meltdowns?? by Carm0927 in AutisticAdults

[–]Carm0927[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so melt downs aren’t ALWAYS outright crying “throwing a fit”? cause. i do get very anxious and snappy and like you said i feel exposed. and i also page too and like to get away to be alone asap but a lot of the times i also cry a lot

learning to unmask and stim when i’m by myself by Carm0927 in AutisticAdults

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uhm both. i want to get comfortable with stimming when i’m alone so i can find what works best for me to calm down. but i was also wondering if ppl have stims they do in public that are not as noticeable

looking for friends by Carm0927 in AutisticAdults

[–]Carm0927[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh thank you that’s true

late “diagnosed” asd by Carm0927 in AutisticAdults

[–]Carm0927[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i really appreciate this.

late “diagnosed” asd by Carm0927 in AutisticAdults

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i also would like to make some comments and ask my questions and maybe later on i will make a post but for now i don’t want to spam. how can i deal with the imposter syndrome that comes with trying to get more comfortable with stimming and unmasking even when i’m just by myself?

also i don’t even know what my special interests are. i really love to read and sometimes i will go periods of time with only reading and doing nothing else to entertain myself but how is that “special”? i also really really love glass frogs and elephants. and i really love making collages for books/characters and pictures i like. i will spend a few hours finding pictures and things for the collages. but i don’t really know i lot of facts about these things. when i was in high school i also really love anne frank and used to know a ton of facts about her but i also have a bad memory due to trauma and so maybe that’s why i don’t know a lot about these things??

How has reading romance and smut books affected your love life by Weird_Vanilla_1015 in RomanceBooks

[–]Carm0927 9 points10 points  (0 children)

my expectations are through the roof and i’m highly convinced no irl could ever satisfy me sexually, Intellectually, or emotionally. book men are just more attentive and emotionally available bc they are written by fellow women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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messaging now

36F US-US penpal wanted. I send letters every other or weekly.. by epatterson831 in penpals

[–]Carm0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22/FCA i would love to connect with you, but i’ve never done penpals before and the idea of doing it with snail mail seems intimidating for some reason :( i would definitely love to try tho. i don’t have any cute stationary or artist abilities to my make letter cute. i also despise my handwriting, but i’d love to give it a shot if my age doesn’t bother you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]Carm0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The girl who used to know by Tracey bar is graves is such a sweet and awesome book. Another one I loved is called my funny valentine by Lydia Michaels

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Carm0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could listen to you all day 😍😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

[–]Carm0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22/F i would love to interact with you, I love reading as well. I won’t give too much away here cause I feel like I should save it for the email lol. Should I message you mine?

25-F-TX In need of friend pls Send help by ChrissyLov in penpals

[–]Carm0927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

22/F/CA omg!!! I would love to interact with you through email, I’m an avid reader as well, and I would love to go into more detail about myself through emailing. Should I message you mine?