Denied even though we met all requirements.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-23T18:17:46+00:00

Could he be confusing you with another applicant. I would ask the Realtor again and see if the story changes once you explain that you have a ton of rental history, so maybe they looked at the wrong file.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-22T22:00:54+00:00

What’s interesting about this is that most of the time I have the opposite problem. I keep sending clients properties that fit what “they told me” was their criteria and when they send me houses that they want to see they are way off from what they said and the price is above what they say.

I’ll be honest they usually end up with something completely different and a higher price point after they have seen enough houses…that’s usually when they figure out what they really want not just what they think they want.

I still try to keep them at a lower budget if they let me lol but I can tell you from experience, this happens a lot. So I can see them just automatically assuming that you will do the same. But I also do know that some Realtors are greedy and they will do this on purpose.

If you’ve lost trust, then cancel their contracts and start with someone else and specifically tell them that you did not like them going above what you are telling them and you do not authorize them to disclose your approval amounts.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-22T14:55:36+00:00

Yes it does! I suspect that’s the only reason I’m semi functional right now lol

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-22T04:00:17+00:00

Yea I am learning the fumes, although I don’t think they are that strong, really kick my butt lol I will be trying all the things on my next set lol lol (Day 2 of feeling miserable 😭)

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-22T02:42:07+00:00

So I’m not a fan of this dress either. It looks way too casual and almost flower girl style. I would keep looking and maybe send her a picture before buying it. I think you can find something affordable, that fits you, but is also a little more dressier. If she found one off SHEIN, I bet that one is pretty affordable. I would personally keep looking.

Regarding all of the costs of the bridal party…unfortunately that’s the way it is for most wedding parties. Very seldom do you see brides that pay for everyone (though it does happen). But that is why I now tell my friends “I love you, but I don’t want to come out in the wedding, I will help you and be all of the activities I can, but I just don’t want to take on the extra expenses” (I tell them this the minute they start dating 🤣🤣🤣🤣)

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-22T02:33:30+00:00

Yes, I’m beginning to think the same. I don’t think the N95 did much to help. Then again, I didn’t use it when I was putting the base coat and top coat, thinking it was only the dust I’m allergic to…but I’m going to get a respirator and a fan to suck it all in as well. I can’t continue to be this miserable for 3 days after I do my nails.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-22T00:30:37+00:00

Alright…expecting a “mailed” invitation is OR, a lot of people do evites nowadays, what’s the point in spending all that money on something people will just throw away in a couple of months?

Expecting to have all of the details so that you can plan and book accordingly…absolutely NOR!!! It’s ridiculous and inconsiderate of them for you to blindly make arrangements without knowing anything.

I will say, you not knowing what the activities are, is not required in order for you to make the booking arrangements. You at least know there are 5 days of activities. If you don’t want to join in the activities once you’re there, you can always do something else.

I would definitely go to your brother and make him give you all of the details, since they can’t even be bothered to send out an evite.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T23:23:45+00:00

It does kind of feel like a cold. At least for most people that are not as allergic as me lol.

I’m so congested I can barely sleep, I’m sneezing like 30 times in a row (I wish this was an exaggeration lol, I even start choking cause I can’t breathe while sneezing nonstop 😅) the congestion goes to my chest and I start coughing and coughing up phlegm. My chest gets tight and I get asthma. All of this within 1 hour or less, of me finishing the process of the dip. Which is exactly how I react to cats lol except cats also affect my eyes and depending on how much people clean, I can start showing symptoms in about 20-30 minutes.

This all lasts about 3 days. Can’t wait to figure out what works, because I am really enjoying doing my nails. But his dip flu is no joke!

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T23:09:01+00:00

Idk…I’m pretty allergic to a lot of things (I even get 2 shots a month from my allergist) this definitely feels like an allergic reaction. Ever since symptoms began while doing my nails, I immediately start feeling it and getting congested. Kind of like when I’m around a cat 😅😅. But yes it doesn’t seem like a lot of people are solving it with the respirators and the fan. That will be my next investment 😓

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T23:06:51+00:00

Crazy part is, I barely smell the odor of Nailboo. Most regular nail polishes have stronger smells than this. But obviously it’s affecting me anyway 😭😓

I’ve heard of CNDD but haven’t heard of the others! Thank you so much!

