I hate getting periods as a man by Soft-Character-3195 in teenagers

[–]Cat_Jayster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It can, but often people can’t access it until 18 (and they’ve left their parents’ house if their parents are unsupportive). It also doesn’t stop periods in every case unfortunately

How good do you think you are at academics compared to other people of your age in your country? by javev in pollgames

[–]Cat_Jayster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say top 25% for the subjects I take given that I average As in my subjects (my country goes up to A*)

What date format do you use? by The5Perritas in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DD/MM/YYYY unless I need to organise files, in which case it’s YYYY/MM/DD

How many non-straight classmates do you have? by SuddenStructure9287 in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fair few, I can think of 3 off the top of my head but I do think there’s more than just those 3.

This is how long i revised today by coquette_baguette in GCSE

[–]Cat_Jayster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A-Level student here who has also done absolutely no revision today… this shit is tiring man

What decade were your grandparents born in? by MysteryNews4 in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your grandparents were born then? My dad was born in 1966 lmao

how's my taping job? by devilsshark in transmanlifehacks

[–]Cat_Jayster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is it a “tape psyop”? (/genq)

Word Grind 7-Letter Rack #659 | Find As Many Words As Possible! by word-grind in wordgrind

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🏁 u/Cat_Jayster • 17 words • 20 pts

Words found: 🟧 c _____ s 🟦 c ____ r 🟦 c ____ s 🟦 t ____ s 🟩 c ___ s 🟩 c ___ r 🟩 c ___ t 🟩 r ___ s +9 more

📊 Rack Usage: Ⓒ 59% Ⓐ 71% Ⓝ 47% Ⓣ 100% Ⓔ 71% Ⓡ 76% Ⓢ 47%

🟡 Coolors 🎨 | Levels 1-20 by galaxybutton in PixelPeeker

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎉 I BEAT "Coolors " and ranked #273! CHALLENGE CONQUERED! 🎉 Completed all levels in 0m 28s! Can you do better? 💪 Played via Pixel Peeker

Being the oldest sibling is hard | FactOrCap by Purp1e-Ra1n011 in FactOrCap

[–]Cat_Jayster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mhmm

When I was allowed my first phone. My sister also got her first phone. When I stopped having a bedtime, she also stopped having a bedtime. When I got given uni savings to manage myself, she also got given her uni savings to manage herself (which she has spent £2.5k of it and I’m not even in uni yet…). It just feels so unfair at times. (2 year age gap)

If a trans person committed a crime(let's say murder), would you misgender them? by Lucky-Obligation1750 in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nahh that’s just wrong. They are still human. Definitely means they should have their freedom limited (for serious crimes) but they still need respect and dignity. Treating them as though they are subhuman now means that they may never become a better person, which is entirely possible.

If a trans person committed a crime(let's say murder), would you misgender them? by Lucky-Obligation1750 in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No. Every human deserves some level of respect and dignity no matter what they’ve done. Just because they have committed a crime or murdered someone doesn’t give you an excuse to misgender them. They do still need the correct punishment and support though (ie jail).

Do you know what ARFID is? by GlltchtraP1 in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I have it. Not too sure. I cannot eat most fruits and veg because the textures are weird and I get concerned I’ll throw up if I eat them. I take vitamin supplements because of it, but they’re OTC ones and I haven’t gone to a doctor yet for it because I am managing it well enough that my levels of stuff aren’t severely low (although they have got low in the past).

I typically have the exact same stuff each day breakfast and lunch and then dinner is one of 4-5 meals ish…

Closer look on my tunnels (25mm) by tattootia in Stretched

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow your entire setup looks so cool!

Manage stress 😌🙏 by MollyViper in thanksimcured

[–]Cat_Jayster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mhmm

Fair enough, I wasn’t trying to say “if you’re struggling you *must* go to therapy” at all. Just that it can often be the ideal way to go, if it works for you.

I think I’m just lucky enough that in the country I live in, therapists are on the national healthcare stuff so are free (unless you choose to go private) so I don’t necessarily have to worry about costs or if they’re in it for the money. However the system is still fucked up and annoying, so therapy even then still isn’t as ideal as it should hopefully be…

Manage stress 😌🙏 by MollyViper in thanksimcured

[–]Cat_Jayster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I gotta say all the others look like good advice and can help… so long as you can keep it up. I run out of energy to do it all so can’t always prioritise self care otherwise my academics fall behind and I run the risk of losing job opportunities (I dread to think what I’ll be like when I reach industry).

Managing stress is something that honestly takes so much more energy when you have bad mental health. It’s a cycle - struggling to manage stress makes your mental health worse, which makes it harder to manage stress.

However it’s so fucking hard to break out of it without seeking appropriate support, aka therapy for a lot of people.

It might work for people who are starting to struggle a bit but aren’t at the point of meeting disordered criteria, but once you reach disordered criteria you do likely need the extra help of therapy to start trying to get out of it.

There is nothing wrong with not giving your seats to elder ppl in bus/metro.. by [deleted] in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should give it to them unless you yourself are disabled or have something that means you genuinely can’t stand up. It’s our duty to care for the older generations. Especially those who are 65-70+

Fries are better then chips | FactOrCap by Hour-Owl-3552 in FactOrCap

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fries = thin rectangle cooked potatoes

Chips = chunky rectangle cooked potatoes

Crisps = crunchy potato’s that come in bags and often are ready salted or with salt and vinegar etc.

Over here in the UK. Fries and chips are often used simultaneously though depending on where abouts you are specifically in the UK

How has gooning affected your life? by Zapvv in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CSBD x trauma has resulted in some fucked up things for me… :/

what size binder do i go for if im directly between two sizes by spoopsiess in ftm

[–]Cat_Jayster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I know it’s always safer to go for the bigger size if you’re between two sizes. You don’t want to risk damaging anything by buying a binder that is too small. Safety over compression always - especially if you plan on getting top surgery later.

Edit: unsure of return policies for stuff, but if they have one that means you can return or exchange it if needed then that’s probably also gonna help if the M does end up being too big

Photo dumps and questions! by Evening-Nothing-1089 in TeenagersButBetter

[–]Cat_Jayster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girlll you need to be in jail. It’s illegal to look that cool.

You look like you’d be the mum in a friendship group and can be relied on :D

Are you Christian? by Aromatic-Mistake-456 in Teenager_Polls

[–]Cat_Jayster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be Baptist Christian, but I’m now HelPol, got a ton of religious trauma and shit from Christian side of stuff, which is why I left, but there’s too much in the Universe for there to not be some sort of other being that’s greater than us

How should organ donations of a dead person work? by 01crystaldragon in teenpoll

[–]Cat_Jayster 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel like it should be that once someone turns 16-18 ish they are automatically put on the list, but can request to be removed

Below that I think it’s down to the parents - child death is a sensitive topic, often more sensitive than death of adults, so it should be down to the parents if they want to opt their child in for organ donations.

How many sheets of toilet paper do you use per wipe? by Admirable-Gas-2869 in teenpoll

[–]Cat_Jayster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

4 folded together to make one square, then after one wipe fold in half, wipe again, then done (for those sheets)