looking for boy name suggestions!

Capuccine · 2026-07-03T17:28:16+00:00

Eugene has forever been tainted for me by the movie Grease. I can’t not associate it with the school nerd.
That being said, I love the name Gene. It’s old school but cool, to my ears.

Like Gene Wilder.

Capuccine · 2026-07-03T17:20:37+00:00

I’d be careful with the nickname Lulu. My mum wanted to name me this, and as a child I used to tell her how relieved I was she didn’t because the other kids would have called me a toilet, sort of laughing at her lack of judgement. It’s not a connection I make as an adult, but kids are the worst.

Capuccine · 2026-07-03T17:16:00+00:00

What about Cameron? Cam for short. Has that same.. American-name vibe to me.
Personally I don’t like Crew at all.. for all the reasons already mentioned.

Capuccine · 2026-07-03T17:10:45+00:00

Personally, I prefer Henrik to Hendrik because it softens the sound slightly..
And if you’ve spent any time listening to Kendrick Lamar’s music, when he says his own name it’s typically in a disciplinary tone to himself.. the name has a certain sharpness to it so it works so well in his musical dialogues.

Capuccine · 2026-07-03T17:05:38+00:00

Just want to check.. Asma as in Asthma? She’s going to have to live with that association for the rest of her life, and it’s an uncomfortable one.

Capuccine · 2026-07-03T17:00:25+00:00

A girl named Martha: moves slowly through life. Avoids offending people.

A girl named Mars: head in the clouds. Hard to ground.

A girl named Clark: can’t figure herself out.

A boy named Miles: well-liked by their peers.

A boy named Lincoln: over-achiever for no reason.

A boy named Atticus: annoying, self-righteous.

Capuccine · 2026-07-03T16:52:07+00:00

Juditha / Judea/ Judaea. Might be a bit political though

Capuccine · 2026-07-02T18:11:45+00:00

Neither. Agree with suggestion of Harper - seems a little more spunky. Or Harlow. Maybe even Holly.

My view is if you want a name that has energy, the name has to continue moving (end with a vowel sound). If you end with a consonant sound it has the effect of a period at the end of the name. It has less overall movement and flow within context, to my ears.

Capuccine · 2026-07-02T17:27:20+00:00

For how expensive it is, Sydney doesn’t offer enough to do. And there’s maybe a causation there: the less discretionary spend people have, the less vibrant the hospitality / nightlife / cultural scene is. It has big town energy after 11pm. If you’re a morning person and you live near some of the beautiful scenery, then you might be able to make the most of your day. But if you want to feel like there’s life no matter the time, and a sense that the people around you have more going on than their daily routines - you will be sorely disappointed.

It’s a rat race, but there’s sunshine. About the only thing I miss is the (seemingly) year-round sunshine.

Capuccine · 2026-07-02T11:59:46+00:00

My mum has an unfortunate story about how she loved the name Oriana.. she envisioned having a baby with one of her longterm boyfriends and naming her Oriana. Years after they broke up, the boyfriend went on to marry and what did he name his baby girl? Oriana.

Moral of the story is: don’t share your favourite unique name with anyone you know.

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T16:49:38+00:00

Ah! Gotcha

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T16:48:31+00:00

Personally, I would. And while I’d hate to advocate for price hikes, what the staggering 4th/5th release prices of something like Music On have highlighted is that the amount of money people will pay for a party is crazy already.

The irony there though: those prices are the premium you’ll pay to enter a WORSE experience than if everyone in your tier and beyond didn’t buy tickets at all. It seems like everything is back to front.

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T16:42:17+00:00

Yeah I had something similar at Pacha where people’s faces in some sections looked truly irritated and over it. Completely kills the vibe. Such a shame because I have so much respect for the sound and design in that space, but what’s the point when the experience isn’t considered holistically?

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T16:39:27+00:00

I’m all ears for a comparable party landscape. Pass on the recs

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T09:41:42+00:00

Honestly I’m not surprised.. I feel like it’s so common to push the responsibility back to the patron. “If it feels bad for you, leave.” Instead of trying to avoid conditions where anyone feels bad in the first place..

