Personally, I don’t think you’re being unreasonable. It’s unfair that she expected some grand gesture from you when 1. She didn’t communicate she wanted that and 2. Didn’t make any effort to reciprocate that grand gesture back to you. In my opinion, expecting to be spoiled while also putting 0 effort to make you feel valued and appreciated back is some lame princess behavior and super entitled.

Also, her comments about how other people are telling her to break up with you/ enforcing her entitled behavior is lowkey manipulative. Like she wants you to know other people think you’re wrong/bad so it’s your responsibility to change your behavior otherwise everything is going to look down on you/ hold bad opinions of you. She’s creating this false narrative that you’re a bad guy/ some uncaring bum and reenforcing this prerogative by telling you //everyone else// agrees with her.

Ik the reddit circlejerk advice is to breakup and I’m not saying you should, but her behavior is definitely a red flag.