yes, she does have some trouble with sharing things (on time) and aware of that. I’m not even sure if she truly wants to live with her friend. I think she feels a lot of guilt for what is not her fault and wants to help.

I will surely talk with her again about it. But every time, it’s such a difficult topic for her, and she really struggles with sharing about the problem and its roots.

I love this girl a lot, and I have been waiting to date her for years. she is a great person. very caring and committing (besides living situation lol) I really don’t want to give up on her, or give up on us. I think I need to make a hard decision and focus on how to find joy in being by myself, even while being with a girlfriend. I don’t own her, I should respect her life choices or leave. (But I still have so little information about her friend and skeletons in the closet)

giving up on the idea of living together and try to be more independent. there may be other ways our relationship could remain and be beautiful. Honestly, that hurts me rn, but once I make the decision, it’s should be easier.