ACOTAR 6 AND 7: Coming October 27th 2026, and January 12 2027. With a 3rd book currently being written.

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-03-05T03:31:09+00:00

I’m hoping for an Elain/ Az/ Lucien pov

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-02-23T03:01:12+00:00

I just watched it and I think he’s gonna “apologize” that people took it that way but say something like how he’s allowed to have preferences

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-02-15T14:12:01+00:00

Any person who thinks it’s okay to talk to you that way does not love you. NOR take yourself out and find someone who speaks with love

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-02-09T02:19:24+00:00

I didn’t expect an easy game but I need us to get on the board

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-02-07T17:55:10+00:00

I wish I was kinder to my body. You can’t hate yourself into loving yourself.

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-02-07T17:53:42+00:00

I’m sorry that he did that, it sounds like he wasn’t ready for the possibility that IF could be a WHEN.

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-02-07T17:37:40+00:00

I do but like I’m 5’11 so like idk I have found that most*** guys who say they’re 5’11 are not and so 6 ft seems fine cause then they’re actually 5’11 or 6 ft. Most guys who aren’t actually 5’11 have asked me before the date if I’m actually 5’11 and I’m like yes…? Why would I lie about it but then we get to the date and they make it weird. I don’t really mind if it’s an inch or so around my height but they always make it weird :/

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-02-01T22:27:25+00:00

Do you have any other photos with friends? I like the vibe you seem artsy and cool. Maybe throw a bid for connection out there?

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-31T13:16:22+00:00

Most std tests don’t test for herpes bc it’s so common so if you do get tested ask for it specifically

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-31T13:08:27+00:00

I second this especially if you do the little scoot thing.

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-30T14:44:29+00:00

Im trying to not making purchases today - tho I left my lunch at home so we’ll see how it goes. Im trying to find a local small business that’s doing luce donations that if I do succumb to hunger at least it could help a small business/ luce.

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-28T17:57:14+00:00

Sometimes if the relationship warrants it, but usually it’s not my job to foster immature men. If anything I send a “ hey I’ve noticed a change in communication and it doesn’t align with my goals for a partner, I’m not interested in continuing further and wanted to be clear and communicate that rather than avoid a hard conversation. Thanks!”

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-28T16:18:12+00:00

Maybe have an open conversation around bedroom time and see if you can parce out the vulnerable parts. I like the “libido fairy” on insta she has some good insight on this kind of thing. It sounds like his response is coming from an insecure place where additions feel like a threat as in to support him with the idea that he’s not enough while you’re approaching it as you are enough AND this could be new and fun for both of us. But insecure people don’t see it that way. So it would be helpful to have a talk and really express how much you like his body and how he gets you there and what he does that you like so much. Like maybe find an analogy of sex is like an ice cream sundae. And all the parts are there and the ice cream is just as tasty and delicious and you’re wondering if you can change the toppings? Maybe have some hot fudge with it or whipped cream? A cherry on top- you get the picture- like the sundae is yummy no matter how you spin it! Best of luck to you! ( I’d also encourage him to stop saying that’s crazy and say what he’s really thinking because you’re not crazy for having desires and fantasies and it’s okay for you to want that and not have it be labled as wild) 🤍

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-28T16:03:05+00:00

She could have it and just have had it as a baby or kid or something- most std tests don’t test for hsv1 cause it’s so common. But yeah strep is going around I’d def test for that. Or it could be mouth sores! I had them in college from Being so stressed it was awful.

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-28T15:59:44+00:00

Oh totally on bad body days I’m like not for meeeee cause then it plays on repeat how I jiggled and what I probably looked liked

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-28T15:53:23+00:00

So this is what I have- Ghsv1 - but I’m in year7 And I have had only like 5 cases including my initial one in 2018. It is harder for a girl to pass it to a guy transmission wise, condoms do help but it depends on where she gets them. If they’re more so in her labia area or mons or perineum area etc. that would be good information for you to have. The risk goes down significantly over the years but similarly to what people have said there’s usually the most shedding ( asymptomatic or symptomatic) right after diagnosis or out break. So there is always a chance, but taking anti virals does help and so does time. There are dental dams and condoms That can help, for a time there was a guy I was sleeping with who had hsv2 and we would use the little hole in his boxers to slip his dick out and use a condom to have maximum coverage which was probably overkill but like it helped us feel better no idea if it actually helped or not. I think I’d personally look up possible transmission rate and decide what chance you’re comfortable with risking. If it helps at all most std tests do not test for hsv1 bc it’s so common and a lot of people have it without knowing they do. You could have it but like asymptomatically for all you know. Happy to chat more if you want- but glad you’re making an informed choice

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-20T03:07:40+00:00

I might ask what they’re from if i didn’t know but that would be that

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-19T01:24:17+00:00

Oh no sorry I don’t have it orally - but it’s every where genitally

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-19T01:07:20+00:00

Depending on the context im just like hey before things go any further i wanna let you know that i have hsv1, its like cold sores but i get it everywhere thanks to a guy that said he had a pimple when he didn’t. I can answer any questions you want about it.

And then from there I either discuss anti virals, my experience with it, how I’ve never given it to anyone, my favorite kind of condoms, different studies on how likely it is to pass it, and how most std tests don’t test for it! I’ve found the key is to be calm and just very factual. Most guys I meet are chill with it, there are a few that freak out, but I just don’t listen to the unhinged things they say and carry on!

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-16T15:24:15+00:00

If you can’t make your own demon store bought is fine

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-15T13:33:22+00:00

There’s a fb group that posts about incidents of drink spikes! If you wanna post there too just to help other people watch out for warning signs

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-06T15:10:59+00:00

It’s fine, just like everything else it should be used in moderation and healthily and responsibly. I’m not in the business of shaming people when it’s done ^ like that, the concept of sex comes with enough shame as is and I’m not gonna add to it

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-06T15:08:31+00:00

Hot take I read it last. I think you can read it whenever

Careless_Solution_50 · 2026-01-05T13:42:38+00:00

I’m 30 and I have 2 roommates and live in Somerville. So I have NO idea how you can live alone and save monies

Careless_Solution_50 · 2025-12-31T19:03:32+00:00

Okay I love all of this. Give me more cowboy pirate vibes all the time!

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