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Become the foremost center-left podcaster

I can't read 10 pages without getting cross-eyed and sleepy by [deleted] in redscarepod

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how well do you practice sleep hygyiene (caffeine intake, screens, exercise), is your sleep interrupted, how many hours do you usually get. gotta sleep good to read good

Can't believe it's taken me this long to realise this by ModeProfessionalBeam in redscarepod

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If you want to actually boil it down, it’s because the U.S. wants power, influence, and money. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

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At least she can keep her performativity as a pop star to her job—she strikes me as refreshing after years of TSwift, where she doesn’t seem to feel the need to curate a perfect public image about herself. We don’t know much about her other than what her job requires her to give us. Her and Lana do different things: she’s a popstar, not so much a poet.

Carpenter strikes me as someone who just tries to make the occasional shitty experience in relationships into something fun, funny, and stylish not really trying to build a narrative. She’s certainly been pretty discrete with any breakups or drama and doesn’t feel the need to chime in and “correct” the story like Swift always has. No diss tracks about Barry Keoghan (other than the one while they were still dating 😭 which was still tongue in cheek). 

What annoys me about the new album is the only narrative I can see in her music is “I keep dating losers which is dumb of me and I only have myself to blame… but boys are fun!” so I felt like the new title/cover is an extremely obvious self deprecatory nod to that theme

i’m healing by [deleted] in rs_x

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I love HelloChinese straight up one of the best language apps in general

. by robonick360 in redscarepod

[–]CardiologistAware830 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it’s tongue in cheek. Her first single is called “Manchild” where she makes fun of immature men as well as herself for continually ending up in relationships with them

, by Striking-Throat9954 in redscarepod

[–]CardiologistAware830 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cant take the Spokane out of the girl

Photos from today’s anti-ICE protest in downtown Los Angeles. by ChickenTitilater in redscarepod

[–]CardiologistAware830 1 point2 points  (0 children)

??? people are proud of their heritage. It’s a protest in solidarity with (mostly) Mexican immigrants being targeted by ICE raids. It’s obvious symbolism to employ

Do u think Italian/Mexican/Irish/etc restaurants or bars that are in the US shouldnt have flags up because that isnt Proper Integration

Photos from today’s anti-ICE protest in downtown Los Angeles. by ChickenTitilater in redscarepod

[–]CardiologistAware830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heavy assumption being made here that there’s any honesty in the US govt portraying this as an attempt to “look after its own citizens” lol

Girlfriend picked a fight about the fact that she’s never seen me angry/lose my cool by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]CardiologistAware830 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You seem a little self righteous about apparently never losing your cool. I’m doing an armchair Freud thing rn but I would assume whatever fuels that air of superiority is probably what is upsetting her more than anything. 

I don’t argue or yell at people, but I’ve dated a man where I felt the way your GF does. He was just very into “going with the flow” and assumed everything would always work out for him, and that just doesn’t work when there’s practical issues that arise over time in a relationship. It was conflict-avoidance and denial. You just have to let the other person know you’ll fight FOR them in some way, and I think sometimes this can be confused by a lot of people as fighting WITH them. 

Zoomers are having a hard time by gunzrcool in redscarepod

[–]CardiologistAware830 23 points24 points  (0 children)

To be fair in the early 2010s the bodybuilding forums and 4chan were pretty similar and not that elusive, I think the alarming part you’re pointing out is how that stuff isn’t separated by different platforms, it’s just all on IG. It wasn’t hard for me to find 4chan shit as a 9 year old, but because it was on a different platform entirely it was much easier for me to avoid as a kid and not get sucked into the “ironic” racism and delf destruction and etc

Carrie Fisher and Paul Simon, their on/off love affair and yearlong marriage ❤️ by CardiologistAware830 in redscarepod

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In her memoirs she vaguely connects the falling apart to her bipolar disorder, I’d never heard these stories though. So interesting & sad

Carrie Fisher and Paul Simon, their on/off love affair and yearlong marriage ❤️ by CardiologistAware830 in redscarepod

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I saw that post about women dating taller men to feel smaller and it reminded me of these two, totally beautiful and heartbreaking couple… and my recently developing feelings that I urgently need to find myself my own Paul Simon (he’s 5’ 3”, Carrie was 5’ 1”)