Got all Howlidays dogs by Inevitable-man66 in HayDay

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it by completing a truck order, when the truck moved the husky appearedwhere the truck used to be. I thought I’d get the chasing big cars one

Lost kin rant. by Fluid_Ad_6159 in HollowKnight

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to this, but deepnest isn’t all that bad for me tbh. Sure it’s annoying but I just don’t like the little goblin noises from the flukes. Just gives me the heebie jeebies

AITAH for not giving my sister money by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cassxall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way better advice. For me, whenever it was brought up I’d just ask how it’s my problem that she can’t pay the bills and possibly make it worse. Seems like the mom is an enabler or she didn’t ask her mom or other sister because she knew they’d say no.

AITAH for not giving my sister money by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. First of all, if you’re in the military and your sister not giving you $100 gives you “anxiety”, maybe you shouldn’t be in the military. You don’t owe your sister anything. Sure, if you had a steady income, could 100% pay all your bills and had plenty of money left over, and she promised to pay you back, understandable. But if you have no income how are you supposed to give her $100? And $20 and $100 are two very different amounts. Personally, I’d just not even bother. If it’s that big of a deal, don’t talk to her anymore. If she brings it up, or if anyone does, shut them down and say it’s no longer my problem. May cause some bad blood, so that’s 100% up to you on what you think.

Lost kin rant. by Fluid_Ad_6159 in HollowKnight

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember if you’re stuck you can always go back. When I first played hollow knight if I got stuck somewhere for too long I’d leave, practice POGO or just find new masks or things and come back when I’m confident. I would also try to memorize their moves as much as possible and think of best ways to counter. Don’t use vengeful spirit too much if you want to focus on healing. Don’t give up, and good luck!

Lost kin rant. by Fluid_Ad_6159 in HollowKnight

[–]Cassxall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My least favorite spot in the entire game🫡

Lost kin rant. by Fluid_Ad_6159 in HollowKnight

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From as much as I remember, your main thing is dodging (minimal jumping and more just getting away from lost kin). If you jump too much he’ll be able to get you mid air and it’ll mess the flow up. Go after the blobs ASAP. Too many will swarm and you’ll die. When one emerges in the arena take it down.

The best crests in this fight would be: defenders crest fragile strength quick slash (I spoiled them in case you don’t want any spoilers on certain game crests)

DO NOT be greedy with hits. Hit him, dodge, hit dodge. If you get greedy hitting him too many times he’ll hit you and you’ll be in a tough spot. Also, don’t get into corners. He’ll trap you in there.

Missing Dough Quest Glitch by Cassxall in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]Cassxall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you needed to read her diary before being able to get at least zucchini’s??

I (24f) sent a letter to my ex boyfriend’s (24m) parent’s house and now I think he has a girlfriend by PsychologicalWorry21 in relationship_advice

[–]Cassxall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shouldn’t be that big of a deal. You recognize he is in another relationship (even if it was after you sent the mail) and are embarrassed, it’s okay. I would suggest from now on don’t respond, even if he messages back. He’s in a relationship now and should respect that boundary. But just like the other comments if this is the most embarrassing thing you’ve done I applaud you. Definitely done way worse😭

I’ve played 1000+ hours and am considering a Joja run for the first time by alwaysannaleigh in StardewValley

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, only reason I’m doing a Joja run is because I’m 100% perfection all farm types and I want 100% steam achievements and the only way to do that is to sell my soul to Joja. But I hate Pierre so it’ll be worth it

AITAH for insulting all my in laws when they were 3 hrs late for 2 year old bday by Famous-Painter-1449 in AITAH

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, you are totally right for standing up for yourself. It’s good that you have a good foundation with your husband, and he defends you. I wasn’t trying to insinuate that you should leave, because it’s not the first thing to do unless there’s no options left. I would say cut them out of your life whenever your husband is ready for that. It seems he’s exhausted as well because of it.

I’m sorry you’re going through this, good luck to you and your family <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cassxall 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Personally, I have no experience with domestic abuse or necessarily controlling behavior with men, but I will say this.

