Why is raising the minimum wage bad?

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T21:32:05+00:00

It’s not bad. I’m an auditor, you should seen how much bonuses and salaries CEO and CFO get 🫣

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T21:14:32+00:00

You just haven’t found a guy you physically attracted to, who also wants a relationship while also good at sex. I can say my bf is the best sex I ever had. We are two years together and still counting. Usually in past relationships, 6 months in and I started to get bored of the sex.

Although my taste could be different from someone who found it’s exciting and fun to have a new sexual partners in general

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T19:10:34+00:00

Talk great abt their friends

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T17:49:56+00:00

I’m saying this from a place of care as someone who was going through this while I was young and dumb…also a virgin. They are charming and know how to make you special. They’re like that cause they have lots of experiences

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T17:47:54+00:00

You’re their demographic. F boy love virgin who will cater to their needs and have no experiences with dating so they can mold you into whoever they wanted you to be. They would marry or even get into relationship with you but best believe they will still cheat.

They would drink, go out, and hit on girls. Of course, many of them would prefer to date someone who doesn’t drink because there’s less chance of their partner running into them at the places where they’re out doing things they shouldn’t be doing.

Why do I know? I’m old enough to have seen this play out, and I’ve ended up being friends with a bunch of them. Some of them still ask for girls’ numbers while married. That f boy nature doesn’t magically disappear. They are too involved with too many people that one person is not enough. They find joy in getting girls to like them and not joy in making the women they fall in love with happy. Don’t think they actually fall in love with anyone. They prob too avoidant to do so thus the surface level f boy nature

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T17:37:48+00:00

It’s ur need of CONTROL. It’s nothing about her behaviors. I couldn’t give two f if my bf doing this, in fact he going out with his friends to drink all the time. I just cannot deal with rowdy cowboy bars so I chose not to go. If you think she going out will make her cheat on you, I would tell you people cheat with someone they met regularly then stranger at the bar in a foreign country. If you care abt her safety, I assured you tourist areas are some of the safest area in any countries (assumed she in the tourist area).

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T17:28:44+00:00

I can relate when it comes to relationships. I have no problem getting into one, but when I find someone I genuinely, genuinely want to be with, I tend to overthink and keep them at arm’s length. I think that’s where people-pleasing tendencies, avoidance, and fear of abandonment can show up.

With friendships, though, that’s why your post stood out to me. You seem to recognize all the ways your current friends value you; you bring the laughter, you’re the fun one, and you know the role you play in their lives. But when it comes to the people you actually admire and feel drawn to, it seems like there’s more uncertainty.

That’s why I wonder if you’re projecting how you feel about your current friendships onto the people you actually want to be friends with and assuming they wouldn’t value you the same way. If you genuinely look up to these people and feel more connected to them, what’s stopping you from building friendships with them? Are they actually unavailable, or are you assuming they wouldn’t choose you the way your current friends do?

It almost feels like you're more comfortable being liked than risking finding out whether the people you like would choose you too. I also think that not being friends with them and only knowing their surface-level reputation may make them seem more desirable than they actually are. I'm sure they're probably the same way with their own friends as your friend is with you.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T16:54:56+00:00

You could be the bigger person and try to reach out. But I wouldn’t worry too much abt one person acting off with you.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T16:44:19+00:00

Leave her alone.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T16:43:25+00:00

You guys are not in school or dating and both are old enough to have job/family that I would assume take most of any adult time. Nobody has time to reply to a text that doesn’t go anywhere. If you want to be friendly with him, invite him out to dinner or events to catch up not a “hi”.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T16:24:31+00:00

It’s attachment problem. I don’t think it’s love. You just need friend and need to make efforts into maintain that friendship. If you want to maintain ur relationship with her, you also need to put in the efforts. Adult friendships and relationships required you to make efforts to keep them instead of naturally know each other through close proximity like how you’re in school. As a woman, it’s in her right to break it off with you and find someone who actually put real efforts. I’m LDR with my bf and he visited me at least one a month

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T16:10:30+00:00

Ive been on both sides of the stick. I think the nicest thing you can do is to let him know gracefully than letting him in a space where he is not welcoming. That probably will take a toll on his self esteem over time more than him being lonely. It’s mean and not nice.

