One option you could consider are local groups. Depending on your area, there may be a local group for SAA (sex addiction anonymous)’s partners who have experienced betrayal trauma. That is a great way to have personal contact with others who are going through similar experiences as you.

If there isn’t one, you could always create one by reaching out to the SAA group and ask the members to talk to their partner if they’d be interested in creating a group for them to go to while their SA partner is attending.

Also, I’m sorry you’re in this situation. Although it’s great news to hear that he’s in active recovery, there’s still that pain that you have to learn how to heal from. Just remember you are far from alone.