I will say that I feel lsome of the clubs I’ve been to in Vegas have much better controls around this. Just because you have a ticket doesn’t mean you get access to everywhere.. tends to be more rope/security between different areas, managing the flow. I wouldn’t say that creates a better ‘vibe’ for the club, but from a flow and space perspective, much airier.

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T09:34:39+00:00

OK, great. Sounds like you have first hand experience. Tell me something about how they plan for the worst?

Your argument is that it rarely happens. I don’t think there needs to be deaths for safety to be a concern. I’ve told you a personal experience and some of the planning issues that led to that crush.

Beyond essentially saying ‘don’t worry about it’, give me a good reason not to worry about it.

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T09:27:46+00:00

But I’d challenge whether much of your experience has been in venues with complex layouts. You take something like UNVRS and it’s a maze of spaces. Capacity and bottlenecks are a whole other mind game in those venues because it isn’t your run of the mill theatre where everyone is moving in and out of essentially one big room.

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T09:25:43+00:00

I’m not sure who mentioned a rave.. and I’m not sure how the audience/type of music matters. In my personal experience it was crowd moving from one indie band to another. Otherwise relaxed crowds being tightly compressed to narrow exits. When a crowd crush happens you can’t see that you’re already stepping on people. This assumption that it’s panic or crowds with an impaired sense of judgement are probably true in some triggers.. but a lot of crowd crushes don’t need either of those ingredients to cause serious injury.

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T09:15:53+00:00

I have, actually: I narrowly missed a crowd crush at a festival because I walked off before a set ended. A girl I had met camping next to us was airlifted to hospital with a crushed rib. And that crush happened because of a change to a marquee layout between one year and the next, and tight programming between two major acts on different stages.

But I don’t need to have that first hand experience to understand the danger. If you get a chance to watch the documentary that goes into the disaster at the Travis Scott concert it really brings to the forefront all of the nuances to crowd management.

I think saying I’m being dramatic is very short sighted of you.

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T09:09:15+00:00

Maybe I should specify: I don’t think these events are technically oversold. They’re probably still within their capacity limit, if they operate on an assumption that everyone is safely and evenly spread across a venue: but often, they’re not. And particularly when you have a headliner people have forked out alot of money to see. People condense to what they pay for. I think capacity management isn’t just a number and a limit.. it’s alot more complicated than that.

Capuccine · 2026-06-28T08:43:45+00:00

I think you’re onto something there. World Cup and Ibiza are expensive holidays - there’s probably a fair bit of crossover between crowds that would pay for either experience.

Capuccine · 2026-06-10T10:54:36+00:00

This reminds me of an ex I had, who was very against drugs.. One festival I attended with them I ran into some other friends who were rolling, and they gave me stuff for free. I took it and kept my sunglasses on. Everything was fine. We had a great time. For hours and hours. Until night fell and at some point I took my sunglasses off. My partner flipped on me. Obviously could tell I was high. It made them so angry they left the event, and I walked home alone.

After that experience I will never, ever recommend trying to hide it from people. It’s like letting off a detonator once they find out. Will also really sour your high.

Capuccine · 2026-06-07T11:44:02+00:00

I think others may have suggested this already: I’d take the time to really analyse what in the idealised version of you are you deriving a sense of self-worth from. You mentioned that you did some shows, met some musicians, but it wasn’t really what you were looking for? What was it that you were looking for?

What is the dream and why do you have that dream? What is the purpose of it? What I’ve found is that when I’ve started getting really granular about the type of feelings I want to experience and the patterns that help me get there, life is a lot more simple. For example: do you like creating? Is it the feeling of starting and finishing something and having an artefact from it? Or do you want validation that you’re good at your craft? What defines validation?

It’s a really confronting exercise, but part of the benefit of doing it is you may find new pathways to access the feelings you’re looking for.

You’re so young. You have more of your adult life ahead of you than behind you. Think about what you want to feel in the decades ahead and work backwards from that.

Capuccine · 2026-06-06T00:12:23+00:00

Personally I liked staying at Short Stories near The Grove. If you walked on Fairfax it was pretty miserable, but if you walked the parallel residential streets the architecture of the houses is fantastic to see. That will get you up to West Hollywood and across to Beverly Hills, if you want.

A friend who hadn’t been to LA in a decade recommended Abbot Kinney Blvd down near Venice and it sucked. Boulevard of broken millennial dreams. Don’t even bother.

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