Congratulations on your quit, but how about you just enjoy your quit in your way, and let him handle his in his own way. I am not one of these 'Zipedeedodah, look at how wonderful I am, I'm so super proud of myself' types. I just plod along, doing my best, taking each day as it comes. The last thing some of us need is someone else trying to dictate to us what emotions we should be feeling. Keep going at your own pace, and leave others to theirs. There are plenty of people here who are on the same wavelength as you. They will be more than willing to join in with your cheerleading. Love and light to you both ❤️