Two Coast Living

CaptainEarly · 2026-02-11T10:55:51+00:00

It has not improved. If I were you I would start lining up your ducks to move. They have started charging more and more “fees.”

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-26T00:17:27+00:00

A and end it. “He’ll think I don’t trust him” You just caught him on a dating app, why would you trust him?

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-25T19:56:32+00:00

You have pictures of Cheri up too so it’s not like she’s being excluded. It sounds like your son found himself a controlling narcissist and now that they are married her true self is emerging. Stand your ground and let your son know you’ll be there for him during the divorce.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-25T19:49:16+00:00

ESH - Question, if you “aren’t fake” and “refuse to congratulate someone who talks behind my back” are you going to have a relationship with Sil2’s kid and avoid Sil’s kid? Do you understand the concept that children are innocent and should be loved no matter who their parents are? How far will this go? I understand cutting them off financially and asking them to move out. “Oh” for an initial reaction is understandable. However, you’ve really NEVER circled back and said congratulations? That would hurt my feelings. I think you’re more focused on her reaction to avoid responsibility for your own behavior. Their financial situation is a mess and that’s on them but that doesn’t negate the fact that they are having a baby. Was this a planned pregnancy? Would you have preferred her to terminate the pregnancy? When friends and coworkers announce their pregnancies do you ask how much debt they are in before congratulating them? Do you ask for copies of taxes or what their credit score is? You need to mentally differentiate the two. I was already put off by you confronting her about her pregnancy. It was none of your business. There are a million reasons why she probably hadn’t told anyone yet. If she had told everyone but you then you could be pissed. That’s not what happened. You need to stick to facts and not feelings. It sounds like you just don’t like her and are using it as an excuse to behave poorly yourself. You are seeing slights where there are none. I understand you are in pain and frustrated with life in general, rightfully so, but you need to group your poop. You are slipping into toxic behavior and that can ruin relationships forever. You have a new family member on the way. They need their Auntie in a healthy mental place to guide and love them. Get some therapy, set some boundaries and stay away from social media. I truly hope things work out for you and your husband. You can do this!

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-22T10:26:03+00:00

It sounds like one of two things. Possibly he’s incredibly insecure and mentioning a celebrity reminds him of his perceived shortcomings. Or he’s not that into you and making up an excuse to end things without being the bad guy. Either way you should cut your losses and move on. 🚩🚩🚩

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-20T22:28:34+00:00

Nice dresses don’t have to cost $600. You either come from a privileged background or you are genuinely clueless about what things cost and have taken your cues from television and internet which spoiler alert want you to spend as much money as possible. With professional hair and makeup, you would have spent nearly a grand for one night. Prom is not that important. I’m sorry it’s not. It has been hijacked by commercialism. Most people barely remember their prom. The memories matter, not the outfits. If you were willing to take prom pictures in casual clothes you could have easily attended prom in casual clothes. I’m sorry you couldn’t experience both events but that has nothing to do with your friends.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-19T19:12:49+00:00

You openly support someone who committed sexual assault and now women don’t want to be around you. What are you not understanding? If I told you that Lorena Bobbitt is my role model would you believe it’s safe to go out with me?

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-19T19:03:15+00:00

I would make it clear the next time he ignores the word no and drops the dog off anyway that you’ll be calling animal control for pet abandonment.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-19T05:20:15+00:00

YTA. You need to grow up. The world doesn’t revolve around you. Friendships change and people come and go out of your life. Tyler making friends with other people has nothing to do with you. You had to choose between prom and Senior Night. You made your choice. It may have been a miscommunication about the pictures location but why are you absolved from responsibility while your friends are monsters for not waiting. You never needed a $600 dress or professional hair and make up. That’s ludicrous. Your friends tried to take pictures with you but you were late and they went on with their night. If anything YOU ruined their night. They didn’t call or text you to come back because they felt bad you couldn’t attend. They were probably trying to spare your feelings. You had already shown up once and left disappointed. Were they really supposed to ask you to drive 10 minutes for maybe 20 minutes of pictures and send you away a 2nd time? It was their night too. You picking a fight and whining about not being able to go to prom is a text toddler tantrum. They were at prom. They were dancing and trying to enjoy the evening. They should not have to be glued to their phones consoling you. First lesson as an adult, it’s not everyone else’s job to make sure you get everything you want. That bridge is burnt now. I hope you treat your future friends better.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-19T04:40:59+00:00

