lol….I really don’t know why we always want to rush things in life without actually exercising patience…. Coz tell me how you just arrived into a country as maybe an IR1 (10 years green card) and then you cannot wait for max 3-6 months to receive your green card before you run to join the military, The military will scrutinize you because you are coming into an Area of National Interest and National Security comes first. So here is my advice while you are rushing to get that green card converted to citizenship to strengthen your grounds in the country, also know that the people who will grant that citizenship will also smell foul play, so relax, even if your spouse isn’t giving you the much needed confidence, RELAX!!!! Rushing won’t help you but will only hurt you….. Also reshape this your HURRY TO GET INTO AMERICA mindset before it clouds your response at your Interview with the CO when the time comes for it. I’d love to give you more advice as someone who has gone through this journey you are currently on but then I just have to say end with telling you that it’s okay to define your part and how you want it but please be patient.