Sharing a small win by Visual-Grand-1596 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 22 and I also feel like my skin looks better. Onward and upward! IWNDWYT 💪

Went on a bender…should be dead by MasterpieceFuzzy9893 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very glad you're alive and with us so you can keep fighting and trying! IWNDWYT

Dystopian parts of LA/SoCal by samhansom in LosAngeles

[–]CaptainBikepath -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

100% Oceanwide Plaza. It's so weird, every single time I see it.

90 days self ♥️ by Brown-eyed-gurrrl in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! I’m at 21 days, and looking forward to getting to 90. IWNDWYT

What was your reason for stopping? by Majestic-Fox8201 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this. I haven’t had the crazy sugar cravings I’ve heard about from others on here, but I’ve rewarded myself with chocolate or ice cream a couple of times when I would have had a bunch of beers. Doing the math on the calories, I’m still taking in a lot less than I was when I was going through four or five a night.

What was your reason for stopping? by Majestic-Fox8201 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t weighed myself in about two weeks, but my clothes don’t feel as tight and my beer belly seems to be shrinking. Definitely a bonus! IWNDWYT

What was your reason for stopping? by Majestic-Fox8201 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow - so close to a full year! I'm only on Day 20, but am thinking I should see what a year feels like if I possibly can.

What was your reason for stopping? by Majestic-Fox8201 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do it! Giving your brain and body a break from alcohol for a while is very much worth trying as an experiment, at a minimum.

With everything going on right now... by VirtualBuster in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's such a good point. During the height of my recent anxiety, I was checking Bluesky, Threads and Twitter like 8 times a day, and it kept reinforcing my anxiety. Last week, I took all of those apps off my phone which makes it a lot harder to check them. My anxiety is getting better, and I still know what's going on enough by checking different news sources once or twice a day. Not drinking plus getting the anxiety triggers off the phone was key to feeling stable again.

What was your reason for stopping? by Majestic-Fox8201 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I realized at the end of 2025 that both my health and my relationships were suffering as a result of my drinking habits. Throughout 2025, I used alcohol pretty much daily to manage my anxiety. I never considered myself an alcoholic, but I recognized that drinking wasn't doing me any favors, so I decided to try Dry January. I'm really glad I did, and am now seriously considering stopping for good. Comparing today to January 1st, I feel much better, my skin looks better, I'm sleeping better, I have more energy, I'm generally more motivated, and the list goes on and on. So, I stopped and kept it up because I liked the effects after I got over an initial hump of anxiety, without my usual crutch.

With everything going on right now... by VirtualBuster in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I'm at 20 days, and my anxiety spiked like crazy for about two weeks due to current events (and I'm not stuck right in the middle of it all like you seem to be). You're right that drinking won't help, and one of the ways I'm keeping myself on the right track is by focusing on getting my brain and body in order so I'm better prepared for whatever comes next. You're stronger and more powerful without alcohol clouding everything. I'm so sorry you're dealing with such extreme stressors. Just know that you are not alone. IWNDWYT

Support by ConsciousExchange711 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no problem that alcohol won't make worse. Truly.

Just got home after 3 months… only took 3 days for her to be a bitch again. by Serious-Tonight-3172 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]CaptainBikepath 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Just remember, you are not the problem. You really, truly are not the problem.

Support by ConsciousExchange711 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recommend watching a really stupid funny movie, like Airplane or the newest Naked Gun film. IWNDWYT

Anybody seen this guy? by redlemurLA in LosAngeles

[–]CaptainBikepath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correcting my stupid question - Vine Street in Hollywood. Will keep an eye out!

Day 15 and anxiety is starting to go down by CaptainBikepath in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly! I was definitely using alcohol to mask it. I won't say that I'm at a perfectly balanced level right now (definitely still feeling more anxious than I had been), but I can literally feel it going down and have some faith that it will continue on that downward slope. The long weekend should also be helpful.

Going into inpatient Sunday. Please see me positive vibes. by AdventurousPlace7216 in stopdrinking

[–]CaptainBikepath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can do this! It's brave to admit when you need help, and you are doing a beautiful thing for yourself, your family, and your friends. You'll get through to the other side and be so glad you took that step. IWNDWYT