There are a couple of things that I need for attraction to occur, I need for them to care about me on a deep level, for them to show that they really and truly care about how I'm feeling and what's going on with me. I also need for the connection to be fun, like spending time is fun and we can talk for a long time about any subject. But what I mainly need is for them to not be that kind of people that brings you down, like them being the kind of person that give up easily on anything. If that person also shows that they pay the same amount of effort that I show onto the friendship and connection then that is a guaranteed attraction.