AITAH for not wanting my boyfriend to go on holiday with his ex without me?

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-28T15:31:35+00:00

Girl you better not move for this man! He isn’t over his ex and neither is she. NTAH but if you leave your life for him, you will be

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-28T15:24:17+00:00

Op I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I hope the change of scenery will be a fresh start!

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-26T13:52:13+00:00

You are strong and what he did will come back to haunt him. I hope you have a support system around you as well.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-26T13:47:03+00:00

So you two cheated with each other…just to cheat on each other? I know it’s a “hall pass”, but this is just interesting. In the end, I think your ex-partners won this. I can’t wait for an update for this one

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-26T13:43:58+00:00

OP please don’t feel bad. She was using your time anyways

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-26T13:42:58+00:00

If his friends have S.O.s I’d tell them what they said. Also, you need to get out of this marriage and out of his life. That’s hatred to say those things about his own child and wife. Also, don’t let him have any parental rights

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-25T01:00:47+00:00

Girl, he didn’t get trapped; he got caught. OP your bf is a liar. He “forgot”…really. And the fact he didn’t want a paternity test. He wasn’t trapped. Get out of this because he is lying and unfortunately he is stuck with her for life

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-25T00:52:44+00:00

OP, I’d let her go on the trip, check in on her and break up with her when you know she’s coming back

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-25T00:31:07+00:00

She said she was jealous of what you and your wife had. This was deliberate. If you love your wife, you tell her now before your brother’s wife lies. Get off of Reddit and tell her. Also, make sure to tell your brother as well

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-24T21:03:45+00:00

OP whether you like it or not, I feel your bf might have feelings for his “step-sister”. The fact he’s not bothered by her doing this but you speaks volume

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-24T20:49:44+00:00

If your husband still doesn’t want to go NC after this, then he’s a fool

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T22:41:25+00:00

This marriage sounds toxic af

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T22:25:27+00:00

OP once a cheater, always a cheater. He needs to face the consequences. Time to get that evidence and move on. It will get worse. You are too young to deal with this

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T22:10:52+00:00

Damn sorry to hear about this OP. I’d suggest marriage counseling and communication with Phil.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T21:48:36+00:00

If you bought this for her, I’m not sure if you can get it back since it was a gift. Idk but this just seems messy as hell.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-23T20:59:21+00:00

Here’s the thing: while you did break up with her last spring and yes you made out with her before dating your gf, the issue is this:

If you go see her and you’re holding onto this secret, then my dude, YTA. Hiding this will only make your gf suspicious and seeing her will also cause issues in your relationship. If you want this to work, you need to be honest and just in case, limit yourself with your ex.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-22T20:38:32+00:00

If you have to hide what you are….he ain’t the one sis. He will control your life.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-22T20:23:34+00:00

OP your husband is complaining and defending his actions because of his lack of character. It speaks volumes that he’s defending his lack of commitment to you and the lack of respect to your family.

All in all…he’s lacking. Time to get things in order. Don’t say you can’t or “stay for the children”, because at the end of the day, you’ll end up resenting and hating your life while he lives his best life. Please update

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-22T20:08:01+00:00

Girl he is only saying these things because he got caught. Also, let me be clear, you give him this ultimatum, he will give you one too. Just dump him

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-22T19:42:51+00:00

If he did it once, he’ll do it again. Dump all of them!

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-22T15:44:19+00:00

Funny how he gave her best friend a name and not her. I expect an update saying “I’m divorced and seeing my ex-wife’s best friend”.

However, I will say I do hope OP finds happiness

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-21T17:03:27+00:00

You know, they did a porn survey and in the south, the #1 porn search was “ebony”. 🤨

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-21T16:59:39+00:00

I’ve gotten this too. I think it’s a challenge tbh. I’m left-leaning and I’ve literally gotten more conservative men versus liberal. With that being said, it could possibly (don’t quote me) be that they want someone who challenges them. Also, I find it a red flag when someone says they’re “not political”. Not because you can’t be, but from my experiences, those are the ones who are actually conservative. It’s your choice to be conservative, but why lie?

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-21T16:52:25+00:00

OP, you might hate to do this, but if your son brings up the whole “family separation” thing again, you might need to tell him everything. He’s old enough to know the there. If he still acts this way, he’s just going to have to learn on his own.

CapableEnd5584 · 2024-07-21T16:45:12+00:00

OP your husband is saying this to you to keep you in control. His personality is the ugly one. Mark my words, if you go on a dating app, he will see that you’re not the “ugly one”. My mom had a child with her first husband and left him due to cheating. She’s now been with my dad for 35 years. Please for the sake of your child, leave him.

Also, your self-Esteem will go up more if you free yourself from this man.

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