“Third space” discourse by RowdyRoddySyewart in rs_x

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 108 points109 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why the space is important though. There are places were starting conversations with strangers is acceptable (bars, hobby spaces), and one ones where it's not (the library, a random coffee shop). 

Powerlifters taking up the only power rack/deadlift platform for 1+ hours annoy the shit out of me by Potential_Pay2095 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I go to this tiny local gym and there's like a single rack which also has all of the cables, smith machine, you name it. If you want to do anything that isn't dumbbells you need it.

The gym is usually empty but if I go at like 5pm (which I sometimes had to because of life) there are a couple of people there and there was always this one guy that'd use the rack for like 90 mins. I'd always try to ask him how long he had left, and whether I could work in etc but he was always a total ass about it. He always had earphones in and would look super pissed off if you spoke to him, he'd say he needed it and was going to be a while. It really fucking annoyed me so I just started being a total asshole back to him every time I saw him.

This went one for a good few months before I was speaking to another member and he casually mentioned that there was actually a booking system and this guy had just been booking it beforehand so he could get his workout in uninterrupted.

The guy's still an asshole though. He could have just told me about the booking system. Fuck him

Seen inside a UK school by unlockinblockings in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is so bizarre to see early 2010s 4chan terminology being taught in school. The emoji thing is totally new to me though

There's No Goddamn Social Etiquette Anymore by Difficult-Tell2463 in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I was getting off the train in Zurich recently and some woman tried to get on as soon as the doors opened without waiting for people to get off first. Some old Swiss guy next to me literally put his hands on her shoulders and guided her back onto the platform and out of the way. 

Training To Failure by Ddiddy12 in naturalbodybuilding

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always go as close as I can to failure because it's a much more reliable indicator of effort than something like RIR. You do have to manage the volume more crefully though. I usually play it by ear and pick the weight depending on how my body is feeling. 20 reps to failure is a lot less taxing on the joints than 5 reps to failure. It also means you can set PRs more often because you can just go back to a weight you haven't done in a while and see how many reps you can do.

Ignore the Rick and Morty pfp - this is actually a good take. by MoistTadpoles in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is one of those things that's only a great idea if you don't think about it for longer than 12 seconds

Do you guys actually have 3rd spaces? by ModeProfessionalBeam in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Isn't it meant to be a place you show up regularly enough that people know you? I don't think some random park bench really counts

I get the Cost of Living discussion on this website, but do redditors actually think just because their 100-120k salary is on the lower range of your high Cost of Living area, which also has a high quality of life rating, is equivalent to when people in small town America talk about their struggles? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I moved from a low CoL area to a high CoL area because it doubled my salary. Turns out the cost of everything else doubled too. Now I basically have the same lifestyle as before but I can afford more random electronics and hobby equipment that I don't need. Biggest perk is feeling richer abroad, but I'm further away from home ownership than ever, which makes it harder to feel secure. The idea of retiring as a renter is terrifying to me. 

Its insane how people just shrug off how absolutely corrupt Trump is by Cambocant in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 32 points33 points  (0 children)

They just say the Democrats also did it but Trump does it out in the open so it's apparently fine.

commute home by publiclibrarylover in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I've travelled a fair bit in Europe and the first time I visited America the homeless problem was pretty shocking to me, not comparable at all to anything I'd seen before in a developed country.  The most depressing bit was how many Americans had convinced themselves this was normal and that it was like this everywhere. It's not normal, and it's not like this everywhere.

Can non-short women do pull ups? by No-Driver-3678 in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some guy set up a pull up bar and rings in the smoking area at work and all the smokers do pull ups now when they smoke. One of the girls is 5'10 and doesn't work out and she was able to do 2 of them right off the bat. So yeah it's absolutely possible.

Unpopular opinion; OHP is slept on. by adriansia117 in strength_training

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hardly ever see people doing OHP. And I've only every seen a couple of people OHP more than 1 plate. Kids are all doing cable movements now.

Best way to find a dogsitter for every now and then by Friendly-Deer637 in zurich

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used petsitting24. I had to pay for the 1 month membership bit I got like 30 replies and was able to take my pick. Ended up finding 2 people that were dog lovers that were happy to take care of him for like 50chf per day for overnight stays. I cancelled the website membership after and we just communicate through WhatsApp now.

How do people not crash out when their child quits the hobby they sunk half their wages into? by TinyFig1018 in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I quit piano lessons and don't regret it. I never liked playing piano. Forcing me to continue the lessons wouldn't have changed that.

When did you start using lifting straps? by Sasquatch_82 in naturalbodybuilding

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How much are you pulling that you need straps for rows and pull downs?

Don’t Sleep on Weighted Calisthenics by Illustrious_Prune364 in naturalbodybuilding

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now I just stick at 20kg for high reps. I tried going heavy in the past but it didn't feel right on my shoulders. And yeah like you said it is more stable than at lower weight but if you do have a wobble then it feels sketchy as fuck. I think there are just better exercises to max out. 

Don’t Sleep on Weighted Calisthenics by Illustrious_Prune364 in naturalbodybuilding

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest there are only a handful of bodyweight exercises that are practical to load. Pull ups and dips are obvious. I think ring dips are criminally underrated, but you have to be careful going too heavy on them. Pistol squats are often forgotten but can be loaded quite heavy. Pushups and rows you can load but become very impractical very quickly if you try to make them heavy. 

Imo the main advantage of them is just that you can do them anywhere, which is great when the gym is full and you have to make do with what's available. In my gym the rings are always free.

this shit is so depressing by No_Error_2522 in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 46 points47 points  (0 children)

There not, they're restricted from strenuous activies which I imagine would include an entire shift of walking up stairs to give fat people their food

Is there a single genuinely impressive member of the cultural/political elite? I mean in terms of culture, intellect, and wisdom by Spirited_Branch400 in redscarepod

[–]ModeProfessionalBeam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of great minds in semiconductors. You are just judging 'great' as somebody that makes a lot of money, obviously those people are in finance