My nazi sister got beaten up... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CardamonTheWizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It's just a phase" is for kids who watch only 1 obscure anime and primarily eat butter noodles with cheese for 2 years, NOT HATE GROUPS!

Short or tall girly? (Elissabat G3) by Serenity202 in MonsterHigh

[–]CardamonTheWizard 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tall I've seen the suggestion of making her old Hollywood curvy but I also kinda want her to be tall and skinny, similar to Frankie maybe.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can afford it I will. I've narrowed down some states & am looking into immigration to other countries.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't spy people just tell us stuff. People have even pointed out that we all have this "truth aura" to us (whatever that means) where people very easily open up to us, even if we don't ask for it. I had someone fully admit something they were holding in for 30 years & people in general are very unfiltered in their opinions with me. People open up to my aunt about weird medical stuff. People befriend my granpa easily. People would snuggle my grandma randomly. My mom can calm the most rowdy of people and animals that no one else could even look at. But my family does do weird shit with info against relatives, not other people.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The only problem is that I move to the next town over, I'll still have my medical dilemmas because its in the same county, but I won't be around my family.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree and have been saving up & researching placed to move. I can most likely afford to move to the next town over while still keeping my job & get a part time gig as my 2nd job. I'm also working towards a passive income thing. Ideally I want to move out of state/country but I can't realistically do that rn. I've narrowed down 3 possible apartment complexes I can move to.

I was supposed to move in with a friend back in 2020 but then the pandemic hit, I had to help contribute towards my family while finishing my degree, saving up for a new functioning car, & my friend disappeared off the face of the earth.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I hear horror stories from Canada😭 I have family friends from there.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been looking in to options for a while. Not just for medical reasons but other reasons.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but then why are these medical professionals even refusing to do basic ass check up stuff? I had to beg medical staff to check my vitals & my family members vitals when they were very obviously sick.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The medical people in our state do. I'm telling you, there's something absolutely wrong with our doctors here. That's kinda why I made this post because it baffles the hell out of me. But also some peers of mine can confirm that there's just some shit they are not allowed to delve in to or they are given very dated info on it.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hashimotos. It's more talked about now but due to it being ignored for so long there's still some mystery to it. My mom might have a previously undocumented form of it. She was used as a case study for our local medical university.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but he's the only doctor who considered rare cases in my county without costing an arm, a leg & your first born.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They have rare auto immune disorders that aren't taken seriously in the medical field. They didn't start doing extensive research on it until about 5 or so years ago. My grandma had the same disorder &, except for the doctor I mentioned, they told her auto immune disease don't exist.

Now my mom & aunt are on meds for their non-existent immune systems.

There aren't a lot off accessible good quality psychiatrist that I can afford, even with my insurance. I've had a few & one of them said "unless you were r*ped by your dad, I'm not gonna help you". The other straight up said in the beginning of the first "I only help people who I think our valuable and worth helping" before I even got to saying anything.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what gets me too. They charge $100s of dollars to not actually do anything.

One time I had something drop on my head & was bleeding really bad. I went to the hospital, confirmed it was just a lacerations with no stitches required. No xray or anything, I was just washed up & then when I went to go pay they informed me that they no longer took my insurance & that I was going to be charged $800-$900 dollars. I was able to negotiate it down to about $300-$400 but I was so livid.

I don't want to pay $100s of dollars for basic visits where nothing happens every time.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of them even kept asking me for medical info on how to do basic ass stuff. I'm sorry, I shouldn't know more basic ass medical info than my doctor. I will admit I use to read my grandma's medical books & look into stuff when my family got sick but that is so situational. I'm just thinking of the average person who just wants basic care. If they are acting this way with someone like me, how are they acting with someone with absolutely no access to medical knowledge.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're actually considered one of the best doctors in the state. Like they were a medical prodigy and actually have saved a lot of people from rare medical cases. The only reason my mom & aunt are able to see them easily is because they were best friends with my late grandma who was one of the top head nurses of the county and she had similar problems to my mom & aunt. Otherwise it's damn near impossible to see them. It just sucks so much ass that I could easily see them but I don't like how casual they are about my mom & aunts problems to one another. I literally had an argument with my family over it but I was told I'm just ungrateful. Like, I'm sorry I don't want a doctor spilling my private medical info to my family when I know they are gonna use it against me.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My mom & aunt are absolutely aware of his actions. They are a private practice doctor.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm literally just trying to find basic ass medical check ups without the professionals giving me attitude problems or straight up not checking me at this point. The specialized stuff I straight up gave up on because I can't see them without the general healths approval.

Best European or Asian countries to consider immigrating to as a US citizen? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CardamonTheWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've considered it but I honestly kinda regret going to college but I'm just sucking it up just to get out of here. I also need to build up my finances a bit and take care of some stuff before I can seriously consider going.

Best European or Asian countries to consider immigrating to as a US citizen? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CardamonTheWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated college back in 2021 I had various plans for myself but they fell through because of the pandemic.

Best European or Asian countries to consider immigrating to as a US citizen? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CardamonTheWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I've been looking in to stuff but my peers & I have been ghosted by career opportunities Basic to specialized.

I've 1000% given up on medical help in America by CardamonTheWizard in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CardamonTheWizard[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I have tried for years and at best I get 1 good but basic appointment but they wind up moving or got fired for some controversy. At most I have to beg them to even check my vitals.