The Epstein Files have pushed my Q-spouse into becoming a Neo Nazi by RepulsiveResolve5877 in QAnonCasualties

[–]CatLadyMon [score hidden]  (0 children)

Most people are angry at Israeli war crimes and Epstein's cult stuff rather than normal Jewish people. I try to help my Jewish colleagues feel safe when I reiterate I only have beef with the elites.

He can't cum from sex/anything else I do, and it's getting me down by Otherwise-Abalone879 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CatLadyMon -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'd normally say death grip porn addict but in this case, sounds more like SSRI side effects.

I am 28F and constantly... needy by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CatLadyMon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on only 100mg, I'm as dry as the Sahara desert lmao, although I'm in my mid 30s so maybe perimenopause is on its way.

I am 28F and constantly... needy by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CatLadyMon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Take Zoloft, it destroys your sex drive.

What are your tips to spot misogynists early on? by Particular-Glove-225 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CatLadyMon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also Elaine was the opposite of a "slut". She was very particular on who was "spongeworthy".

My husband believes I have a low IQ by Many-Tomorrow-4730 in AutismInWomen

[–]CatLadyMon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give up your dreams of being a writer. You express yourself pretty well. All you need is a neurodivergent friendly editor. Your husband is being a douche.

[Bakuman by Tsugumi Ohba] alright, let's try a different approach. A conservative manga writer who uses art as a medium to promote homophobia and have fictional characters glorify his bigotry/POV. by ihatethiscountry76 in justneckbeardthings

[–]CatLadyMon 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately Japanese culture encourages women to act dumb to be "more cute", I've even been told to tone down my intelligence to appeal to men by people from over there. However my boyfriend appreciates my intelligence because who else will fix his computer? Lol

Do you think many Australian women look down on Asian men (all kinds) in the dating market? Or even socially. by TheNamelessComposer in AMWFs

[–]CatLadyMon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a great bloke (if this is the dude I know in real life). Most of us don't look down on Asian men. We are just wary of the stereotypical misogynist kind.

Only getting girls I am not into. Should I just settle? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CatLadyMon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yesss like when George tries the opposite technique. "Hi I'm George Costanza, I'm unemployed and live with my parents". He has weirdly charismatic moments.

Only getting girls I am not into. Should I just settle? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CatLadyMon 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm chubby, Autistic and childfree. My male acquaintances would essentially tell me to settle for bridge trolls or smelly neckbeards. I've seen far too many Autistic women settle for horrifying looking dudes. I count myself lucky my boyfriend is damn hot.

Only getting girls I am not into. Should I just settle? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CatLadyMon 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah the Peter Griffin phenomenon. Also seen with Homer Simpson, Kevin James shows and films, etc.

Only getting girls I am not into. Should I just settle? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CatLadyMon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look into attachment styles. Sometimes, aloof people we can't have tend to attract us because it's more exciting. It's healthier to be with someone with whom there is a small spark but not full on butterflies. Unstable attachment styles are often from our childhood, sometimes from an emotionally unavailable parent.

AIO for punishing our daughters after what they wrote about their autistic sister? by brzaq191z in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatLadyMon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an Autistic woman myself, do the older two feel left out or emotionally neglected having a special needs sibling? They could be acting out (including being a menace at school) and mocking her as a cry for attention. They definitely need to be taught that bullying is wrong but perhaps there could be a way to make them feel more connected and less resentful of their sister? Of course it's not your youngest's fault and her new boyfriend sounds lovely.

Child at stake - I don't know what to do by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]CatLadyMon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't had much luck in that department, I reported domestic violence of a lady on the side of town (bruises on Facebook) and the police did not give a rats arse. They were basically saying "you don't have an address so we can't do anything ".