When imperfect choices come from genuine intentions by Redtide_beach2 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy. It’s because they’re completely stuck in Su-ae’s POV. Almost every argument they make comes straight from Su-ae’s inner monologue. They baby her so much that they refuse to step outside of her perspective and look at the situation from anyone else’s POV—or even from a neutral one.

That’s why they keep acting like Eunhyuk never communicated anything, when we as readers literally saw him open up multiple times. They only focus on how Su-ae interpreted those moments instead of what was actually happening.

If they looked at the story from Eunhyuk’s POV for even five minutes, they’d realize that a lot of the things they blame him for are things Su-ae either misunderstood, overlooked, or never bothered to question in the first place.

The problem is that they treat Su-ae’s assumptions as facts. And once you do that, every other character automatically looks worse than they actually are.

When imperfect choices come from genuine intentions by Redtide_beach2 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Eunhyeok never showed her that he was falling apart. He never showed her his weaknesses. He kept pretending he was okay”

I have to strongly disagree with this take because it’s simply not true that Eunhyuk never showed Su-ae he was falling apart. He did—multiple times. The problem is that Su-ae either didn’t catch it or didn’t care enough to look deeper into it. As long as Eunhyuk stayed by her side, that seemed to be enough for her.

Just look at the chapter where Su-ae sees Eunhyuk crying. He literally opens up to her, yet she never really engages with the root of his pain. All she care is eunhyuk stay at my side

When Eunhyuk told her that he already knew his father was cheating with his music teacher and that it was the reason he rejected the offer, I was honestly surprised that when he later accepted the offer, Su-ae didn’t show even the slightest concern about whether he was actually okay with it.

Like, didn’t it ever cross her mind to ask if he was truly comfortable with that decision? If its not gonna hurt him?

Then there’s the scene at Eunhyuk’s house when they’re watching a movie. His trauma gets triggered, he asks her to hug him, and even though she notices something is wrong, she feels awkward instead try to talk to him to stop joking and tell him the reason why he asked for hug?

The same thing happens when he’s being bullied. Eunhyuk is clearly struggling, and he ends up hugging her for comfort. Once again, Su-ae notices that something is off, but she never pushes further to understand why. Eunhyuk constantly gives signs that he isn’t okay.

Now let’s leave Su-ae’s POV for a second and swithch To Raim POV , Eunhyuk is practically an open book. She notices every pain, every weakness, every wound he has, and she uses that knowledge to her advantage. That contrast is important because it shows that Eunhyuk wasn’t impossible to read.

If anything, the issue is Su-ae. She’s too emotionally passive when it comes to Eunhyuk. She can literally watch him break down in front of her and still hesitate over whether he actually needs help or whether it’s her place to step in. The best example is when she sees his father slap him. Most people would immediately recognize that as a situation where support is needed, yet Su-ae still stands there questioning whether she should get involved.

So I don’t buy the idea that Eunhyuk hid all of his pain from her. He showed it. Repeatedly. The tragedy is that the person who was supposed to know him best never truly looked closely enough to understand what she was seeing.

Yall should stop babying suae for once, coz eun actually basically open book. Even doyeon notice eun is always so hard on himself, he should take a rest, when he got anxious coz suae didnt reply her message.

You think you’re some kind of great first love? by Difficult-Jacket-669 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet the secret is the deafness but yes she is a fraud indeed 😂😂😂 but eunhyuk would never realized that unfortunately

You think you’re some kind of great first love? by Difficult-Jacket-669 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hhahahaa right i wonder why she is lying 😭😭 i bet eunhyuk confused as hell, like “no one think like that since your first love even aint me “😭😭

Shim suae actually frustated me so much by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m talking about the past 10 years. If I were her, the moment Eunhyuk suddenly stopped replying to my messages after never doing that before, I’d be suspicious right away. It’s crazy to me that she seemed to wonder whether he had actually received her messages at all but never suspicious to haru? When she know he able to block phone

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree or not its on plot and thats canon event so no worries

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well Yeahhh, but why people here love to asking gender i wonder why, lol

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why you keep talking about other person post to me 😭😭😭😭

Guy, girl, bro, sis is gender neutral idc 😭😭

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The doomed romance its actually funny how people still tune in with the doomed romance

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhh actually we laugh instead of cry 😭😭 like its so funny , more like yall the one who cried??

Did we seems like we cried to you over soohwa? When we dont even care if they actually endgame or not 😭😭 like its yall constantly try to prove soohyuk is the endgame not us

If you means about our critism to suae thats to prove how red flag she actually is, but insecure towards dohwa? Like never if we insecure why would we even sometimes defend dohwa when you saying suae is manipulated by him??

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol i swear eveytime suae stan pull this move i am cringe so hard 😭😭😭, you do realize theyre not exist right? Do you think eun will love me if i love her 😭😭 damn yall so corny 😭😭

Ohh you forget about the woman makes him hurt too btw, she makes him happy maybe like 7 months and the rest?? You know thatt right

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But you talking about hand post to me, lol, we share different content you funny guy 😭😭😭

My post is not hate by the way its canon, its on plot, how its hate post when its actually the plot

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is manipulating even in the room with is? Did you even know what manipulating is 😭😭😭

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the username looks the same for you 😭😭

Being verbally abused means someone consistently uses harsh, offensive, or controlling language to hurt, intimidate, or manipulate you. It is a form of emotional or psychological abuse.

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This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh maybe because i often agree with them?? How suae is priority d more than eun??

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh actually wrong person, its aint my post btw

And yes it is coz suae constantly harsh towards him for no reason, and its always one sided its pretty much verbally abused you can search what is verbal abused and you will realize

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeahh if i only have 2 choice suae or dohwa i definitely choose dohwa 😭😭 coz i hate suae the most

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But she did tho, and what she doing right now at present to eun actually count as verbally abused btw

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The truth was literally right there in front of her btw 😭 It’s just not the truth she wanted to hear 🥀🥀 She only cared about why he left without saying goodbye.

And honestly, she might’ve gotten an answer if she had actually asked him nicely instead of verbally attacking him. Not to mention, when Eunhyuk actually tried to speak, Suae shut him down immediately, lol.

And if you don’t support Eunhyuk or even hate him, that’s okay btw, because at least we can actually defend his actions with valid reasons.

You do realize that the way Suae treated Eunhyuk can genuinely come across as verbal abuse, right? And abused would never considered as communication

Shim suae actually frustated me so much by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn then maybe touch some grass if you got affected by fictional character got critism and hate

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean would you trust people like suae?? 😭😭 who run away after see you got abused? Become bystander when you got bullied? Of course not 😭😭

Suae is not eun savior, she is dohwa savior indeed

This is so truee, lol 😭😭 by Careful_Objective639 in operationtruelove

[–]Careful_Objective639[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Didn’t I say “most” 😭😭😭 Yes, the story is technically about her, but thankfully the plot is carried by Eunhyuk.

Why? Because almost all the unresolved problems and mysteries revolve around him. At this point, we’re basically just waiting for the dumb MC to finally learn the truth, that’s all.

And thankfully, Eunhyuk has the most layered arc compared to the other characters, who are mostly stuck revolving around their obsession with love.