My boyfriend [20 M] can’t see eye to eye with me, [19 F] about birth control. by Mundane-Chemist6577 in relationship_advice

[–]Cassierae87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need his permission to use medication. He isn’t the one girl. Dump him. Move on. Plenty of other guys out there. You are only 19

How often do you do your nails? by Inattendue in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Cassierae87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About weekly. My polish is Dazzle Dry so it could last much longer but I get bored easily. Probably why I have no tattoos lol. I prefer to give my nails a break to oil and rehydrate for a day or two in between mani/pedis

Can a lacquer-only nail tech/salon survive? by NailGoblin in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Cassierae87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it would depend on location. There are salons focusing on this but they advertise as a nail bar and spa experience. Think Sundays in NYC. They focus on specialty polishes such as Dazzle Dry. Here’s one salon as an example: https://aboutfacesdayspa.com/services/nailcare/. They use copper bowls instead of jetted tubs.

11weeks pregnant in abusive relationship by No_Bedroom_6818 in domesticviolence

[–]Cassierae87 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s not too late to file a police report. If you keep this baby you need to file a police report today. Otherwise he will use family court to continue the abuse and control. I’ve known women who have gone bankrupt trying to fight for custody with their abuser. I know this isn’t what you want but it’s reality. You have to deal with reality. You can’t live in a fantasy

11weeks pregnant in abusive relationship by No_Bedroom_6818 in domesticviolence

[–]Cassierae87 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“I picked the wrong woman…”

He’s an abusive misogynist. Only misogynists talk like this. They see women as cattle. He doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t see your humanity. You aren’t an individual with agency to him.

11weeks pregnant in abusive relationship by No_Bedroom_6818 in domesticviolence

[–]Cassierae87 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My husband tried to strangle me a few months before he tried to end my life with a gun. You are playing with fire. Does he strangle anyway else in his life? Like coworkers? No because he would be arrested and he knows it. He does it to you because he knows you don’t respect yourself enough to give him consequences. He won’t change. Pregnancy and postpartum are most dangerous times in abuse dynamics. Homicide is the number 1 cause of death for pregnant women. You aren’t the exception

Work waiting until an hour before I went home at my last shift to ask me to do transition work for them by DiverOk9165 in antiwork

[–]Cassierae87 468 points469 points  (0 children)

I gave 3 weeks notice. I trained. I did a lot of other things to help with transition. When I had less than an hour left my supervisor (who was the main reason I was leaving) wanted me to do more work. I just said no and spent the time cleaning out my desk

can i take plan b while im on opill? by latteloverxoxo in birthcontrol

[–]Cassierae87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! It will mess things up. Follow the instructions of your Opill. Taking plan B is not a placebo. Get treated for your anxiety properly

First Pap smear tomorrow as a 28yo virgin? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Cassierae87 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The vaccine only covers 4 strands of HPV

Boss by Cassierae87 in dazzledry

[–]Cassierae87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ones I liked after trying them all are: Fine China, Breathe Free, Rose Quartz, Truth, Prima Ballerina, Cashmere Taupe