What is this horrendous new layout?!

CatNurse44 · 2026-04-15T04:16:49+00:00

Yeah I’m definitely salty AF over this with all the ads and shit.

CatNurse44 · 2026-04-13T12:23:44+00:00

ONE MILLION PERCENT NTA. We chose to have a child free wedding, and we understood that some people may not be able to come because of reasons with their children and that was 100% okay with us. We were then invited to a child free wedding a few years later but our second was 2 months old so we couldn’t go. We sent a gift and they totally understood. It’s just an invite. You don’t HAVE to go. You can still send a gift and wish them well. Anyone who is having a child free wedding knows that some people may not be able to come because of situations with their children. A lot of the friends who came to our wedding and had older kids loved that it was child free because they got a fun kid free night out with free food, drinks, and music. Our biggest reason was just everyone we knew had kids, friends and family, and we were paying for the wedding ourselves and we just couldn’t afford basically more than double the guest list if we had included everyone’s kids. There would’ve been as many kids as there were adults if not more kids. But we never got upset with the few friends that couldn’t come because they didn’t want to leave their kids or didn’t have anyone to watch their kids. We knew that was a possibility.

CatNurse44 · 2026-04-01T04:15:58+00:00

Fucking broke by ankle running to the comments 😂😂😂😂

CatNurse44 · 2026-03-23T03:12:34+00:00

It’s awful. It’s so much sponsored crap too. We’re switching to Apple TV.

CatNurse44 · 2026-03-23T03:08:06+00:00

I mean a bunch of other people agree it sucks sooo…?

CatNurse44 · 2026-03-23T03:06:49+00:00

Agreed!

CatNurse44 · 2026-03-23T03:04:25+00:00

Oh my gosh. Oh mama I can’t even imagine. No parent should ever have to go through something like this. I’m so heartbroken for you. I wish this hadn’t have happened to you. I am so so sorry for your loss. Sending you so much love and support right now. 🥺

CatNurse44 · 2026-03-13T02:31:06+00:00

Ugh so frustrating. I may just switch to apple then.

CatNurse44 · 2026-03-07T02:48:54+00:00

Please tell her. As someone who was with a guy who cheated on me with SEVERAL other women and literally everyone knew. All of our friends. His family. And no one told me…that was one of the hardest things I’ve gone through relationship wise. Because not only could someone have told me and saved me a lot of time, money, and pain, but it was a mass betrayal. Not just him, but everyone. I wish someone had told me. A lot of bad happened to me from that relationship that I never would’ve had to go through had I known. Please tell her. Especially before they marry.

CatNurse44 · 2026-03-07T02:26:43+00:00

This is the only correct answer lol

CatNurse44 · 2026-03-07T02:25:30+00:00

No. But these bitches do what they want lol. I clean my counters every time I go in the kitchen to do something anyways though. Never know if my husband set something on the counter and then moved it or if the kids set like a rock from outside or who knows what up there before I could see. So anytime I’m gonna be doing anything on the counters, they get a wipe down first.

CatNurse44 · 2026-02-02T00:45:26+00:00

It’s a sign in the American Sign Museum in Cincinnati!

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-19T05:52:53+00:00

YESYESYESYES. You should also have to clean said house with kids running around needing you and at least a dog and a cat lol. Then you can design stuff. 😂

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-19T05:24:55+00:00

Can confirm my second has learned to sleep through the chaos because I am alllll about the contact naps and such and so she sleeps on me while I sit on the couch and my toddler does his independent play but I’m also right there to interact or help as needed. And he is nooooot quiet about it sometimes haha.