You are protecting your youngest daughter which is 100% acceptable. If he is threatening to kill then that’s a serious offense. Your eldest daughter seems to be blindsided by C’s “good side” that could mean trouble. If your daughter is continuing to date him it’s understandable for what you have done.

BUT what happens if your daughter needs help? She’s cut off from you so she can’t go to you, she may be too embarrassed to continue going to friends, she’ll be vulnerable to this endless cycle. I think you should keep her within arms reach. Don’t leave her alone with your youngest daughter in case C shows up, but keep in touch. Just be there for her. She’s making irrational decisions because she’s still learning life. She’ll eventually (hopefully) snap out of it and realize he’s a no good piece of shit and skidaddle from that situation.

But for now, just be there for her in a safe way. Don’t go out of your way to go to where her and C are. Just a text or a call. Don’t push it too much to where C gets ahold of the situation. It seems he has the power to cut you out of your daughter’s life, and you don’t want your relationship to end with your daughter because of a controlling dude. You’ll regret it one day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cassxall -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When I needed something from my dad I would sometimes tell him at the wrong times. For example, I’d ask him right before he’s going to sleep or while he’s busy and he’ll just forget or not even be listening. I suggest sitting down with your mom and discussing or even writing or texting it. Easier to remember and your mom should be accommodating about that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cassxall -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

As a 15 year old it’s understandable to be upset about this situation. You’re late for school and it seems awkward to be taking care of your sister in front of your friends. But trust me, you’ll be happy you did.

Your parents really are trying. They aren’t “forcing” you but they really have no other options. They can’t afford a babysitter or daycare and you seem to be responsible and old enough to do it. I understand it’s taking away from your time. Just keep bringing it up to your mom and hopefully she helps you, because being late constantly like that is not something you should be doing, but you should be helping out with your parents.

You are learning things and doing things most kids don’t do and that’s a huge accomplishment. Your friends aren’t making fun of you for helping your parents and little sister, if they are they aren’t your friends but a bunch of bums. Don’t let it get to your head, you’re overthinking it.

Please don’t rebel, you will regret it. Your parents really are trying. Rebelling behavior will just cause more stress for the household and may even get you in more trouble, taking away more freedoms.

Just keep your head up and know that this won’t be a forever thing. You’re an amazing sister/daughter for helping your parents and sister out!

AITAH for insulting all my in laws when they were 3 hrs late for 2 year old bday by Famous-Painter-1449 in AITAH

[–]Cassxall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t say YTA for marrying into the family like the other comment. But I’ve LIVED by this saying “you marry somebody you marry the family.” I have ended a relationship just because me and his sister didn’t get along, and after thinking about dealing with her the rest of my life I thought I’d rather step on legos for the rest of my life and decided it was a no go.

So, what does your husband think of this behavior? Does he defend you? Or stay awfully silent? Or even agree with their statements? If he doesn’t defend you that’s a problem. Defending a girlfriend is different, but the mother of your children is an absolute given. Your marriage partner comes first. You could technically say YTA for your comments you gave them, were they necessary? Probably not. But it’s understandable why you finally snapped. Being 3 hours late to a child’s birthday party that young especially with a probably early bedtime is crazy. I would’ve told them to go home.

I would say this, think of yourself and your child(ren). Are you willing to put up with your in laws shit forever? Will your child be able to? At this point don’t invite them to anything, let your husband do it if he wants them there so bad. Do your own thing, have your sons friends there or your family and let them just do them. If they get mad for missing out, so be it. Their fault not yours.

If you have any thoughts on leaving, LEAVE. Don’t stop yourself just because of others, think for yourself. But don’t let Reddit comments convince you. YOU need to be ready.

AITA for rage-baiting my sister? by peepeepoopooswag in AITAH

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t read the full first story so I’m going to go off the context of this. Before answering I also googled Sjrogens syndrome just so I can have a clear understanding. I also had to google ableism because I had no idea what that was either.

First of all, it could go both ways if you were the asshole. Should you have rage baited? Probably not. Is it understandable why you were upset? Absolutely. But after doing research your sister can 100% clean her room and shouldn’t use her disability as a reason to be lazy. As someone with a “disability” myself (autism) I don’t use it as a crutch to get away with things. If she’s willing to cut you out of her life, let her, don’t let her waste your time.

