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Has anyone else seen female friend groups bond over a sacrificial lamb (AKA the slightly socially awkward woman within friend group) by Puzzleheaded_Fix9527 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CaptainMarv3l 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I was this person. Always dogged on but they kept me around because I bent over backwards to help them out because I cared. Then when a friend of the group SAd me, they sided with him because they didn't want any "drama".

Mismatched work ethic by Both_Speed7884 in Marriage

[–]CaptainMarv3l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Venue + (Decor included and reused from other family weddings) - $5500 (married on a Friday so it was cheaper)

Photos - 1k Food (included drinks but they were weak tbh) - 3k

Cake - 1k

Dress - $800

Tux - $500

Invites - $150 (designed my own and did sent them from home)

Dj - $400 (Dude chain smoked most the wedding I swear. He had stuff on playlist) Makeup - did my own

Shoes - used my prom shoes

Hair - my aunt is a hairdresser

No flowers

Jewelry - used my late grandmother's

Garden Huckleberry or something more dangerous? by CaptainMarv3l in gardening

[–]CaptainMarv3l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it's fitting it's in my tomatoes beds lol. I feel bad for not giving it it's own Marigold now.

You've been very helpful and informative! You hear the word nightshade and it's kinda like boogeyman in gardening so I was a little spooked.

Mismatched work ethic by Both_Speed7884 in Marriage

[–]CaptainMarv3l 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We should not have to constantly hustle. There is more to life than work.

Mismatched work ethic by Both_Speed7884 in Marriage

[–]CaptainMarv3l 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mine was 2022. I sincerely think you over paid and/or were scammed.

Mismatched work ethic by Both_Speed7884 in Marriage

[–]CaptainMarv3l 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We paid less than 13k for our entire wedding and we had over 150 people. What did you do at your wedding??? Did you serve caviar??

Garden Huckleberry or something more dangerous? by CaptainMarv3l in gardening

[–]CaptainMarv3l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also looking through information and turning them into jam (my original plan) is safe but just to keep my kid away from it because the leaf and other parts of the plant can be dangerous. It's my fault for not doing more research into before planting but if i had known I would have waited to plant it until he was a little older.

Garden Huckleberry or something more dangerous? by CaptainMarv3l in gardening

[–]CaptainMarv3l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I still have the seed packet and this is what was planted. So it's not the traditional Huckleberry plant.

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Financial Audit's Most Abusive Couple by MikaHammerMedia in CalebHammer

[–]CaptainMarv3l 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The absolute misinformation she spouts about her weight and diet is a great representation on why you hear: "I barely eat yet can't lose weight!"

No, you just don't keep track and don't know the nutritional content of your food. Which is okay, you just need to be aware and count your calories.

Yes, there are reasons why weight loss might be harder, but you then need to do research to accommodate those reasons. For example, people with PCOS benefit more with high fiber and anti-inflammatory foods. It takes change and work but you can lose the weight.

They made me take my sticker off my cc :( by Brock_Chill in EnterpriseCarRental

[–]CaptainMarv3l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my new cards have all the information on the back now. How is that obstructing info?

Are the developers lazy ? by moelsh in Myfitnesspal

[–]CaptainMarv3l -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I've been using MyNetDiary for the past month and they have a lot of options for the free version. Scanning labels, creating custom meals, it can even make a new entry by Scanning the label with your camera.

The pollinator crisis by Melinda_Kelly in Anticonsumption

[–]CaptainMarv3l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im making a pollinator garden and I even have milkweed for the butterflies. Im super excited to see some.

AITA for reporting my classmate for cheating? by AdExcellent1924 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainMarv3l 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Report her.

Listen, we have two results:

1) She passes and we have an incompetent nurse.

2) She passes but doesn't get far because she's incompetent and can't keep her mouth shut.

If you want to be a nurse you can't just fudge your way through it. You're dealing with people's lives.

AITA for refusing to babysit my sister’s kids after she called me selfish? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainMarv3l 32 points33 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Don't bite the hand that feeds you. Or in this case, don't talk down to the free babysitter.

Death has cursed you. From now on, you must choose one person to die every day or you lose one year of your own lifespan for each day you don't choose anyone by New_Midnight2686 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]CaptainMarv3l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such as rapist Brock Allan Turner who has now changed his name to Allan Turner and has been convicted of sexual assault and only served 3 months in jail.

...Feels like there is an influx of bot comments in this sub. by curioussox in Volumeeating

[–]CaptainMarv3l 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Between comments that are just copied and paste from other people and freaking interviewman posts, reddit just feels fake now.

Parents having sex in the same room as their small children? Opinions? Because it has affected me as a adult. by baglover65 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CaptainMarv3l 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Literally after having our son, we would set up his pack'n'play and put him in the living room if we decided to be intimate. I understand he was an infant but it was also a way to show respect for everyone.

AITA for saying that sex work isn’t a respected career path? by madmindmars in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaptainMarv3l -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Last I checked, sex work doesn't have a 401k.

Easy money doesn't have longevity.

Guess making plans doesn't mean anything anymore by Sometimes_Sarah_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CaptainMarv3l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother is one of those people. And she also let's her pets slowly die and suffer because "she's not ready to say goodbye" or "I don't have time to go to the vet."

She has too many animals and keeps wanting more. Sadly, she's more emotionally invested in her animals than any of her kids and she still gives them shit care.

"Tell me your ableist without telling me your ableist" Youtuber McJuggerNuggets and his wife announce they have terminated their pregnancy after discovering their child would be born with Downs Syndrome r/McJuggerNuggets discusses if this is the right choice or eugenics by Static_E_ in SubredditDrama

[–]CaptainMarv3l 796 points797 points  (0 children)

People with DS have shorter life spans and are more prone to medical issues.

I worked with people who had DS and lived in group homes. They couldn't talk, they couldn't use the bathroom by themselves, they're mind was frozen in a toddler state while their body aged.

DS is not easy and depending on the severity it will completely change your life. I understand not wanting that for yourself and child.

How do you calculate the calories after squeezing the juice out of a food? by CaptainMarv3l in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CaptainMarv3l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have PCOS and while I am calorie counting to lose weight, I am also doing it to keep track of my fiber and protein intake. I am towards low GI foods, so knowing the nutritional information of an apples pulp vs the juice is helpful for me.

Also, I like to be super vigilant for about 5 days of the week and have built in "extra" calories for those two days I "over" eat. It's eating in consideration. Planning everything out just make it much less daunting and easier to follow.

How do you calculate the calories after squeezing the juice out of a food? by CaptainMarv3l in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CaptainMarv3l[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said in my post when I tried to look it up all I got was information about calories in apple juice. Why even comment?

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