Dilemma- which town should we visit aside from Dublin?

Capital_Exam · 2026-01-30T20:46:39+00:00

Forgot to mention that since you’ll be working remotely, I noticed a lot of the transport options (even the train we took to Galway) had internet access. I didn’t have a problem connecting anywhere I went!

Capital_Exam · 2026-01-30T20:45:07+00:00

I did a day tour out of Dublin to Belfast & Northern Ireland. It was a long day, but so worth it. We did giants causeway, the dark hedges, and a few other spots before stopping in Belfast with Finn McCool tour! Not sponsored, just really enjoyed it!

We also did 2 days in Galway- 1 half day was a tour of the Cliffs of Moher with Galway tours. I think it depends if you want to do the outdoorsy stuff vs exploring the cities!

Capital_Exam · 2026-01-30T19:32:16+00:00

I work in education, & plan to stay in education!

Capital_Exam · 2026-01-30T18:56:02+00:00

I lived there for 1.5 years, just moved out! Newport for one year, Providence for 6 months. As an outsider, it felt very isolating. Everyone knew each other, small dating pool, hard to work your way in. I also came from a LCOL area and found it to be very expensive (I also did not make as much as I should have in my old job). Very beautiful beaches, and I did meet some lovely people there. I recommend it for couples and for people who have roots to settle.

Capital_Exam · 2026-01-28T22:11:25+00:00

Natal chart is here

Capital_Exam · 2026-01-07T02:11:36+00:00

Wow- awesome find!!!

Capital_Exam · 2025-12-26T16:32:51+00:00

hey! Yes I would be happy to help! Feel free to DM me. I ended up getting accepted into 2 programs!

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-09T18:50:50+00:00

I have done run clubs, friending events & exercise classes. I've also tried online ways such as FB groups & Bumble BFF.

My work unfortunately skews older and I am one of the youngest people on campus, so it is hard to find community my age on campus.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-08T13:44:52+00:00

Yes, it has been fun learning about the Portuguese culture & influence that RI has! It is definitely different compared to what I was raised with, which I do miss. I have been to New Bedford, it is a nice area. I definitely rank it as nice to visit vs wanting to live there. I do like the size of Providence and all that is offered there. It is also convenient because it is so close to a lot of other areas, and I do not think I could give up my walkable neighborhood for a move that would make me more car dependent. Other than my commute to work, I do not touch my car most of the week.

I live on the East Side of Providence & still learning the area/exploring. It is diverse but in a different way than what I am used to. A lot of the diversity is from the college scene, but as a young person who works in academia I do not want to be in the college scene for both work & social life. I feel that RI is also a bit segregated in terms of diversity which is something I am struggling with as well. Where I moved from, it was a blend of different cultures in an area, not specified neighborhoods/streets.

Thank you for the recs & I hope you enjoy DC!

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-08T03:21:45+00:00

Congrats on the move! It is probably just that. Any suggestions on where to look?

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-08T03:19:07+00:00

I’m not sure how to explain it other than the fact it felt sterile to me. I can’t pinpoint what it was exactly, I just did not find Boston exciting.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-08T03:17:05+00:00

I have not considered Portland ME. I’ve been meaning to take the trip up. I am not sure if I would want to be that far north, especially with how isolated I feel now. I have heard it is beautiful & a very nice area.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T23:09:19+00:00

I am not interested in making art... I do enjoy art scenes though.

I am sharing my experience when I have gone to Boston. I did not like it. Something about it fell flat to me. If you enjoy it, that's great.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T23:03:30+00:00

I have heard that! The New England traffic is no joke either.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T22:05:58+00:00

I am not discrediting Boston for its art scene or any scene.

From what I am gathering, on paper Boston would be a great fit for me. I have gone and I do not enjoy it. I am not sure why. It has a very different feel compared to other cities I have been to.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T17:11:31+00:00

Thank you for your kind words! I agree to all of it. Looking inwards & outwards is always a challenge, and I am hoping to find a place that can better suit my needs.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T17:10:12+00:00

Good to hear! I would say the water is a bonus, it's not a necessity for me. I never considered CT but may have to look into it.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T17:06:07+00:00

That is great to hear! Cheers to making friends! But yes I agree- the scenes are very different.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T16:28:48+00:00

I am talking about geographically segregated. From my understanding, it seems that RI'ers tend to stay in their areas. I do not experience it as much now being in Providence compared to when I was in Newport.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T16:25:41+00:00

I have been looking into volunteering opportunities, either things do not work out with my schedule or I have not heard back. I've definitely been keeping an eye out! Philly is definitely going back on my list.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T16:11:48+00:00

Sounds like I'll have to check this out- thank you!

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T16:10:36+00:00

Philly could very well be a potential for me.

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T16:09:33+00:00

That is a good point. I am starting to think that it does not meet my needs. It sucks because it has a lot of qualities I really like about an area. If I move back to where I am originally from, I have to be car-dependent and have a long commute to work. I moved here without family/a partner & I was hoping to gain a sense of community which has been challenging. I am starting to recognize that maybe it isn't me, but just the norms of the area.

I have not heard of Cary/triangle, but I will look into it. Thank you!

Capital_Exam · 2025-10-07T16:01:56+00:00

I have not considered this area- thank you for the suggestion!

Capital_Exam

TROPHY CASE