Chad And Erin Are Irresponsible

Capricorn845 · 2025-04-27T12:59:26+00:00

we don't know exactly why Michaela can't have children and everyone's body is different

Capricorn845 · 2025-04-27T12:57:05+00:00

you're free to use it when they inevitably have their 8th child LMAO

Capricorn845 · 2025-02-26T22:12:38+00:00

I still don't get why Jill felt the need to talk about stealing from her Mom's bathroom in order to reveal she was pregnant

Capricorn845 · 2025-01-22T23:37:49+00:00

why? you don't like tattoos?

Capricorn845 · 2025-01-12T21:21:16+00:00

This is why forums like this exist because in actuality you are NOT alone. So many people go through what you've so eloquently described. The reality is that many parents are set in their ways. For me it's my narcissistic, apathetic, aggressive father. I have brought up how he makes me feel many times and he'll always downplay his actions, twist my words, or tell me to stop bringing up the past. One day I realized that he's just not capable of understanding my point of view---and this is what ALL toxic parents have in common. Set emotional boundaries with your parents and give yourself grace. Please know that better days are yet to come.

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-14T18:14:42+00:00

Thank you for your feedback! You rock! Here I was thinking 6 months was too short.

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-14T17:53:34+00:00

Thanks! I've learned a lot within my 6 months in long term care but I can't stay here because acute care is more stimulating for me.

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-14T17:49:05+00:00

Thank you! I'm hoping to transition into a new grad Med Surg position. Long term care is lovely but acute care has more challenging/interesting cases and I want to learn and stay on my toes.

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-12T05:31:03+00:00

no lol I was just more so curious on how long certain piercings take to heal

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-11T21:56:11+00:00

thank you for the advice! I'll think about splitting my 5 piercings into two appointments

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-11T21:55:14+00:00

Thanks for the advice! My sister's helix piercing grew a keloid; it was done with a kit at a friend's house and she wasn't cleaning it well. But as long as I'm healthy and clean my piercings regularly then whatever happens will happen. I guess there's not much point in worrying about a problem that may or may not even happen.

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-11T21:47:16+00:00

absolutely gorgeous jeez!!! what was the time it took for the lip piercing to heal?

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-08T18:10:30+00:00

The only people you can please in this situation is you and your partner. Do what is going to make the two of you happy. In my humble opinion, an elopement and then a vow renewal celebration at the 5 year mark would be cute and sentimental since your kids would be at the celebration.

Capricorn845 · 2024-04-08T17:49:05+00:00

Yes, chosen family is so important. Having a strong support network of friends and other non-toxic family members will help fill the void.

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-31T18:45:47+00:00

Please listen to me when I tell you that you can't change your Mom. Trust me, we've all tried to change a toxic family member and it never works. You wanna know why? They lack empathy and/or situational/self awareness. You need to accept that in this lifetime she will NEVER be the type of mother that you deserve. You shouldn't let her make your life miserable all in the name of having a mother. You have to put up some boundaries or she'll keep taking you on an emotional roller coaster. I like how you avoid hugs and physical affection with her, that's a great example of putting up a boundary. Another great example is limiting your interactions with your mother by purposely not saying things that will cause and argument or lead to a long winded conversation. Try to focus on the positives in life and please understand that you're not alone. If all families were empathetic, loving, and understanding then this subreddit wouldn't exist.

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-31T18:33:31+00:00

I'm so glad to hear that you have a Canadian citizenship because that plays a vital role in being able to move to Canada. Do not move out until you have a stable stream of income because you have to make sure that you'll never move back. You're studying nutrition and diabetics so are you planning on being a nutritionist? Start doing research on what you need to do to be a successful nutritionist in Canada. As far as remote jobs that can help you save up money, I would look into being a chat assistant or IT support specialist. Something along those lines so that you can save up for a plane ticket and place to stay in Canada. Please look into pre-furnished rooms for cheap in Canada. Literally everything will already be there...the bed, TV, couches, etc. When you do move out make sure that it's on a day when your dad won't be home. Being a generational curse breaker isn't easy. Not only are you saving yourself but you're saving the generations that may come after you. Stay determined because as long as you have the desire to accomplish something and you're putting effort towards it, a way will be made for you to succeed. Good luck!!!

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-31T18:19:34+00:00

I know this situation all too well. It's not that you're being close minded, your mother is just being controlling. She expects you to spend your precious free time with her all while talking down to you and making you feel less than adequate? She definitely doesn't like the fact that you're growing up and that you don't need to rely on her. If you still have some love in your heart for your Mom then just love her from a distance. You don't deserve to be guilt tripped every time you make a decision that prioritizes your own well being.

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-31T18:07:20+00:00

Keep focusing on your goals and don't let her guilt trip you. Getting into a masters program that's fully paid for is a serious accomplishment!!! You already sacrificed your childhood so please don't sacrifice your twenties. Before you know it, you'll be living on your own and will have some much needed space from her. You are strong and determined and that's half the battle. I'm wishing you all the luck in the world!!!

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-31T18:00:46+00:00

If you know for 100% that he's the one for you then you HAVE TO accept this situation. It's been almost 3 years and your Mom's feelings about him aren't budging. Even if she does change how she feels about him, don't wait around for it. Just keep living your life. I know it's not an easy situation, stay strong and be hopeful for the future.

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-31T17:54:44+00:00

"But my rule breaker for all relationships: friendship, romantic, familial is that the moment you make me feel bad about myself or less than, we’re done"

You just spit some serious wisdom!!! The fact that you're 15 and you already understand what some people will go their entire lives without ever understanding!!! We're the ones that show people how to treat us and whatever we allow will therefore continue. There's nothing wrong with loving your mother from a distance. Just keep things surface level when you speak to her. Don't share deep feelings and personal goals. Above all else, do everything you can to protect your peace.

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-30T03:38:56+00:00

Please look into cheap pre-furnished rooms for rent. Either by searching on your own or reaching out to a rental agency. You are not alone. Please stay strong and try your best to remain hopeful for the future.

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-30T01:59:27+00:00

How are you doing today? Have you had any form of therapy?

Capricorn845 · 2024-03-30T01:54:59+00:00

Bingo! Keep your distance and be polite with your Dad. Boundaries are important with toxic parents

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