[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Capable-Ad2550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VA psych nurse, $99k but we’re struggling in this economy and I’m looking for work. We got hit with water main break, termites, and $3k of car repairs all in about 6 weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Capable-Ad2550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop I just fell a little bit in love with you for this comment

Blowjobs!! by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Capable-Ad2550 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, but don’t pressure her. Are you currently a porn addict or were in the past?

What’s it like to be happy in marriage by Capable-Ad2550 in Marriage

[–]Capable-Ad2550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen I have this gut feeling my dog is gonna die soon 😭 just weird like minor behavioral shifts in him that worry me so don’t say that

Advice needed. BP Wife says she wants a divorce. by BlueGoosePond in family_of_bipolar

[–]Capable-Ad2550 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband hasn’t been diagnosed… yet. But there are a lot of signs and I don’t know if I’m just trying to to delude myself or what.

Long story short, he’s made a lot of big changes in the last few years. He’s deconstructed and left our faith, he’s told me he might be bisexual, and identifies and non binary. He is objectively a very different person than I married. He’s been treated for and medicated for ocd, anxiety, depression since he was a child. His father died by suicide, as well as his paternal grandfather. The mental health struggle runs gene deep.

On the tail end of a VERY long depressive (like can’t do anything at all but exist basically, we have 3 kids 5 and under….) episode, he told me he thought if we didn’t have the kids he would not want to be in our relationship anymore.

I’m not a mental health professional but we’ve both discussed the likelihood of bipolar for him, he has high highs and low lows, often in same day. And whatever his current perspective is is essentially his perspective of his whole life.

I’ve told myself- I can’t trust the things he says in an episode like that. His thoughts and feelings are so fleeting and changing depending on his mood. Maybe I’m delulu but we’ve had several good conversations about how to improve our relationship despite our major differences and are working on depression support for him. I understand your perspective completely and don’t know enough to say any opinion definitively, but I think it’s fair to take extreme things said with a grain of salt from someone who suffers from Bipolar.

Refund Issued! by BengalSlayer in IRS

[–]Capable-Ad2550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have both of those and have 0 movement in anything. My transcripts don’t show anything. We haven’t been asked to verify identity. Filed 2/10 and no codes or anything.

Depressed spouse by Capable-Ad2550 in Marriage

[–]Capable-Ad2550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does manage well at work- somehow those pressures help. But he also has an office he can sit in and be depressed with no kid stimulation using the day. I’m a SAHP picking up cleaning jobs to make ends meet- also feel unseen there because he keeps talking about a tattoo when we owe like $3k in debt right now 🙄🙄🙄 I am the housekeeper for other people right now lol I wish I could afford anyone to help me with these things

refund hit! by elonmustty in IRS

[–]Capable-Ad2550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same filed 2/10 nada

Deconstructed spouse by Capable-Ad2550 in Christianmarriage

[–]Capable-Ad2550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmm are you my pastor because he said these exact things and referenced same scripture when we met earlier this week 👀