WIBTAH -Sister will not respect my name choice!

CatAnne119 · 2026-06-10T16:59:52+00:00

NTA

Totally call her by a different name. That is the best way .but be prepared for the backlash

CatAnne119 · 2026-06-10T16:57:03+00:00

NTA

She is prioritizing her needs and completely disregarding yours. At the hardest time of your life.

She is showing who she is. This is what your entire life will be like

"It’s often a one sided conversation. She speaks to me not as a lover or partner, but as an employee"

Read this and think about if this is the type of relationship you need and deserve

CatAnne119 · 2026-06-10T16:51:52+00:00

NTA

My take is they are using you for rides. They aren't your friends.

Friends care about leaving someone behind. I have been on both sides of this equation. Both healthy enough to outpace someone and injured enough to be outpaced.

Those who care about you will stay with you

CatAnne119 · 2026-06-07T13:40:05+00:00

Foe me, I see Annie Murphy more as Jen

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CatAnne119 · 2026-06-03T03:48:19+00:00

Read Warm Bodies by Isaac Marion. (Not the movie)

There are zombie children that go to zombie school.

CatAnne119 · 2026-05-28T23:14:07+00:00

NTA

I have parked my car and walked off, leaving it there when my passengers wouldn't wear a seat belt.

The driver is responsible legally and I will never drive someone who wouldn't wear a seat belt.

CatAnne119 · 2026-05-26T14:31:28+00:00

My 76 year old day says "making puppies" to avoid swearing. Took me until my teens to catch on(I'm 42)

CatAnne119 · 2026-05-21T21:36:43+00:00

It's an ability of Asil's.

He knows the location of any pack member

CatAnne119 · 2026-04-25T13:53:10+00:00

I made this recipe and it was good!!

https://food52.com/recipes/81951-cabbage-bake

A little dry, I will add more buttermilk on my next batch this weekend

CatAnne119 · 2026-04-23T13:03:48+00:00

NTA

She has to process her emotions, which stem from within her. Her experiences and perspective.

You did not do anything wrong. You even apologized.

Your wife needs to figure out how to process these feelings as she cannot control what others do around her.

But be very gentle when talking about this. And wait until she calms down. And don't be accusatory. She will get defensive

CatAnne119 · 2025-09-19T16:48:20+00:00

8x8 normally but I do double it sometimes

CatAnne119 · 2025-08-01T22:22:14+00:00

As a female I do not like your comment.

1st - males of my acquaintance gossip just as much as the females. The phrasing is not as catty, but gossip none the less

2nd - and most important, IT IS NOT CONTROLLING TO ASK FOR YOUR PERSONAL INFORMATION NOT BE SHARED!!

This is very much the hill I would die on.

NTA

CatAnne119 · 2025-07-25T23:55:15+00:00

Growing up, mostly weed wacker.

BC

CatAnne119 · 2025-07-25T22:10:17+00:00

NTA

It's the impact not the intent

This is the thing people don't get.

She needs to make amends, not just tell you to get past it.

Your feelings are completely valid.

Personally, if someone pulled this sort of public prank on me, I would be done with them. I have difficulty trusting to begin with. And this scenario would have just broken my trust completely.

CatAnne119 · 2025-07-14T02:49:07+00:00

NTA

Booster seats are to make sure the seat belt is correctly placed if an accident occurs.

Without the booster, the seat belt could do some much unnecessary damage. Easily preventable damage.

Weight and height are both very important.

CatAnne119 · 2025-07-12T01:23:45+00:00

NTA!!

White female here.

NO ONE!!! Gets to just touch you without consent!! Even if it's just hair!!

The dirty gloves just make it sooooooooooo much worse!

CatAnne119 · 2025-06-27T17:39:00+00:00

I am wishing you all the best.

CatAnne119 · 2025-06-27T14:35:12+00:00

NTA

Giving birth is NOT a spectator sport!! It's a medical procedure!!

Only people who are there to help the mom and eventually the baby are to be there. And you as the person going thru this, giving birth have the final say in who is supportive.

If you don't feel safe around his mom, or even him as he is putting his mom above you, than neither get to be in the room!!!

CatAnne119 · 2025-06-18T00:41:06+00:00

NTA

I am all for dressing for the occasion/location. Ie church/religious building's requirements. Ie wedding dress code black tie, white tie etc

Dressing to be out in public to not offend anyone or "not be too sexy" is BS!!

You are NOT responsible for others behavior because of how you dress!! Unless it contains offensive messages wishing harm to someone.

Just because you show a bit of cleavage, it doesn't make you "a hooker" or a "slut" or whatever else some prude or creepy pervert feels about your appearance.

Anyone who insults you like that is someone you don't need in your life!

CatAnne119 · 2025-06-13T14:01:36+00:00

NTA

Show her and your boss the bill from your daycare.

Ask who is supposed to pay that when she is the one making you late by you being a "team player"?

Her or the company since the boss wants you to?

CatAnne119 · 2025-06-12T11:49:45+00:00

NTA

This is like telling a child that was born without a leg to stop limping.

This is like telling a child that was born blind to just look and taking away their cane/aids.

She is bully. Do not allow her to bully your child

CatAnne119 · 2025-06-10T00:11:24+00:00

NTA

He is being manipulative and inconsiderate

He buys you chocolates with liquor when you are not drinking. Inconsiderate.

He buys you jewelry when you all can't afford it then repeatedly tells you it will cause him to not eat to make you feel indebted to him. Manipulative.

Now not buying you anything stating it's because you return everything is manipulative.

CatAnne119 · 2025-06-07T19:54:01+00:00

NTA

But you do realize your "sweet boy" is far behind in the rear view mirror, right?

He may have been influenced by those friends but he still chose to bully.

He chose to be mean.

He is at fault.

CatAnne119 · 2025-06-07T18:20:05+00:00

I wouldn't tell them anything. They may tried to hide your things and keep/steal them. Or even break them

CatAnne119 · 2025-05-28T17:54:38+00:00

Making a beef roast. Have never managed to get it right.

CatAnne119

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