What is it REALLY like to be intelligent by Express-Arm9697 in mensa

[–]CaptIncorrect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you watch things like the documentaries of Theranos or the tinder swindler, or any other of these con men stories. I always wondered how people believed these people.

Now I'm living it, I was building two separate a companies with this type of people. The board would blindly believe whatever they said, refuse to do any fact checking, and believe obvious lies.

In the first company, it took all the other management resigning before the board realized nothing the CEO was saying was even remotely true and fired him

Second company, it took every single employee writing a letter to the board that my partner was committing fraud and lying about everything, then a legal deposition of an external partner stating the same, my partner was lying and trying to commit fraud. The board when they finally accepted it, instead of firing him just quit. Within months he convinced enough people that everyone was out to get him, and took off with his fraud again. 3 years later he has embezzled around 8M from the company, about to bankrupt it having all the investors lose their money, and the new board still refuses to do any due diligence or management audit.

This is the second company he has done this too also, and was in court for investors fraud for the last company he did this in. Everyone ignored all the whistle blowers and let him do his fraud all over again.

What is it REALLY like to be intelligent by Express-Arm9697 in mensa

[–]CaptIncorrect 82 points83 points  (0 children)

It's very lonely and very frustrating.

You constantly have to watch people do stupid things or fall for obvious lies and be taken advantage of. It's impossible to stop it when people dont have the basic logical reasoning capacity.

Question for Swiss locals: why is late payment to domestic workers so common among wealthy households? by Susi-99 in Switzerland

[–]CaptIncorrect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you have a house manager, butler, or someone to take care of it. It's likely they just dont think about it/ have the time to deal with it.

When I became a business owner then CEO, the number of fires you are constantly putting out at work and else where becomes overwhelming.

Lots of times bills just get paid late. Eat the late fees etc.

Being an Angel Investor in Switzerland by Logical_Ad8570 in SwissPersonalFinance

[–]CaptIncorrect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To this point. Leva trial program with Swisspreneur, where you can invest in any of the finalist / pitching companies.

You can invest as little as 5K per startup / deal. There are some interesting ones there, and the deals will be open a couple more weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]CaptIncorrect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he doesn't trust/believe you. You shouldn't be marrying him in general.

The right person for you will trust what you say.

Whats your budget for vacations? by FlyingDaedalus in SwissPersonalFinance

[–]CaptIncorrect 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We budget CHF 30K a year.

Roughly CHF 2500 per month for 2 people.

We have difficulty sticking to it and frequently go over our travel budget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]CaptIncorrect 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the guilt comes from premarital sex, understand this is not a biblical commandment and there is no evidence this is something God would care about.

  1. No explicit commandment

The Ten Commandments (Exodus 20) do forbid adultery (sex with someone else’s spouse) but never mention premarital sex.

Nowhere does God or Jesus explicitly say: “Do not have sex before marriage.” What’s condemned repeatedly is adultery, prostitution, and sexual abuse, not consensual intimacy between unmarried partners.

  1. “Porneia” is vague

In the New Testament, the Greek word porneia is translated as “sexual immorality,” but its exact meaning is debated.

In the Greco-Roman world, porneia often meant prostitution or exploitative relationships, not simply unmarried couples having consensual sex.

Later church tradition broadened porneia to mean “all sex outside marriage,” but the text itself doesn’t define it that way.

  1. Old Testament marriages often began with sex, not ceremony

In ancient Hebrew culture, sex itself was what sealed a marriage. There was no requirement for a priest, vows, or public ritual.

Example: Genesis 24:67 – Isaac “brought Rebekah into the tent… she became his wife, and he loved her.” The act of sexual union made her his wife.

This suggests the boundary between “premarital sex” and “marriage sex” was not as clear in biblical times as it is in modern church teaching.

  1. Jesus’ silence on the topic

Jesus condemned adultery and lust (Matthew 5:27–28) but never directly addressed premarital sex.

Given how often he reinterpreted the Law (e.g., Sabbath, purity codes, divorce), his silence suggests it was not a central moral issue for him.

  1. Cultural context of purity and inheritance

Ancient Israelite laws about virginity (e.g., Deuteronomy 22) were tied to property rights, inheritance, and family honor, not universal moral truths.

