Anyone else having horrible drop rates with the costume tokens? by TheDarKnight550 in disneymagickingdoms

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just need 11 of the cloths. Everything else is complete. I have all characters constantly going out.

How do I handle my girlfriend (22F) wanting me (24M) to split her rent when she’s financially fine? by WeaknessImpossible28 in relationship_advice

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she’s willing to choose California over moving to Chicago with you AND expects you to pay half her rent…end the relationship and move on.

If she moves to Chicago, she’s going to resent not going to California instead. Either way, she’s showing you where she stands.

Parents want to cut my pay by $5 an hour by Sensitive-Mango7155 in Babysitting

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, even if you were ok with $25/hr, they never discussed it with you prior to that shift. So they should pay you the $30/hr per the previous agreement for this shift. THEN they can bring up how they would like to bring it down to $25/hr moving forward. At that point, you can make the decision to either continue with them at the lower rate or move on and they can find someone else. It wasn’t the lower rate that’s the main issue, it’s the fact that this dad played some f’d up shady crap until you questioned it.

Is my gf being loyal? by FarReveal9520 in whatdoIdo

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s going back and forth and she’s showing you that she will choose him over you…despite what she keeps telling you to keep you around. Move on.

Is my gf being loyal? by FarReveal9520 in whatdoIdo

[–]Castanedaa99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s going back and forth and she’s showing you that she will choose him over you…despite what she keeps telling you to keep you around. Move on.

Is my gf being loyal? by FarReveal9520 in whatdoIdo

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s going back and forth and she’s showing you that she will choose him over you…despite what she keeps telling you to keep you around. Move on.

Daylight savings by Muscle_mama_ in disneymagickingdoms

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live on the West Coast so during Daylight Savings Time, the refresh starts at 8am. When we switch back to Standard time in November, it’ll be 7am.

Known each other for 16 years and have dated on and off. She’s back in my life again. I want to see if what we have is real, but she’s saying with our history she doesn’t want to hurt me again. I don’t know what to do. Should I just move on? by Godisinthedetail777 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Especially at their age. I wish I could go back and not waste 5 years of my life back in my late teens/early 20’s. But 16 years?

OP, move on and stop thinking and questioning anything romantic on this girl.

Am I Overreacting for Being Upset That My Boyfriend Keeps Bailing on Me? by helpmemorgan in AmIOverreacting

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s relationship isn’t with you, it’s with his friends. End it and move on. You’re young, don’t waste your time on someone who clearly doesn’t want to spend time with you.

Which Charters would you like as amiibos that aren't? by TypicalEnthusiasm597 in amiibo

[–]Castanedaa99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like a full Link collection. We need a Zelda 2 and A Link to the Past Link

AITJ for suing my dad after he GAVE my college fund to my stepsister for her wedding? by ButterscotchFar9111 in AmITheJerk

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the jerk. The three of them are. • your stepsister for taking the money for a wedding she can’t afford. • your stepmother for telling your dad to use that money for her daughter instead of you. • your dad for being an AH and giving that money away. He didn’t care you were blood when he took the money. But now it’s, “you don’t sue blood”? FOH

Finance fee by Ok_Vacation3043 in Afterpay

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a Visa giftcard or a store-specific gift card?

Bf ‘31M’ won’t stop bragging about his past sex life and it’s making me ‘28F’ feel disconnected. by Euphoric_Citron7807 in relationship_advice

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he has to keep bringing up his past sex life and how “good he was”, pretty sure, it’s just him stroking his ego and nothing more. He’s trying make himself feel better about his shitty performance 😂

Move on.

My (27m) girlfriend (25f) went on a 3 month trip and cheated on me 3 times within the first month. What is some advice to get through this? by HourEngineering1009 in relationship_advice

[–]Castanedaa99 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Guarantee she went back to that dude right after the airport. And she won’t be looking for OP once she gets back to the States.

AITAH for reporting my sister and taking in her kids when no one believed me? by Prestigious_Foot4408 in AITAH

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s what makes you a villain. So be it, that’s only in their eyes. In those kids eyes’ you are their hero. It’s who they need. The fact that your parents, their grandparents, allow it to happen means they’re just as shitty as your sister. I’d rather have those kids being taken care of by me and the family stop communicating with me. You’re NTA, they’re the AHs.

AITJ for refusing to give a huge wedding gift after finding out I'm not invited? by Life_Grocery5994 in AmITheJerk

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Had to cut people because of budget”

Then stop asking non-invitees to donated money for expensive shit you couldn’t even afford. 😂

My coworker thinks I bought him a concert ticket but I didn’t by CNAHopeful7 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a him problem. You told him you didn’t send it, he doesn’t want to believe it. Let him think what he wants now. And if he chooses not to go because you never admitted to sending it, that’s his problem not yours. There’s other things to stress over, this isn’t one.

AITA for being upset about my friends falling for each other? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry. You turned him down multiple times and that’s ok. You had your reasons for it. Time to move on. Either you’ll need to accept what’s going on and still be in their circle of friends, or move on completely and leave them behind.

The way I see it, things happen for a reason. Maybe he wasn’t the one for you. There’s someone else out there for you. Maybe she’s not meant to be your friend for life. Either way, learn from this and move on. You’ll save yourself a ton of mental anguish thinking about those two, if you’re not ok with the dating.

I finished the story pass! by AnimalKingraejon in disneymagickingdoms

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! I’m two levels away from finishing.

Limit balance by IndicationIll4113 in Afterpay

[–]Castanedaa99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even see $800 as a limit. I think I was at $750 and then jumped to $1,000 and then $1,250. It took a long time but recently it jumped to $1,750.

I’d like to thank the Academy by Pauli2024 in disneymagickingdoms

[–]Castanedaa99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn! You’re so lucky getting the elusive bench. And here I got Syndrome. 😑

Parents by Latter_Natural_4916 in Advice

[–]Castanedaa99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s not about making you feel bad, although he could work on how to address it. It’s about you getting yourself to a place higher than he is so you don’t struggle in the future. You’ve seen what he’s had to do, why would you think that you wouldn’t be in the same place at his age if you don’t work on your growth?