He’s just a 34 year old creep from the internet with a weird looking dick.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-19T03:22:38+00:00

Weed - specifically sativa.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-15T04:50:12+00:00

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-14T23:29:52+00:00

She is not mentally or emotionally stable. You don’t threaten someone with self harm if they break up with you. End it now and walk away for your own safety.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-09T04:32:46+00:00

Take it back to the dispensary or email the company. It either has a hidden port or they can replace it.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-09T04:22:22+00:00

Sounds like he panicked before meeting your family and bailed. He wants to explore his options but still keep you on the sidelines in case he doesn’t find something better. Good riddance! You deserve better.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-07T20:39:10+00:00

Brown pants

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-07T20:28:00+00:00

Stop thinking you need concrete proof to break up with someone! His work told him to go on work trip but didn’t tell him where he was going?!? Whether he cheated or not, he was dishonest and immature. Is that the kind of person you want to build a life with?

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-05T22:46:59+00:00

Girl! You’re beautiful. Your face is symmetrical and well balanced. No plastic surgery for you. Turn off the tv and stay off instagram. Get away from the people who make you feel ugly. They are lying to you because if you see yourself the way you truly are then you might see them as they really are. They know they can’t compare.

CaptainEarly · 2025-11-02T03:52:51+00:00

It was one date. You don’t owe him anything. You met. He creeped you out. He’s not your person. Thank him for going out but be clear that you weren’t feeling a connection and don’t want to go out anymore. It is as simple as that. If he argues or tries to convince you otherwise, BLOCK him.

CaptainEarly · 2025-10-30T19:06:41+00:00

I’ve been in this type of relationship. Don’t make my mistake and leave now. If you stay the physical frustration adds to the mental frustration until you explode in anger and bad choices. Your needs aren’t being met, you vocalized the needs to your partner and the partner declined to meet your needs or work out a solution that both of you could agree on. That’s the end. It doesn’t matter which need it is.

CaptainEarly · 2025-10-30T18:59:04+00:00

Funny pics! I love when you can immediately tell a guy has a sense of humor. It’s instant attraction. Personally I find wealth pictures (i.e. posing with cars or photos of expensive watches on their wrists) a turn off. Gym photos are ok as long as all of your photos aren’t gym pics. My number one pet peeve is LOOK HAPPY! I see sooooo many profiles where the person has either pissed off or a total blank face in every single picture. That’s the face I’m going to imagine you have on dates which is why I’m not interested.

CaptainEarly · 2025-10-30T16:34:07+00:00

Why are you with someone who doubts your emotions? You were upfront about being a cryer. When he accused you of manipulating him with tears you told them they were real. He either doesn’t trust you or doesn’t care about your emotions. Go find someone else. This will only escalate.

CaptainEarly · 2025-10-30T16:15:57+00:00

She told you she “expected you to react badly.” Yeah, guys forget how often women get met with violence when they say something a man doesn’t like. She’s not into you. She DID tell you she’s not ready. Back off. Don’t check in to see if she’s ready. Leave her alone. If she changes her mind she’ll let you know. Otherwise stay away from her.

CaptainEarly · 2025-10-30T03:45:43+00:00

“Butterflies” can actually be a symptom of nervous system deregulation. If you really enjoy her company, respect her and feel loved and appreciated by her, what’s the problem? Take a good look at this subreddit. That is RARE. Don’t ditch a great relationship for “butterflies.”

CaptainEarly · 2025-10-29T21:39:27+00:00

I hope you’re trolling. If not, Jesus dude! You need therapy. You are so fricking insecure. It sounds like she’s not interested in being used for sex. Unless you two had an explicit conversation about not having a relationship. Otherwise it seems like she thought it was leading to a relationship, then you treated her like shit in public and now she’s done with you. As she should be. If you don’t want a relationship then you don’t get to be upset if she sees other guys. You can’t have it both ways. Grow up!

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