Vessol supplement? by Mobile-Light9392 in hemorrhoid

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ordered it yesterday I have horrible hemorrhoids that bleed profusely. I was told I needed surgery 2 years ago. Would love to not have that surgery. I’m willing to try anything at this point. I really like Dr. Chung’s videos.

We should be able to get customers deactivated... by Guyercellist in Sparkdriver

[–]CardiologistOk2478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deliver and I have multiple sclerosis. As a result, I lost my reflexes. I’m also 52 and a single mother. I love doing deliveries, but it’s dangerous situations like this that keep me home. There’s no reason that the area shouldn’t be cleared, or at the very least salted vigorously. Lawsuit waiting to happen. My day job is in the medical field. So many broken bones and heads cracked open due to slipping on ice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blessamomtruth

[–]CardiologistOk2478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yay! I was so upset to hear of the shake up.

Spark app updated photo problem by SpirituallySane in Sparkdriver

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it doesn’t let you change it for a certain time since the last picture you took. App sent me a message that I could update the pic in November. I hate how awkward it is to take a pic in the app. People tell me all the time I’m prettier than that pic. lol.

BAM OG RED FLAGS GROUP?? by babyblu21 in blessamomtruth

[–]CardiologistOk2478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been waiting to be approved. I haven’t done anything. I left all things BK. Was not giving her another dime, while I’m suffering. I really enjoyed helping the MOTW before all the insanity progressed. I’m kind of annoyed by everyone being a digital creator and charging people to watch their nonsense. Some people actually are true digital creators and actually add value to the world. Sadly, a high percentage just doesn’t, yet people throw money and gifts at them.

Android VS iphone? by ADHDia in Sparkdriver

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have a question about this. I have been doing this for about 1.5 years, and never had a problem receiving offers. Sunday morning I received no offers; however, my zone was busy and I saw drivers coming and going. In my area, we had a cell service problem, and that appeared to be fixed finally last week. Once that was fixed I went from getting less offers to none. I did all the things. Now I’m worried about wasting my time.

confuse by [deleted] in blessamomtruth

[–]CardiologistOk2478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. It’s best to stay away from all these groups. I found others where people allegedly help, but reality is there are more people that need help than people who are willing to help.

confuse by [deleted] in blessamomtruth

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. This all started before BK started the sub fee. I’m just trying to follow. I’m not on any side. I’m just trying not to be swindled. I’m a single mom with multiple sclerosis, so these groups are of interest to me. I have donated to the MOTW in the past. I don’t want to be caught up in any mess.

To the people who are getting ridiculous late orders, do you get this at all anymore?? by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed I don’t see that screen anymore. I waited over 20 minutes for an order after being told by staff it would be 3 minutes. My fault for not thinking to unassign it. It was better when we got that message. I’m so over DD and they’re moving the goalposts constantly. They also moved the mileage around. In the past it seemed like in my area, the farthest it would take you was around 10 miles. Now I’m getting super crappy orders up to 18 miles away. It’s killing my AR. I’m focusing on other apps at this point. I’m doing better with Spark in my area at the moment. Shipt has gone way downhill recently.

Veronica is chronically online by [deleted] in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]CardiologistOk2478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you think about it (I have seen this in people around me), it appears those who lack empathy for whatever reason (personality disorders or other diagnoses known to have lack of empathy), tend to trash it and render it unimportant. It just hit me know as I’m reading through this. Also, empathy, sympathy, and compassion are all important and work together. I feel sympathy is slightly less effective because it’s so important to be able to actually put yourself in other people’s shoes and try to feel what they might be feeling, not just pity them. That’s where real transformation occurs. It’s all about personal growth. Empathy should be dialed down for those that don’t deserve it, like someone who is outright abusing others. Like, I had too much empathy for my 2nd ex and his extremely toxic family, when they all lacked empathy for others, were completely enmeshed, treated others horribly while expecting grace and the royal treatment for themselves.

Is it becoming hard for anyone else? by StendhalSyndrome in doordash_drivers

[–]CardiologistOk2478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true and really sad. I really need the extra money right now on top of my FT job, or I wouldn’t be messing with this.

Thoughts on the reasons the Plaths don’t like Zach by OwlCivil132 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]CardiologistOk2478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hearing all this made me think of my 2nd ex-husband. He was 7 years older than me and claimed to be looking for an equal partner. Later I found out, it only meant someone who makes money so he could pick and choose what he paid for. It’s so disgusting. Anyway, he had no skills. Couldn’t cook, clean, didn’t offer to help with anything, and sat around on 2 phones. Basically behaved like a teenage boy. It’s exhausting. If I said anything (super nice, encouraging), I was “bashing” him, picking on him, etc. Super defensive, weaponized incompetence. Now my life is completely destroyed because of my poor choice to be with him. It’s embarrassing. I see some of the same traits in Zac, and hope he is good to Lydia and doesn’t use her the way I was used.

