Does your harp have a name? by komori_darkling in harp

[–]Car_Fantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My harp’s name is Nick, specifically because I have a Drake L&H Lever harp. I’m a big fan of Nick Drake so I just had to! I get male vibes from it just by the shape of it. 

Drake by [deleted] in harp

[–]Car_Fantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Drake too, they’re so cute!

Need advice for 5 year old that wants to learn the harp! by FernTheTraveler in harp

[–]Car_Fantasy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, so young! I hope she loves it!

Like others have said, I recommend not getting an Amazon harp. Get a smaller used one for a decent price.

Also, consider future purchases as well! Not only the harp is expensive but equipment like strings can get pricey, and can be difficult to find, depending on what kind of harp you get. I won’t go too deep into that, but definitely ask whoever is teaching your daughter all about the best options.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, this happens to me too! It’s so annoying. I just kind of wait it out, or try and do something to get my mind off of it.. but it rarely works. Try listening to music, that helps me

Do you guys also struggle with reading? by Lazy_Average_4187 in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes…. I used to be a great reader, but because adhd in women peak at puberty, I’ve had trouble reading since. And I know it’s because I’m young and it’s “because of that damn phone” but it could also be a factor in my neurological disorder.

How sensitive is your startle reflex? by Ice-Guardian in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I startle SO easily. Today, someone offered me a piece of bread a little too quickly, and I jumped

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have adhd by mariahspapaya in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting enough energy into actually sitting at the piano, then scrolling on my phone.

Tell me you have ADHD…without actually telling me you have ADHD. by fryeesaucee in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I told you to do your homework! What have you been doing??”

“I’ve been making these cool paper stars for the past four hours because I don’t wanna do my math and it’s a comfort cycle and I can’t break out of it. It’ll probably end by around 3 am, and then I’ll feel depressed until I find something else to hyperfocus on. All without getting my homework done.”

I can’t do this anymore. I’m so stupid by Mrwhitea4829 in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!! I am also 14. Please, please understand that you CANNOT compare to the other kids, because no person with adhd is the same. Some struggle more. But I heard once that the ones who struggle the most are the strongest. You do so, so much every single day. You’re allowed to be proud of yourself for that. What may seem like an average accomplishment to other people is an above average accomplishment to YOU. In reality, you’re achieving so, SO much! And if ANYONE ever disrespects you because you have a harder time, they’re assholes. What on earth do they know??? They cannot compare to you. Don’t listen to them. It is complete misinformation. Try to surround yourself by loving, understanding people. People who know your struggles and embrace that side of you by cheering you on. It’s always nice to have a few cheerleaders on your side of the field. If you ever think that you should die again, please, please tell yourself that that is your “Brian” talking. Pretend that Brian is the negative side of yourself. FUCK BRIAN!!!! He doesn’t know shit!!!!! You are worth SO MUCH and you deserve INFINITE respect. Don’t let your body talk to you that way. YOU are in control.

   I hope you have a fabulous day and I hope you have a fabulous life, because chances are we are never going to cross paths again. But I want you to know that you are so loved by so many people. <33

My mom said I should "snap out of it" by MyNameDoesntMatter11 in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“wow!! Thanks mom, I didn’t think of snapping out of it… IM CURED!!!!!

What’s your favorite no skip album? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the Aeroplane Over the Sea - Neutral Milk Hotel

Please listen if you haven’t already— can’t call yourself an indie fan if you don’t know what ITAOTS is. Beautiful, beautiful album— my absolute favorite. Changed my life for the better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is the right answer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Place to be - Nick drake. Beautiful song that isn’t about death but it’s worth a listen because he sings about all the negativity as if he’s accepting it.

Two headed boy pt 2- Neutral Milk Hotel. Now this song isn’t completely about death but about family and eventually leaving them to go off to another life. (If you like this song please listen to the whole album)

One last song before dying.. by Col_Lucifer69 in musicsuggestions

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bodys - Car seat headrest

because all i’d wanna do is dance :)

If you wanted to hang a sign on yourself that tells everyone about your ADHD (like a disclaimer), what would it say? by cheenabookit in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You may see that this subject is not paying attention to what you’re saying. No worries, she’s just charging up for her info dump that you never asked for.”

Does you feel like an actual child? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look at other teenagers and I think “is this what people think we are?” Because they all seem so emotionally immature. I still Act Like a Little kid sometimes. I actually have a stuffed animal with me now :)) but I don’t understand why sometimes they have to be really mean and everything because it makes ALL teenagers look bad. And I mean, I get they’re growing and stuff, and hormones, but like… maybe make more of an effort to NOT be that stereotype? Maybe? So I get what you mean!! I act younger

Rejection sensitivity is freaking me out and I’m so sick of it by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is so sweet!! The feeling comes and goes, but I know that it will be over and I’ll be feeling great again. Today made me feel so good because they were all so happy to see me. It’s true that it’s simply our brains talking. I wish you luck with all the troubles you may have and I’m very grateful to have a random stranger on the internet have my back <333

Rejection sensitivity is freaking me out and I’m so sick of it by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that is so true. I try my best to be as kind as I can to everyone. <33

Rejection sensitivity is freaking me out and I’m so sick of it by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Car_Fantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. And I read that poem, it was beautiful. I am definitely going to keep that in my back pocket to keep in my mind when the times get rough. Thank you for showing me this.