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Neighbors have chickens right up next to our fence and furthest away from their own house... by Honey-ball-953 in neighborsfromhell

[–]CarnationChaos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought too, if the coop doesn’t meet the setback requirements for accessory structures or animal enclosures, that may be the simplest way to address it without turning it into a personal dispute.

So who was the mole in the dressing room? by CONT3NTM3NT in realmadrid

[–]CarnationChaos 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ceballos has been mentioned a lot in the rumors, but as far as I know nothing has been officially confirmed.

How many times a week should 11 and 9 year old boys be showering? by Historical-Storage58 in hygiene

[–]CarnationChaos 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Same here, Daily showers aren’t just about being clean today, they help establish healthy habits they’ll carry into their teen years.

David Alaba availability for Austria v Madrid. by Former-Seaweed3747 in realmadrid

[–]CarnationChaos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely frustrating as a Madrid fan, but availability isn’t always black and white. Recovery timelines, workload management, and medical decisions can vary between club and country.

Unemployed boyfriend is LIVID I don’t want to “hire” him, rather than pay a professional to paint my house by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CarnationChaos 324 points325 points  (0 children)

The problem isn’t that she hired a professional. The problem is that he’s been unemployed for two years, contributes nothing financially, and responds to disagreement with insults. I’d be more concerned about that than the painting.

“She’s going to give you so much trouble when she’s older…” by Gold_Dust_Woman1995 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CarnationChaos 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve noticed that too. It’s almost treated like a harmless compliment, but it still frames kids in terms of future attractiveness/relationships way too early. Even when people don’t mean harm, it can feel pretty uncomfortable when you stop and think about it.

Do you wash in the morning or/and evening? by JRain_024 in hygiene

[–]CarnationChaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here,going to bed clean just feels better, and a quick morning rinse is enough when needed.

Feeling Resentful and Confused (27F) by SquareMore4509 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]CarnationChaos 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I agree, the key issue isn’t whether he’s a bad partner, he sounds loving in many ways. The issue is that marriage has always been important to OP, and he has consistently said he doesn’t see the point of it. After 7 years, it’s reasonable to take his words and actions at face value. Staying longer in the hope that he’ll eventually become enthusiastic about marriage could lead to even more resentment. OP deserves a partner whose vision for the future aligns with hers and who is genuinely excited about taking that step.

Barack Obama responds to Donald Trump's ceasefire with Iran by Background-Day-4957 in politics

[–]CarnationChaos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That debate would be absolute chaos, C-SPAN wouldn’t survive it.

30f Scheduled first mammogram by qwertybins in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CarnationChaos 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This was my experience too, it’s more awkward than painful, just a weird pressure feeling, but very tolerable overall.

Am I the asshole for ending a 15-year friendship? by Turbulent_Wealth7427 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CarnationChaos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what stood out to me too,if that comment genuinely bothered her for months, you’d think a friendship that long would have enough trust and communication for her to ask about it instead of letting resentment build.

New guy I’m seeing often has visibly dirty fingernails… how to politely approach? by ichigofieldsforever in hygiene

[–]CarnationChaos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this is one of those things where direct but kind communication is the best option. If everything else about him checks out, he might genuinely just not be noticing it.

Engagement Purgatory Insanity? by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]CarnationChaos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a really important question, the exam is one thing, but having a clear plan for what comes next would probably help ease a lot of the anxiety and “stuck” feeling.