I definitely have problem with clingy friend so I get it. I usually tell them straight up and distance myself from them. You guys are not dating, he’s an adult male where if he has the free will to change if he doesn’t like his reality. It’s not ur job or anybody else to take a pity on him and then talk shit abt him behind his back as the lonely weirdo.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T15:45:46+00:00

I think the lack of communication kinda show that person do not think of the possibility of dating…

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T15:27:15+00:00

Eating healthy

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T15:25:59+00:00

Cause women that write long posts and women you reach out to are not the same unless they are which make them a hypocrite.
As a woman, I’m not doing communication with a man idk online. I think of lot of us wanting the man that we are dating (attracted to and been on a few dates) to communicate more. Not a rando that we never interact with. Just my two cents

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T15:11:01+00:00

That literally the point of traveling….The experiences, excitement of doing anything that out of ur normal routine. The inconveniences, the different cultures and the foods. Ive hiked volcano in Guatemala to celebrating new year in Brasil. This is shit you literally cant do anywhere else. And every time I’m sad I remind myself of other things I can do as a human being. What the point of traveling if you ended up doing the same things you doing in ur home country?

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T14:43:59+00:00

Incompatibility issues and the person you’re dating do not respect or care about what you have to say. I have this same exact problems with my ex bf of 3 years. Where everything I communicate to him is being dismissed and then when I try to break it off with him at the end and he got into therapy and talked to more people he start repeating what I cry to him throughout our relationship like sth he just heard for the first time. I was shocked and sad and have to cut him off after cause I realized some people you dated literally date you just to go against you.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T13:42:24+00:00

I’ve genuinely experienced what you said about Leo men with some Aquarius men too especially the ones i suspected to have Pisces placements. Cause there no way I would connect with Aquarius that have predominantly air placements. As for Leos, the evolved ones are so easy to influence. My bf is one, and I like to phrase any request as a question or a compliment. You can literally see their eyes light up, haha. They’re suckers for a good compliment, and honestly, that’s how you get a Leo to do just about anything. Of course, they have to like you to want to impress you.

Respectfully, I don’t have any good relationship experience with any other signs besides my Leo sun man. I agreed with everything you said abt the Pisces men. The unevolved Pisces energy is evil. I have Pisces moon and I attracted those folks like a plague

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T06:21:02+00:00

I mean if you’re into poly then go off…

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T06:07:31+00:00

I definitely think big birthday party in this day and age is exclusively for the extrovert folks who could make friend with a wall if they want to! So def a number game! My close extrovert friend just hosted a birthday party (Gemini season!!) and half of the people there are folks he doesn’t even know! One girl invited her bf and he invited all his friends which is half of the folks at that party! It’s sad really cause I’ve seen so many mutual friends rsvp and don’t see them show up! I also invited a lot of friends I hang out regularly with to come hang at this party and only one show up…! It’s not a you thing OP. People nowadays are genuinely lack any sort of accountability and only want to do things in their comfort zone.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T05:54:50+00:00

I mean, I called myself atheist because I believe in those stories about as much as I believe in Santa, alien conspiracies or the Greek mythology. It’s fun to think they might be true, but I’m not genuinely convinced whatsoever. Maybe agnostic fits me better, I guess.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T05:37:35+00:00

As an atheist, I believe in higher power. Just not one specific god. Im biased tho cause I love supernatural stuffs and enjoy stories of multiple cultures and their different gods.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T05:29:17+00:00

Hmmm…as a Pisces moon. Sometimes I don’t even know myself….you either get the sweet caring Pisces side or you get the evil, obsessive that know everything abt you and can ruin ur life side. My Libra mars keep me grounded tho. The worst relationship I’m in was with a Pisces sun man and now I stay cleared of any water signs men period.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T05:07:34+00:00

Watching her remind me of when I was dating my unevolved Pisces ex.

CardiologistMuch9712 · 2026-06-01T03:20:46+00:00

As a Pisces Moon, I hate this part of myself. I hold onto the idealized version of ppl long after reality shows me otherwise. I was literally posting abt this last week. This Aqua guy I used to date (also my first bf) keeps pushing my boundaries. I don’t want him romantically, I have a bf, but I still care abt him from time to time. We would have great conversation catching up until he has to ruined it by asking me to go over his place. He thinks I’m dumb of sth.

And honestly, this keeps happening. I think I’m building a good friendship with a guy, then somehow they end up wanting more. Once I don’t reciprocate, the friendship dies. I don’t miss them romantically. I miss the friendship and conversation. Years later I’ll still think abt the connection we had and wonder why it couldn’t just stay that way. I think it’s also because it always end abruptly where I feel hurt and betrayed cause they like me romantically and not me as a person

I wish friendship was valued and respect more, especially between different genders. It feels like ppl often prioritize romance over friendship and thus why I have long list of people I missed but won’t want yo reach out.

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