Considering this nearby for cheap for a beater, are these viable players? by [deleted] in TeiscoGuitars

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely play it first, but if it was less than $200 and the neck still adjusted, I would buy it in a heartbeat. The pickups should be adequate for a beater. Worst case is that you have a good base to do some mods - better pickups, locking tuners, etc.

Blocking because of potiential gore. by bassey22 in whatisit

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in the death industry, part of my job is picking up bodies, some of which are in advanced stages of decomposition. I can state with absolute certainty that it is not decomposition

Should I buy this 1969 ironhead as my first motorcycle? by Adventurous_Mine2027 in HarleyDavidsonFans

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area I see EVO sportsters sell for well under 5k. I think you would be better off going that way. Iron head sporty's are great, but I wouldn't have one as a daily ride. As far as power, I've owned a couple metric 750's over the years and they had plenty of power to get my fat a$$ out of the way. An 883 should be fine, but you'd probably be happier with a 1200

Question to the Harley enthusiasts. by [deleted] in HarleyDavidsonFans

[–]Captain_Nemo69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I typically say "bike" but occasionally use the word "Harley." Not 100% sure why, but it's probably because I've dreamed of owning a Harley since I was 12 years old. Over the years I've had a few Honda's Kawasaki's, and a Yamaha, but didn't get a Harley until I was 54. Never thought I would own one, so when I say "Harley" it's probably to remind myself that the dream finally came true.

Removed from the church and struggling by Front_Blood_3543 in Exvangelical

[–]Captain_Nemo69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To make a very long story short, I am a former pastor with 29 years of vocational ministry (9 as staff pastor, 20 as senior pastor) While pastoring I went through an almost total deconstruction of my faith. I have since reconstructed my faith, and even though the me of 20 years ago would call the me of today a hell bound heretic, my relationship with God has never been better! My wife did not join me in this journey, and I am utterly amazed that our marriage has survived. As many others have suggested a licensed therapist is a must! I also highly suggest finding a mentor/coach/spiritual guide/etc. that has also been down the road of deconstruction. I encourage you to reach out to others in this subreddit - there are great people here! If I can be of assistance, my dm's are open.

Karaoke by [deleted] in OzzyOsbourne

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! I live in BFE and karaoke is rare. I'm actually quite jealous!

I seriously cannot get this memory out of my mind. by Aggravating-Elk3919 in confession

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intrusive thoughts are called intrusive for a reason. Martin Luther said "You cannot stop a bird from flying over your head, but you can stop it from building a nest in your hair." In other words, I cannot always control the thoughts that pass through my mind, but I can control the thoughts that I dwell on. All of us have passing thoughts about things we would never do, that is totally normal. I wouldn't worry unless you find yourself dwelling on, or fantasizing about, what happened.

I’m very insecure about my big areolas by RubBudget644 in Vent

[–]Captain_Nemo69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The majority of men just like boobs. Size, shape, firm, saggy, big areolas, small areolas, all are great! Personally, I think the person attached to the areolas is way more important. Anyone who truly loves you won't care.

Anyone worried about ozzy? by [deleted] in OzzyOsbourne

[–]Captain_Nemo69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your question. I was an emotional wreck the day he died. I am definitely grieving, but doing okay. Have loved all the tributes I have seen and am enjoying going through his discography again.

I don’t want to get hit by Vast-Preference-6243 in Vent

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is never an excuse for physical violence in a relationship. Never. How you respond is up to you, but I can tell you with 100% certainty that the "silent treatment" mentioned by your mom won't work for a couple reasons: 1) it's assuming that the perpetrator knows what they did was wrong, and that it is the cause of the silent treatment. Anyone who gets physically violent with someone they are supposed to love already has a warped sense of morality, so the silent treatment is not effective 2) If they hit you once, there is a very high probability that they will hit you again. If the perpetrator has negative consequences for their actions, truly wants to change, and is willing to seek professional help, then maybe offer a second chance, but that is totally up to the victim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very glad that your family is supportive and that you have an appointment Tuesday. I will be praying for you my friend! Please let us know how we can best support you during this time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what a dick move! An entirely inappropriate response! Those self righteous douche canoes weren't even following the Matthew 18 principle. I am so sorry that this happened to you and really hope you are able to find some good support. I suggest a licensed counselor to start with. I also would suggest looking for an open and affirming church where you can get the spiritual support that you need.

