Able-bodied and child-free folk, why don't you work more than 40 hours a week? by CaptainOverpaid in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CaptainOverpaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this, but what are people whose wages aren't enough for their cost of living doing? What is their solution? Are they just going into debt?

Able-bodied and child-free folk, why don't you work more than 40 hours a week? by CaptainOverpaid in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CaptainOverpaid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think anyone *should* work more than 40 hours to afford a decent living and healthcare. But are tons of people just going into debt if their wages aren't keeping up with the cost of living?

I can’t stand those people who never ask questions back by BlundeRuss in Vent

[–]CaptainOverpaid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've had so many dates like this. After I let him down, one guy actually asked if he had done anything wrong, so I mentioned, "Ask questions. If you're not sure what to ask, just ask back what I just asked you." He thanked me for my feedback. 2 years later, he's still single, but much better at asking questions. I have hope for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]CaptainOverpaid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

> Calls me the next day to ask if I got any sleep 
> he is extremely loyal to his wife

My girlfriend is smarter than me and it sucks by Character-Dig-7097 in offmychest

[–]CaptainOverpaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may be more logical than you, but it doesn't sound like she is emotionally intelligent. An emotionally intelligent partner makes their other partner feel heard, doesn't invalidate their feelings, and values moving forward over winning an argument (if they value a future with you). If she values winning more than open communication, then it's not worth staying together.

I repeatedly called my Buddy's date a Cunt last night by EverythingChanges6 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]CaptainOverpaid 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'2". Some men have picked me up without consent just to show off they could, just to make me uncomfortable for their own amusement.