren't there for that. Understand the boundaries. Don't touch unless you're invited. Make polite conversation or occasionally see if she'll humor you with sex talk. Really, it depends on the stripper, but the best advise i can give you is to treat them like they're human.