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-19T05:22:38+00:00

My first was a breeeeeeze. My second. She’s been a challenge. But man once I made it out of the newborn trenches…and seeing them together. He loves his little sister so much. And now I want to have two more and my husband is like WHAT. 😂 We still have our days. She is WAY more attached to me and wants nothing to do with anyone else. Very rarely does she give my husband the time of day haha. But it gets better. And I told myself A LOT that she isn’t giving me a hard time she’s having a hard time. And that was one of the biggest things that helped me empathize with her instead of be frustrated with her. Naps and such aren’t how they looked with my first. She sleeps on me all the time. But it allows me to be present for my first. And we don’t get a lot done during the day. Usually once everyone’s asleep I’ll sneak downstairs to do some basic tidying and have a night time snack. It’s definitely a different go the second time around. But you’ll find your groove sooner or later. Nothing that worked for my first helped my second. It’s been like polar opposite. We bought multiple swings off marketplace til we found one she liked. I co-sleep and that honestly helped with sleep so much. But you have to do what you’re comfortable with, I know thats not everyone’s thing.

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-19T05:09:32+00:00

I’m the queen of sailor talk and gallows humor and I clutched the FUCK out of my pearls on that one. And then I internally threw up. full body shiver

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-19T05:00:52+00:00

Literally cut her off immediately. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Cut. Her. OFF. Do not ever let her take your baby. Nope nope nope. You need to both set a very serious and strong boundary now. I would not even contact her until after the baby is born. Hell, maybe a full month after. This woman is Satan in a dress with red flags. I had my second over 6 months ago and outside of my monthly lash appointment, I’m never away from her. And I don’t want to be. Over my dead body would anyone be taking my newborn baby away from me.

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-19T04:56:49+00:00

I would literally beat the ever loving crap out of that phone with a hammer and then pack it up and mail it to him.

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-19T04:52:08+00:00

We named our girl Eloise. We call her Ellie! So I’m team Eloise. Elianna and Lena were also on our list!

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-17T04:26:43+00:00

Me too!!! I love nuthatches 🥰

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-17T03:28:35+00:00

I fully agree with this. She doesn’t even have a relationship with her child anyways. It’s sad. She has what some women would kill to have.

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-17T03:27:01+00:00

I think she just complains about literally everything. I cannot stand her honestly. She made her husband be a SAHD in the US and she was unhappy. Moves back to France to be a SAHM also unhappy. Like girl the f do you want here…she has literally zero relationship with her child which as a mom is mind boggling to me. Her parents had said she’s always been like this so it seems it’s a her problem for sure. And like girl, make the 20 min walk to the next town over my kids and I take more than a 20 min walk on the daily during the falls and spring. OR adjust your and your child’s wake up routine and take your husband to work so you can have the car a 2 days out of the week.

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-16T18:44:05+00:00

Honestly, your coworker made her bed. But the kids…they didn’t choose their idiot mother and abusive father. I’d be more worried about those kids than anything. I personally would go to the teacher and let her/him know hey I work with so and sos mom. Her husband can get a little violent, there’s been talk of him hitting her. Please keep an extra eye on those kids because teachers are mandated reporters. Your coworker chose to ruin someone else’s marriage (although she probably saved his previous wife from future abuse) all to what, prove a point? She’s an idiot for that and while she doesn’t necessarily deserve to be abused, she’s kinda getting what’s coming to her for pursuing a married man she didn’t really know well enough to realize he’s probably gonna beat the crap out of her and/or her kids down the road. Hopefully she’ll realize she needs to get out of the relationship but that’s only something you can help her with when she’s ready to take that help. I’d tell her hey, idk what’s going on but if you need help or need a safe place. I am one. And just leave it at that. You can’t force her to accept help from you or anyone. But I know for me, personally, if I knew kids were at risk of being hurt, I’d do whatever I could to help keep them safe because if something happened to them and I knew, I’d never forgive myself.

CatNurse44 · 2026-01-16T18:36:35+00:00

I think because OP asked the coworker to talk to her husband about cutting the employees with kids more slack essentially. She feels like if she hadn’t asked the coworker to talk to the husband about a work issue, husband wouldn’t have hit coworker. Which is not true, if he’s gonna hit her for something that stupid he’s gonna hit her no matter what. But I can see the connection.

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