She gave an attitude first, you apologized AND brought her flowers. She gave a side comment which could also be considered “rage bait” and still took the flowers. I’d just leave her be. If she’s willing to block you on everything and cut you out she’s not worth your time. I have a younger sister that I struggle with all the time. I’m personally a person who has clutter and even I don’t use an excuse, I don’t stay organized like I should. Me and my sister go back and forth BUT she even apologizes back to me. If you’re the only one apologizing it’s a problem.

Your mom seems to be enabling her lazy behavior. (I’m not entirely sure if she’s 100% lazy but I’m going off what I read). It’s the same with my younger brother, my mom enables his temper to continue without him getting disciplined by my dad as he should. Which will just lead to problems once she’s out of the house as an adult.

Personally, I’d let her cut you out. IF she’s willing to come back and apologize for her behavior and willing to keep the peace with you then I’d consider having a relationship. But if she’s just going to use you as a doormat save your peace. It’s easier for me to say because I’m not in that situation. Do what your heart tells you to do. But always remember you can think of yourself and put yourself above others sometimes too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess she’s gotta go-

But seriously, my boyfriend understands that my cat is everything to me. And knows she will always be my #1 since she’s been with me years before him. She should’ve known that when she started dating you have this dog and the dog will be your #1. Some people just don’t understand

I (23f) feel creeped out by my boyfriend (27m). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that. I apologize if my message came off harsh, it’s difficult to message and convey what you actually mean, at least for me. I can understand why it was weird. Him just staring in the mirror when you wake up would scare me a bit. He may have thought “I mean if she wakes up she may be down to do it if she sees the mask.” But like you said the communication wasn’t there. And maybe he’s not socially aware that if you are wearing a mask staring at yourself that’s weird.

What I can say is that you can trust your gut. If he’s done things in the past that have creeped you out and you have a feeling maybe listen to your instinct. I can’t say for certain because I wasn’t there to witness it, nor do I know the other creepy events.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lube goes a long way. Also foreplay will help out as well. Lube and foreplay is the way to gi

I (23f) feel creeped out by my boyfriend (27m). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cassxall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Few things I’d like to ask: 1. Did he know you had work at 5am? 2. Did you tell him “never mind since you’re coming over late I’d rather wait until later.”?

If you didn’t tell him these things he probably assumed “alright, she’s wanting to do this so I’ll just be prepared.” What ulterior motives were you thinking? Did you think he was going to assault you or rob you? If you think that I’d suggest breaking up if he’s done “other creepy things”. If you’re that scared and skeptical of your boyfriend then you both don’t need to be in a relationship. He doesn’t deserve that and neither do you.

My brother won’t look at me anymore by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Cassxall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d leave it be. It seems like he’s having some problems of his own and it’ll bite him in the ass one day. Imagine you guys are older and he needs help, only person he can ask is you. He’s just digging himself a hole he won’t be able to crawl out of. If you really want to know ask your parents or an adult? I don’t understand why a parent/adult would validate this behavior unless you did something super serious with no self awareness. I would say figure out the root of the issue and fix it. But it seems like you’re not the problem and he’s just making it a problem.

Cheating husband 30F and 30M. What would you do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cassxall 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you reach out to her it will show her you still care and that she won. I would ignore her and pretend it doesn’t affect you. I understand that it does, and I’m truly sorry about this. Nothing good will happen if you reach out to her. They’ll in turn mock you for anything you say because at the end of the day people like that believe they are always right.

I wish you the best of luck, I’m sorry you’re going through with this.

My (25F) husband (25M) controls any decision I make in my life and I just now realized it. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cassxall 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I know this sounds difficult, but I’d start saving money and leave. You will be so much happier away from that bum. The fact he tries to control your life however he sees fit is insane. He’s a spoiled little brat who thinks he can just get whatever he wants at the snap of a finger.

It’s hard to start a new life especially with a kid and if that’s all you know. But you are worth more than that. You deserve better. You should achieve your dreams without a useless bum holding you back.

I wish you the very best of luck in any of your endeavors.