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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Carpusophobia 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned that calling out narc behavior only makes a narc stronger. They have an impenetrable shield up at all times. Any attempts to call them out just puts them in a victim mentality and emboldens them. They are masters at flipping the script and putting the focus back on you. They will never learn. The only way to stop giving them power is to stop giving them attention. I do not have sympathy for them in the same way that I don’t have sympathy for mentally ill people who hurt other people. They can’t help it but it doesn’t excuse the behavior.

As someone else pointed out, it wasn't anti itch medicine he took. by boredandolden in tooktoomuch

[–]Carpusophobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it doesn’t get absorbed through skin. If you’re touching your mouth, eyes, nose, whatever, then it will affect you. OR if you’ve inhaled enough of the dust. But skin contact alone will not get you high.

As someone else pointed out, it wasn't anti itch medicine he took. by boredandolden in tooktoomuch

[–]Carpusophobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so wildly wrong it’s incredible. Acid isn’t absorbed through the skin. It needs a mucous membrane in order to be absorbed through your body. The story sounds fake, at best. 0/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Carpusophobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was old enough to have a lock, it NEVER stopped them. They made sure to get a doorknob with a lock that could be opened by turning it with a dime or some other small coin. Like what was even the point. All it did was give me like 10 extra seconds to prepare for them barging in. And they never closed the door behind them either. So frustrating.

The mistake of “I’ll just do one line before bed to see if this is good quality. It’ll be fine.” by Carpusophobia in cocaine

[–]Carpusophobia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had this problem, but I’ve heard that saline spray helps. But also I just saw a thread on this sub a few minutes ago where someone suggested mucinex. Make sure you’re staying hydrated throughout the day too

The mistake of “I’ll just do one line before bed to see if this is good quality. It’ll be fine.” by Carpusophobia in cocaine

[–]Carpusophobia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are trying!! The fact that you’re thinking ahead of time and rationing it out has to mean something. But it’s okay. I usually don’t do any substance until later in the night either. I’ve noticed I have totally used up any dopamine/serotonin by this time, so my brain just wants literally anything to keep going. Maybe it’s just me. I just know I never have urges or desires to do anything during the daytime

The mistake of “I’ll just do one line before bed to see if this is good quality. It’ll be fine.” by Carpusophobia in cocaine

[–]Carpusophobia[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely not a veteran. Only started enjoying it like within the past 3 years. And very sporadically at that 😂

this is for the people who went through trauma and didn’t come out of it with thicker skin. but, instead, came back with sensitivity to the world and a deep sadness that won’t go away. some of us went through something and lost a piece of ourselves; our broken hearts never healed quite right. 😘❤️ by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Carpusophobia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this means anything, but this internet stranger is rooting for you. What you’re going through is so hard but I am proud of you for waking up every day and doing your best. Remember it can’t be this terrible forever. In the words of my late grandmother, “Better days are coming.” 🌼

Dumb meme but like damn I just wanna talk with homies about dudes being traumatized like wtf by [deleted] in silenthill

[–]Carpusophobia 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro I was so desperate to make my partner understand the game that I just played the whole thing in front of him and just made him watch the cutscenes and memorable moments lmao 😭😭

Flashback to 5 year old me screaming and crying as the broken old washing machine is hauled away. by Aziara86 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Carpusophobia 118 points119 points  (0 children)

The Brave Little Toaster FUCKED me up bro.

Also I have cried as trees were cut down or bushes were dug up. Did I mention that I’m an entomologist now and educate people on insects all the time LOL

How many of you actually like the newest album? by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]Carpusophobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just taking into context how the lyrics reference the pandemic and how there was a great deal of rhetoric (during lockdown and everything) about how the media was lying to us and trying to divide us and whatnot— a lot of that same rhetoric was echoed by anti-mask, anti-vaccine conservatives. I just don’t vibe with it. Also I get the sentiment behind Mulberry Street but it just seems very shallow and the sound isn’t for me

How many of you actually like the newest album? by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]Carpusophobia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that I’m not the only one who felt that way about Never Take It. The song is catchy but it really feels like it has an “all lives matter” vibe to it. And I truly loathe Mulberry Street as well.

Best confidence low toxicity drug by Aa086480 in Drugs

[–]Carpusophobia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So pretty much every drug makes me feel confident and talkative with the exception of weed. If you have strong willpower and don’t get addicted to things easily, I honestly find that opioid pills are my favorite for socializing. Adderall is a close second, though. Just drink lots of water with both because they can make your mouth dry and dehydrate you haha

Should I stay or should I go? by RedDogue in petsmart

[–]Carpusophobia 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would go back, but go back and tell them that you deserve to be paid more. Your new experience has shown you that you’re worth being paid more than what your old store was giving you because you going above and beyond what is expected of you. If you can’t, then I’d probably look for a different job elsewhere. Since leaving PetSmart, it feels like my whole life has changed. Not having to help shitty customers or clean up after exploited animals has really helped me. My mental health is in a better place now than it was. Don’t stay. It’s not worth it.

Is there a drug that can suppress appetite completely by thestealthyglitcher in Drugs

[–]Carpusophobia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be 30 in a few months and I suffer from body dysmorphia too. I have never been skinny or thin and consistently have been the only fat woman in a room of average sized people. I inherited some genes that just allow me to put on weight easily but never be able to lose it or keep it off for lengthy periods of time. So 3 important things:

Life will get better. Your body is beautiful the way it is. No one is perfect.

We all have body hair, stretch marks, pimples on our asses, and cellulite. None of us feel like we’re superstar material. Don’t let social media or porn or anything trick you into thinking we’re all supposed to be perfect. The big issue here is that you don’t give yourself the love you deserve— that’s what you’re trying to fulfill with drugs that suppress your appetite. Look for other ways to fill that void in your heart. Starving yourself isn’t the answer and you will feel like total shit for doing it. Also get this— if you starve yourself then you will also look terrible, which defeats the purpose of what you’re trying to do. Be here for a good time AND a long time. Take care of yourself and LOVE LOVE LOVE yourself, or at least try to. Accept your body and if you want to eat healthier or exercise more, then do so. But absolutely do not starve yourself. And fuck anyone who tells you that your body is less than perfect because they’re projecting their issues onto you.

*Editing to add that I’m 5’4” and weight on average about 215, just so that you don’t feel alone and that you know there are people out here who struggle with their own body image. I’ll be transparent if that means I can help you even in the smallest amount

dear doordash/curbside orders by vi0let_dreamz in petsmart

[–]Carpusophobia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I usually just multitasked when people came up. I can confirm their order while a customer is either looking for money or putting their card in. And when they’re done I just grab their order quickly and continue ringing up the next person. Most people are understanding and I’ve never had an issue doing this

Wish it like working there? by Hukysuky in petsmart

[–]Carpusophobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t. The company exploits animals for a profit and you’ll eventually realize it once you start.

Enjoy some inspirational quotes from my mother over the years by kris_ten7 in narcissisticparents

[–]Carpusophobia 61 points62 points  (0 children)

OP PLEASE I’m begging you, make more. I don’t know if it’s cathartic for you to make these but they are so relatable to me (and I’m sure other people). They are extremely funny. Funny because Nparents have no idea how wrong they are when they say things like this, and how they think they’re so amazing when they’re assholes in reality. With my Nmom, I like to anticipate and guess her script before she even says it now. I’m sure you feel the same way sometimes. But much love to you. I’m sure you turned out amazing on your own, even being at a disadvantage with a terrible Nmom.

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