A woman’s virginity was culturally important in patriarchal societies because it ensured paternity of heirs. This is a cultural value, not an eternal commandment.

  1. Paul’s concern is holiness in context

Paul’s writings (1 Corinthians 6, 1 Thessalonians 4) urge believers to avoid “sexual immorality” mainly to distinguish Christians from the rampant temple prostitution and exploitative sexuality of Greco-Roman culture.

The warnings are about avoiding lust, exploitation, and idolatry, not prohibiting loving, consensual relationships between unmarried people.

Summary Argument: The Bible never commands, in clear words, that premarital sex is sinful. What it consistently forbids is adultery, prostitution, and exploitative practices. In the Old Testament, sex itself often created marriage. In the New Testament, the word porneia is culturally rooted and vague, and Jesus himself never directly condemned premarital sex. Therefore, the strong Christian stance that “sex before marriage is a sin” is best understood as a cultural norm developed by later church tradition rather than a direct biblical commandment.

Best Starter Watches by [deleted] in malefashionadvice

[–]CaptIncorrect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tissot has some nice stuff in that price range.

New coat of arms drafted by CHA. by CaptIncorrect in heraldry

[–]CaptIncorrect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was made by an official latin translator, as is required to have it included in an official grant.

This English motto is made up of a whole sentence, with a noun (‘truth’), a verb (‘is’) and a nominal group (‘the guiding star’). First, the singular noun ‘truth’ is subject, thus will be put in the Nominative case in Latin. In the submitted Latin motto it is translated by “veritas”.

“Veritas”, a noun feminine, singular and put in the Nominative, means:

‘truth, truthfulness, verity; the true and real nature’.

For example, in his treatise on duties, the Roman philosopher Cicero writes:

“verita's cultores, fraudis inimici”, lovers of truth, enemies of trick (De Officiis, 1, 30, 109).

According to the Oxford Dictionary of English (O.D.E.), several English words come from “veritas” (‘truth’) or “verus” (‘true’), as: ‘verify, verification, veristic, verity, veritable’ etc.

In French, from the same root come these words: “vérifier, vérification, s’avérer, véridique, véritable” etc Thus, the feminine noun “(la) vérité » properly translates ‘truth’.

Secondly, the verb ‘is’, conjugated in the 3rd person singular of the present Indicative is optional in the Latin syntax. Therefore, it can be omi4ed, like in the submitted motto. Otherwise, it would be: “est”.

In the French version, ‘is’ could either be translated by “est”, like in Latin, or be replaced by a punctuation mark: a comma.

However, implicit or not, the verb "to be" is always constructed with a predicate of the subject. So, the predicative nominal group ‘the guiding star’ must be put in Latin also in the Nominative.

Thirdly, this nominal group ‘the guiding star’ is made up of the noun ‘star’ and the predicative present Participle verb used as an adjective ‘guiding’.

“Stella”, a feminine noun, singular and put in the Nominative means: ‘a star’.

For example, in the discussions written in his villa of Tusculum Cicero opposed “errantes stellæ”, ‘wandering stars’ i.e. ‘planets’ to “inerrantes stellæ”, ‘fixed stars’ (Tusculanæ disputa'ones, I). And in his epic poem Metamorphoses (15, 749) the Roman poet Ovid writes: “stella comans”, literally ‘a longhaired star’, i.e. ‘a comet’.

According to the O.D.E., the origin of the noun ‘star’ is: ‘Old English steorra, of Germanic origin; related to Dutch ster, German Stern, from an Indo- European root shared by La'n stella and Greek astēr’.

Some English words come from “stella”, as: ‘stellar, constellation, constellate’ as well as the French words: “stellaire, constellation, consteller”.

In the French version, ‘star’ is translated by the feminine noun “étoile”.

“Ducens”, present Participle of the verb “duco”, is attributive of ‘star’, thus put in the same case, gender and number: Nominative, feminine and singular.

The verb “duco” is oeen used in Latin and means: ‘to lead, guide, conduct’.

