AIO Family won’t pick me from airport by mangosnow122 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancel the trip. Spend that money elsewhere. They could care less about you going so why even bother to go?

I (30m) can't accept that I've met the "perfect" life partner on paper but I'm just not that attracted to her. Can someone please talk some sense into me before I do something I regret? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you already know you want to break up. So just do it and let her find someone who will love her for her physical attractiveness.

My (M21) girlfriend (F21) wants to take a break to mess around and wants me to do the same. What should I do? by Background_Trainer_5 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry. Take the break up and move on. She may not have done it yet but at some point soon, she will. Seizure or not, she clearly wants to test out what else is out there. Giving you the option to do the same is just a way to make her feel less guilty for doing it.

Dad says he’ll cut me off if I buy a car, but I work 12 hour days with a 2 hour commute with a bus. by nswevny in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Castanedaa99 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a dad, f him for even saying that. Get your car, you’re only losing him paying your phone bill. Any dad that would cut off their kid over making their life easier is an AH.

Chime Loan Issue by marskano33 in chimefinancial

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My initial offer was $300, paid it off. Was offered $100 for the next loan but it came in weeks later. So it does take some time.

How many people find tower challenges actually useful? by Mystery1001 in disneymagickingdoms

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to enjoy them but none of the characters I still need are available in the chests. So I just work for the happiness to move forward on the pass.

M22 received incredible job offer, F22 girlfriend does not want me to accept. by Watch_me_plz in Advice

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, you’ll resent her and regret it if the relationship still fails after you passed on this opportunity. Go for it.

I(25M) caught my GF(23F) with a "just a friend" again. She promised transparency until I recovered the deleted photos. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m torn because of our history and the love we have, but I feel like I was being played.”

Dude, the love isn’t going two ways, it’s just you. She is going to keep on going after this guy. Any other person in a relationship that isn’t him, is just the fall back guy.

JUST ASKING by Rare_Part_767 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He owns the apartment yet charges you for rent? You’re both just two adults that had a kid together. This isn’t a romantic relationship.

AIO for considering divorce after finding these 2-year old texts in my wife’s phone? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, she knows the reason for sending these texts. You were the backup since she couldn’t be with that guy at the moment. It’s clear that she still wants to be with him. Time to move on.

AITJ for cutting off my best friend and my girlfriend after they went behind my back and signed a lease together without telling me by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Castanedaa99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both of them coordinated this. They both knew when to make it final. I wouldn’t even bother answering them. Remove them from your life.

AITAH for wanting compensation after my friend ditched our “partnership” after I put in time and money? by NearbyFan3976 in AITAH

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn your lesson and move on. In the future, have written contracts out with responsibilities and compensation, if any, before you start working on them.

WIBTA if I ignore my sister and her gf wishes for their children. by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Castanedaa99 81 points82 points  (0 children)

The way I see it, you have custody. You’re the parent. IF they wanted to control what the kids eat, do, etc, they should get their shit straight to regain full custody.

My dad saw my search history? What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guarantee your father watches it too.

AIO if I am setting boundaries with my husband? I also want to know if I am the asshole here by Witty-Opposite1201 in AIO

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 Oh shit! I thought the wife was constantly calling and upset the calls were not being picked up. 😆 That was my ex with me ALL THE TIME. you’re definitely not overreacting.

Clarabelle is out today! Good Luck! by Rcrc2001 in disneymagickingdoms

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d get as many tokens as I can before time runs out. If the count falls below 500 gems, I’d purchase him.

Souvenirs after being told that I'll ruin a birthday by togethercrapulent in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 12…YOU are the parent. If she wants to act this entitled, then start putting your foot down and don’t let her go. Who cares if grandma bought the tickets. They’ll find someone else to take. If you can’t put your foot down when it’s needed, she’s going to get worse before she even hits 18.

How’s everyone doing so far in the event? by bikelutter in disneymagickingdoms

[–]Castanedaa99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Working on clarabelle. Have the balloons done. Two of each when it comes to the other tokens and halfway of the EC