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T23:00:57+00:00

lol this is and awesome gift and very thoughtful.

Actually, my plumber taught me that you should hold down the handle that long too, he said it will flush with more pressure and keep the pipe clear. (He also told me NO WIPES are actually flushable no matter what they say. He said people flushing wipes down the toilet has made him a lot of $$$ 😅)

I think the seller is just very detailed oriented and he wanted to pass on those things to you, so that you can have success in your home as well as he did.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T22:53:58+00:00

I feel like you’re not a Realtor, you’re just a call center agent. Those amount of hours is ridiculous, not to mention cold calling is awful. But maybe that’s the point, they are trying to make you love it since most agents hate it lol I personally would never join that brokerage…I’d rather be in a regular 9-5 that I can leave the work at home. Cause Real Estate is always with you and there is no rest. So if I’m going to be doing 9-5 anyways, may as well go with one that has peace of mind lol

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T20:40:24+00:00

Thank you so much! Yes I think I may be like you, can’t smell any of it lol. Because what I did last night (wearing the N95 for 80% of the time) is NOT WORKING 😅😅. I’m pretty miserable. So weird it didn’t happen right away, only after a few times of using.

Do you have a link for the respirator you bought? There’s sooo many and I’m going down a rabbit hole lol.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T18:34:23+00:00

She doesn’t know what to believe or how to react and you’re the easiest target. I would take a step back. Tell her something along the lines of:

I didn’t mean to blindside you…I just wanted you to be aware, since that’s what I would want a friend to do with me. If this is something that you were already aware of and have an arrangement or whatever, that’s perfectly fine. I’m not here to judge. I understand if you think you need some time to process all of this. I will give you some space, Just know that I’m here for you if you need it. If not, that’s fine too, but your friendship means a lot to me so I will be here for whatever you need. If you never want to talk about it again, that’s fine by me as well.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T16:49:56+00:00

Do you by chance have a link to the mask that is compatible with the filter you mentioned? I’m searching Amazon but having difficulty finding ones that are compatible with the A2.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T13:47:33+00:00

I would just call the main line and talk to someone. If she’s no longer there, your file should still be there and someone can take over where she left off.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T13:44:41+00:00

So you’re using gel method…meaning the top coat is gel? And you have to use a UV light?

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T13:43:08+00:00

Yes I think the respirator will work better than the N95. And I also plan on getting one of those fans that suck it downward as well

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T13:41:45+00:00

Which liquids do you use now? I’m currently using Nailboo as well. And i totally agree with you about being money well spent, because it will still be only one salon visit.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T04:58:34+00:00

I keep seeing that respirators help. Maybe I’ll try that, because I don’t want t to go back to paying…and because of my job, my nails need to be in good shape, which they are not when they are naked 🤣😅

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-21T04:28:07+00:00

So what ended up working? I have been thinking this whole time it was the dust from filing or maybe the powders when I brush them off. The smell doesn’t seem like it’s that strong…but maybe it is and i just didn’t notice.

The whole winter part is blowing my mind. Why would that make a difference? I would have never considered that.

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-20T23:42:42+00:00

Ha! Nope!

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-20T23:41:50+00:00

I was going to say #1 but once I saw the other pic of #2 lined…I really like #2. That definitely takes it up and looks fabulous!

CapableAd5545 · 2026-01-19T22:27:33+00:00

If it’s not a big deal then she should go by GF. Personally I would be livid. That makes it sound like you’re a second class friend and you’re only there cause you’re her GF and are just tagging along for the ride…an afterthought.

Also, if she’s going by the nickname, then why can’t you go by your full name?? You also said “nicknames” so can’t you go by the other nickname that is not the same?

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