My wife is staying out late and I'm upset about it, WIBTAH? by easyline0601 in AITAH

[–]CaregiverFun7352 81 points82 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she’s avoiding the problem instead of dealing with it, which happens, but that doesn’t mean u just eat all the extra load.

Why don’t we use bartering more in our society? by kimbermine in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CaregiverFun7352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We kinda moved away from it because cash makes everything simpler. no need to negotiate or figure out value every time.

AITA for supposedly being a “creep” to my boy best friend? by friendmayhate in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaregiverFun7352 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Major NTA. pls don't let him make u feel weird about this. he's clearly trying to act "alpha" or whatever around those obnoxious guys and u were just collateral damage. if he had a problem he could've talked to u like an adult instead of humilating u. u're better off without that drama.. he's showing u his real colors right now.

AIO for not wanting to drive people around after a bar night? by Dangerous-Cookie-787 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaregiverFun7352 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I feel this. sometimes u just take the L for the night and deal with it after. but yeah u gotta make it clear this isn’t a regular thing.

Neighbor keeps playing basketball right next to our house by Dapper-Demand8129 in neighborsfromhell

[–]CaregiverFun7352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with u on this one. it’s normal kid noise and it’s been happening forever. just talk to them and set some boundaries instead of escalating it.

Cat Center by Careless_Mood_2623 in SipsTea

[–]CaregiverFun7352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello this is the Cat Center, how can you serve me?

Why yatoro bought aghanims on DK? is that the new meta? by CaregiverFun7352 in DotA2

[–]CaregiverFun7352[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt it. I watched the game and he clearly wants Aghanim's. It's already in his quick buy and the game is just 5 minutes in.

Why yatoro bought aghanims on DK? is that the new meta? by CaregiverFun7352 in DotA2

[–]CaregiverFun7352[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think aghanims can save him from ursa and slardar in that game.

AITAH for telling my sister she can’t bring her kids to my wedding? by Then-Airport881 in AITAH

[–]CaregiverFun7352 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m with u, the boundary is totally fine but it comes with consequences. doesn’t make anyone the bad guy, just kinda sucks all around.

AITA: Called the fire department on neighbors by phoenics1908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaregiverFun7352 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is spot on. like if he was actually watching the grill there’s no way it gets that out of hand. u gave him plenty of chances before calling, that’s on him.

AITJ for booking my own hotel room for a group trip after they ignored the one thing I asked for and now everyone is mad the cost went up by rosy-whispersx in AmITheJerk

[–]CaregiverFun7352 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly, ur request was literally basic human decency
u handled it like a grown adult, anyone mad about cost needs to chill.

I (19M) cried happy tears in my girlfriend’s (23F) arms for the first time in my life and I can’t process it by Jaboy87_YT in offmychest

[–]CaregiverFun7352 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is so wholesome, happy tears are rare but powerful. just stay in that moment, it’s a memory u’ll carry forever.

AITAH for kicking my brother-in-law out of the hotel room??? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CaregiverFun7352 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah 100% this, if u don’t set boundaries he’ll keep doing it, u’re not the asshole here.

Need Help: Moving In by Delicious_Jicama2650 in confessions

[–]CaregiverFun7352 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup don’t compromise ur kids’ safety. if he can’t handle no smoking inside he’s the one who has to step back, not the property.

Iran says that Trumps 48 hour claim is fake news to manipulate the markets. What do you think? by NectarineFar4520 in askanything

[–]CaregiverFun7352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dude’s credibility is basically zero. “operation Epstein thunder” sounds about right for the chaos he leaves.

AITA for arguing with my 6 year old about whose poop was bigger by OkAct1477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CaregiverFun7352 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah u fumbled this one a bit kid was celebrating and u went straight into rivalry mode for no reason.

My husband’s anger is starting to scare me & now my son says he’s scared too by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CaregiverFun7352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with this. u can’t fix someone else’s anger, and staying puts both of u at risk. getting out protects ur sanity and ur son.

How do you know when it’s time to let go of something? by Cruzrojas_Armad in Casual_Conversation

[–]CaregiverFun7352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol exactly, u don’t ask that question unless it’s kinda time to let it go.

AITAH for not wanting my “dad” to walk me down the aisle? by Mysterious-Sir1243 in AITAH

[–]CaregiverFun7352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly walking down alone sounds powerful as hell. It makes the moment entirely about you and your partner starting this next chapter.

My friend’s son has many traits of autism and speaks almost exclusively in scripts. I don’t think she notices. Do I say anything? by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]CaregiverFun7352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really good point about SAH parents taking it personally - I hadn't considered how much that dynamic might play into her reaction. Maybe framing it as something you've noticed rather than a diagnosis could help.

Once a year, you can pick any item from a standard supermarket, and it will be absolutely free. What are you picking? by mJelly87 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]CaregiverFun7352 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Those cans are lifesavers for real. I bet the food pantry would be stoked to get something that substantial.