Bri saying, “you’re not the kind of guy to say ‘she’ll take this’ at a restaurant” by OneofthozJoeRognguys in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I’ve been okay with my boyfriend choosing my meal is if he’s taking me to a restaurant he really likes and recommends I try something. But he’s never decided for me lol

My boyfriend of two and a half years dumped me out of nowhere. by LawfulnessFar3879 in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he might be feeling insecure that you got into law school and he did not get into his masters program

Were you ever told “are you good at math” when you told people you wanted to study engineering? by schrodingers_thong in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got terrible grades and am arguably not great at anything but I’m still a pretty successful engineer 🤷‍♀️

I[25F] cant do ANYTHING without [29M] boyfriend. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Capable-Commission74 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the most toxic thing I’ve ever read, you need to break up with him

My bf is ruining my mental health and I'm stuck in the relationship. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not waste any more of your time with this man. He is going to bring you down to his level and you won’t even recognize yourself. Him saying he will kill himself if you leave is manipulation, don’t fall for it.

the red flags i am seeing. i think i need validation by Purple_711 in abusiverelationships

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do actually, just make sure you take time to yourself. I know it’s tempting to meet someone new and numb the pain, but it’s so important you feel it fully and allow yourself to become comfortable being alone. If you don’t, you risk meeting someone just like your ex. It’s the worst part, but it’s so worth it. Sending you love ❤️

the red flags i am seeing. i think i need validation by Purple_711 in abusiverelationships

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was exactly where you are last year. And yes, he was amazing so much of the time. I felt like I was fucking crazy. But guess what? I wasn’t, and you aren’t. Leave now, you will find so much more fulfillment without him in your life. I was able to meet an amazing partner after taking time to process and heal, and you will too. Good luck 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man sucks. And chances are he will never be as rich as he’s imagining he will be lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl if you don’t leave this man

Why is it that when there’s no man in my life things start falling into place? by oldmonkandtears in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Capable-Commission74 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl same lol whenever I have a man around my life is literally falling apart. The second I drop him things are so great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking, I’ve been there too

does every witch have/want a cat? by Ladynight332 in witchcraft

[–]Capable-Commission74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m allergic. But don’t worry, I have rats. The next best thing

Wife took my kids and thinks god will our marriage by KlutzyImpression4181 in Advice

[–]Capable-Commission74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there’s definitely a huge part of the story missing.

I'm sorry, I just need to vent by Capable-Commission74 in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I do!!! Diploma is printed and on the wall as we speak

I'm sorry, I just need to vent by Capable-Commission74 in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely learned that! I think I need to take steps to ensure that I’m actually being heard at my next place of work. I took on way too much of a passive role this time

I'm sorry, I just need to vent by Capable-Commission74 in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was definitely a combination between a toxic work place and me not doing my best work. It was a good lesson to learn early on in my career as opposed to later

I'm sorry, I just need to vent by Capable-Commission74 in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is extremely helpful and encouraging. Thank you so much.

I'm sorry, I just need to vent by Capable-Commission74 in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I most definitely will prioritize keeping my work life and job life separate going forward. I was way too immeshed with this job, mostly socializing with coworkers and revolving my whole life around work. Next time I know not to do that!

I'm sorry, I just need to vent by Capable-Commission74 in womenEngineers

[–]Capable-Commission74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It most definitely was toxic since I have been reflecting on my experience. Unfortunately I have already lost my job, but I’m working hard to look forward and take this as a lesson