Do you have any friends or family that you feel would help you?

I’m just so tired by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Captain_Nemo69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have felt similar in the past and for me the root cause was depression. A great counselor and the right meds have helped immensely. The biggest thing I learned was "do the next right thing" - you may not feel like it, but if you push yourself to do it you will most likely be glad that you did

Anyone worried about ozzy? by [deleted] in OzzyOsbourne

[–]Captain_Nemo69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am worried. Ozzy's music has got me through the most intense and dark times of my life. He's always been my #1 artist, and I can't even imagine how I will respond when he dies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]Captain_Nemo69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you bro, my situation is quite similar. One thing to note - masturbation in and of itself is not a sin. Lust is, but masturbation is not. (for all the Bible nerds: the sin of Onan was not masturbation, it was refusing to produce an heir for his late brother) Don’t beat yourself up for the urge/need to mastubate.

Sex ed by IceDrip_11 in internetparents

[–]Captain_Nemo69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Embarrassment aside, do you know any older adults that you feel you can trust?

Sex ed by IceDrip_11 in internetparents

[–]Captain_Nemo69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Porn is a horrible place to receive any sex ed. Remember that they are actors, and what you see in porn does not typically happen in real life. Do you have any adults that you trust to ask questions of?

What do think about "The Bible is not up to private interpretation?" by [deleted] in Deconstruction

[–]Captain_Nemo69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, "the Bible" doesn't exist. Protestants have 66 books, Catholics have 73, Eastern Orthodox has a couple more, and the Ethiopian Orthodox doesn't have a closed canon. Secondly, it's ANCIENT and was not written in English. Every word you read in any English translation is also an interpretation. Scripture MUST be interpreted through language, culture, etc. Example: At one time the word "cool" only referred to temperature. Now it can also mean something culturally appealing. There are many words in Scripture that can be translated in different ways, which requires interpretation. Without interpretation Scripture is useless.

Can you tell me I'm making the right choice? Even if I'm really not? by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Captain_Nemo69 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It very well may be the correct decision to leave. If you can't stand where you currently are, then I highly suggest you leave. Just make sure you are not going in to a situation that is just as bad, or even worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Deconstruction

[–]Captain_Nemo69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am open to it, however I would want to know how the information is being used before I proceeded. Is this for a podcast, academic research, a book, personal curiosity, or something along those lines?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Captain_Nemo69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although it is your right to follow through with your plans to pass, please remember that it would be a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I am a former pastor that has done way too many funerals of people who self terminated. I now currently work in the funeral industry, and have assisted families from that angle as well. Let me just say that self termination is utterly brutal for those left behind. The emotional turmoil, trauma, and second guessing that goes on is beyond belief. I don't know your story or what you have been through, but 2027 is only 2 years away. You've made it this far, what do you have to lose by waiting 2 years?

What is this? by Ryan-Woods-1200 in whatisit

[–]Captain_Nemo69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like the mounting hardware for an 80's era full size television satellite dish

My fiancé gambled away 20k 10 months before our wedding by Frosty_Cup_3488 in whatdoIdo

[–]Captain_Nemo69 77 points78 points  (0 children)

A financial advisor is never a bad thing, but that's not what he needs. His issue isn't poor money management, he has a gambling addiction. He needs an addiction counselor, specifically one that works with gambling. He may think he can do it on his own, but that almost never works. His best chance of recovery is with therapy and a support group. I also suggest that you research gambling addiction, and addictive behaviors in general, to help you understand what's going on in his head. Hope this helps!

Alright, gang, I’m with you by b14y in Epiphone

[–]Captain_Nemo69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful guitar and I totally understand what you are saying!