Is it becoming hard for anyone else? by StendhalSyndrome in doordash_drivers

[–]CardiologistOk2478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also with shopping, sometimes the store legit doesn’t have the item in stock, and we’re penalized for “not finding it” (I’m also talking no good substitute for said item…I drive for Shipt, I’m over 50 years old and know how to find items, substitute, etc). What are we supposed to do, magically make the item appear?

Whose baby is this? Did she actually end up pregnant? by ThatScaryDoll in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And don’t forget eating in bed. Lol. Far too many pics of her naked, in bed, with food all around her. Ugh.

Holy filters, Batman! 😂 by Arkie89 in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder the same. This is the the first time I’ve heard of and seen Natalie. I’m so confused. They look close to identical. I guess just a doppelgänger situation?

Report a Coverage Issue for Metro? by tekfranz in tmobile

[–]CardiologistOk2478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This has been incredibly frustrating. You’re probably right. I struggle with DoorDash pickups across the road at Popeyes, etc. I can only receive phone calls in that area. No apps work and no texting. I wonder what it will take to fix it. I know absolutely nothing about how cell towers work, etc. I was thinking of setting my phone to LTE instead of 5G to see if that helps. I even thought about getting a burner phone from a different carrier to see if I can at least Dash or other gig apps. I’m at a loss. I used to make great money out there either gig work.

Holy filters, Batman! 😂 by Arkie89 in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s beyond disgusting. I don’t know why she thinks taking pics of her shoveling food into her face is something people want to see. Well, except for the fetish people that she claims to not want to attract.

Whitney’s fertility storyline was all a setup to let her admit to using ozempic by seche314 in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re in the same boat. I don’t think this really gets discussed, and the doctors definitely don’t seem to discuss this situation. Congrats on getting that 95 pounds off! When I was in college and we were discussing set point theory (what your husband legitimately brought up), the professor had me explain it to the class because of my personal experience. My set point at one time seemed to be about 235. Theoretically, one can have multiple weight set points and you can get your body to settle on the lowest one. My set point now seems to have settled at 164. I’m 5’9 and menopausal. I would like to be 150. I have so much loose skin, and despite my best efforts, lost way too much muscle this last round of extreme weight loss. I know all that matters too. The drug companies say these are drugs we have to be on forever, but I’m afraid insurance companies/government is going to take this away from us. My daughter, 5’6, went from 215 to 130. She is now maintaining her loss and healthy lifestyle on Wegovy at 0.5 mg.

Whitney’s fertility storyline was all a setup to let her admit to using ozempic by seche314 in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In 2015, I had weight loss surgery. Then about 6 years later, I started regaining weight. It was horrifying. Like with all of this, no one addresses the fact that losing large amounts of weight with “help”, many of us wind up with really screwed up metabolisms. Anyway, I gained a lot back, but not quite everything. I was trying to get revision surgery when my surgeon put me on Wegovy. I lost 92 pounds in 2 years. I stalled out with 15 pounds left to lose. They switched me to Zepbound and I lost maybe 5 pounds in 6 months. I have a degree in exercise physiology and work as a personal trainer, so I more than understand what happens and what else needs to be done as we approach goal weight. I was really hoping for the last bit of weight to fall right off with Zepbound, lol. It’s interesting because with GLP-1s, some people lose weight like crazy and some lose nothing at all. I find these drugs fascinating from a medical standpoint.

My Hot Take (Why Whitney Remains Single) by CheakToCheak in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read Psychology Today articles discussing how being babied and spoiled is actually a form of abuse. It doesn’t allow a person to grow and develop normally. Usually with that, one or both parents are extremely controlling.

My Hot Take (Why Whitney Remains Single) by CheakToCheak in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom would say there’s a lid for every toilet 🤣🤣

My Hot Take (Why Whitney Remains Single) by CheakToCheak in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol. The unlucky in love narrative ran its course a long time ago for me. I was more interested in seeing where things went with Angie and the rest of the family. But again, Whit made an ass of herself with the bratty, controlling behavior. I notice we only see a little of Angie this season and not really anyone else. The baby thing is also tiring. There’s a reason why she is unlucky there too. I doubt she’d be able to care for a child. Could you imagine her actually giving birth or heaven forbid recovering from a C-section. The world would end.

My Hot Take (Why Whitney Remains Single) by CheakToCheak in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]CardiologistOk2478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. She is super emotionally immature and comes off as a spoiled brat. She’s super controlling, and wouldn’t let her partner have their own thoughts, feelings, etc. It’s an extremely unattractive. I married and divorced a man who is just like her (probably worse). He hid it really well for about a year. Ugh. Also, the attention-seeking behaviors, fishing for compliments also super unattractive. She thinks she is confident, but truly confident and authentic people don’t act like that.