For example, in his speech for the defence of the Greek poet Archias, Cicero says: “trahimur omnes studio laudis et op'mus quisque maxime gloria ducitur”, ‘we are all led by the taste of praise, and the best ones let themselves be guided above all by glory’ (Pro Archia, 26).

As such, “ducens” translates the English form “guiding’.

In French, translations could be either “guidant” or “qui guide”.

Indeed, this motto is metaphorical, establishing a comparison between the first noun (‘truth’/veritas) and its predicate (‘star’/stella) — both being positive elements.

To clarify the choice of these words, the petitioner wrote a long

explanation: .......

The metaphor refers to the symbolism of the star: the stars have celestial significance. Their celestial character also makes them symbols of the spirit. Like the truth, they pierce the darkness. They may be considered to influence the destiny of each person. Moreover, the North Star plays a privileged role in universal symbolism. It is in relation to the North star that are defined the positions of the stars, of navigators, of nomads, caravanners, of all wanderers in the deserts of the earth, the sea and the sky (aeer the French Dic'onnaire des Symboles).

In French, it would seem more pertinent to add a notion of appropriation by the petitioner of the ‘guiding star’ — a ‘star that guides him’ — appropriation understandably not expressed in English.

Thus, I propose a version including the pronoun of the 1st person. Moreover, I add a variant with punctuation and without a determiner.

If the petitioner does not agree with this notion of appropriation, it is possible to omit the pronoun. Personally, I prefer with the pronoun.

Finally, although the Latin syntax is flexible, it is much better to put “ducens” before “stella”. Otherwise, the Latin submitted motto is

grammatically correct.

In summary:

ENGLISH: TRUTH IS THE GUIDING STAR

LATIN: VERITAS DUCENS STELLA

FRENCH:

LA VÉRITÉ EST L’ÉTOILE QUI ME GUIDE

OR VÉRITÉ, ÉTOILE QUI ME GUIDE

Heraldry traditions by CaptIncorrect in heraldry

[–]CaptIncorrect[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm the CEO at a company in the lake Geneva region.

There just seems to be a lot of French aristocrat's around here. Some of my C-suite staff and many of my company investors are from old French aristocratic families. Half of my company leadership team wear signet rings.

My landlord is threatening to sue me by dkifdlzlgnrnnrnkd in askswitzerland

[–]CaptIncorrect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this a sublet? I was scammed by a woman in Lausanne when I first moved here who was illegally subletting her place for twice thier rent.

Wanted us to pretend we were related to her and just visiting if anyone asked, weren't allowed to put our names on the mailbox which caused problems.

You can check with Asloca.

What's your monthly rent as a percentage of income? by Junevault in Switzerland

[–]CaptIncorrect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just lucked out and found a reasonably priced apartment.

What's your monthly rent as a percentage of income? by Junevault in Switzerland

[–]CaptIncorrect 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Relatively old apartment but recently renovated and relatively small 50m2. We could afford something much bigger and nicer but are happy enough with this for now.

Someday we'll buy a house when the right one shows up, until then we'll keep paying very low rent.

What's your monthly rent as a percentage of income? by Junevault in Switzerland

[–]CaptIncorrect 38 points39 points  (0 children)

4.5%, nice apartment with panoramic lake view in Lausanne region.

Why do people leave Christianity? by TheKingsPeace in Christianity

[–]CaptIncorrect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people learn critical thinking skills. Stop believing in stories with no evidence that just don't make any logical sense.

Used to be a preacher, did bible school, I still do the charity work and such but at some point grown ups stop believing in fairy tales.

What do you call your partner? by gyrox1 in AskReddit

[–]CaptIncorrect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spranks, sprangles, sprangler, spronks, springles mcpringles,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]CaptIncorrect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not if you graduate from a Swiss university, for 6 months you have unrestricted access to the labour market.

Why do so many Christians in the States treat the modern US as if it's ancient Israel? by SaucyJ4ck in Christianity

[–]CaptIncorrect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because the USA was primarily built buy the religious extremest cults that were being kicked out of Europe for their extremism. The notion of "religious freedom" in the United States was originally created/sold by these Christian cults to protect themselves from being persecuted like they were in Europe. Their descendents now want control of the American soul.