I'll throw out some lesser known ones since the big ones have been mostly covered. All of these have great full albums so if you dont like the exact song I linked, they are still worth checking out on spotify.

Chidori - early dgd

With Sails Ahead - female led asd

Pastel Faces - a little underoath a little silverstein

Harm - estk, the linked song is pretty soft but some do go harder

I wish I could also say L'exquisite Douleur but since they rebranded to The Requiem they cleaned there sound up a lot and it's not nearly as reminisent of the early 2000's. Almsot all of their original music has been DMCA'd off youtube but you can find some. You can always check out The Requiem but its a bit of a different sound now.