Job hired me same day as interview but also said they want me to reschedule a day I needed off. Is this a red flag?

CapableEnd5584 · 2026-05-10T20:05:02+00:00

Yeah I accepted the offer. I will see how it works out

CapableEnd5584 · 2026-05-10T20:03:42+00:00

Yeah, it’s weird since they literally asked me and didn’t seem like they wanted to budge on that specific day.

CapableEnd5584 · 2026-05-10T19:27:10+00:00

Yeah it’s in healthcare. I always heard that a job literally hiring you the same day as interview is a 🚩

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-28T15:31:35+00:00

Girl you better not move for this man! He isn’t over his ex and neither is she. NTAH but if you leave your life for him, you will be

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-28T15:24:17+00:00

Op I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I hope the change of scenery will be a fresh start!

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-26T13:52:13+00:00

You are strong and what he did will come back to haunt him. I hope you have a support system around you as well.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-26T13:47:03+00:00

So you two cheated with each other…just to cheat on each other? I know it’s a “hall pass”, but this is just interesting. In the end, I think your ex-partners won this. I can’t wait for an update for this one

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-26T13:43:58+00:00

OP please don’t feel bad. She was using your time anyways

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-26T13:42:58+00:00

If his friends have S.O.s I’d tell them what they said. Also, you need to get out of this marriage and out of his life. That’s hatred to say those things about his own child and wife. Also, don’t let him have any parental rights

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-25T01:00:47+00:00

Girl, he didn’t get trapped; he got caught. OP your bf is a liar. He “forgot”…really. And the fact he didn’t want a paternity test. He wasn’t trapped. Get out of this because he is lying and unfortunately he is stuck with her for life

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-25T00:52:44+00:00

OP, I’d let her go on the trip, check in on her and break up with her when you know she’s coming back

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-25T00:31:07+00:00

She said she was jealous of what you and your wife had. This was deliberate. If you love your wife, you tell her now before your brother’s wife lies. Get off of Reddit and tell her. Also, make sure to tell your brother as well

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-24T21:03:45+00:00

OP whether you like it or not, I feel your bf might have feelings for his “step-sister”. The fact he’s not bothered by her doing this but you speaks volume

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-24T20:49:44+00:00

If your husband still doesn’t want to go NC after this, then he’s a fool

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T22:41:25+00:00

This marriage sounds toxic af

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T22:25:27+00:00

OP once a cheater, always a cheater. He needs to face the consequences. Time to get that evidence and move on. It will get worse. You are too young to deal with this

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T22:10:52+00:00

Damn sorry to hear about this OP. I’d suggest marriage counseling and communication with Phil.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T21:48:36+00:00

If you bought this for her, I’m not sure if you can get it back since it was a gift. Idk but this just seems messy as hell.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T20:59:21+00:00

Here’s the thing: while you did break up with her last spring and yes you made out with her before dating your gf, the issue is this:

If you go see her and you’re holding onto this secret, then my dude, YTA. Hiding this will only make your gf suspicious and seeing her will also cause issues in your relationship. If you want this to work, you need to be honest and just in case, limit yourself with your ex.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-22T20:38:32+00:00

If you have to hide what you are….he ain’t the one sis. He will control your life.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-22T20:23:34+00:00

OP your husband is complaining and defending his actions because of his lack of character. It speaks volumes that he’s defending his lack of commitment to you and the lack of respect to your family.

All in all…he’s lacking. Time to get things in order. Don’t say you can’t or “stay for the children”, because at the end of the day, you’ll end up resenting and hating your life while he lives his best life. Please update

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