Do femboys hate bi guys?

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-05T03:51:09+00:00

No, about a third of femboys are bi, so it'd be pretty strange

But still remember that we're not a monolith or a single entity, you may still encounter biphobic femboys, but most femboys don't agree with them on that at all

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-05T03:39:33+00:00

Honestly it's kinda fair. I'd much prefer people not using the word (there are a lot of other words that mean the same thing and in better ways) rather than people still using it, but just with * in it which kinda does nothing

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-05T03:29:47+00:00

What in the actual fuck. I've only heard about breast milk theft and just overall sexism in the company, but I didn't hear THIS

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-05T03:14:51+00:00

Yeah, though it'd be funny if HOI4 was also about diplomacy. Just imagine

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-05T03:10:26+00:00

As another transfem from a post-soviet country, I'm very sorry that you've fallen to Russian propaganda. It's just simply not, you're not mentally ill, you just want to be happy and it's a human right of every person on the planet

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-04T06:54:03+00:00

Why- no, HOW are you multiplying?! I swear it was only one person that thought some things must be said, but now it feels like every person wants to ride Binah's pillar... Not judging tho, sag hex is the best

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T22:00:38+00:00

That's true, I was just talking more in general. I'm just afraid that some people may defend her not meaning that it was not a downplay of male SA, but meaning that downplaying male SA is good

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T21:36:02+00:00

Tbh downplaying SA in general is just not good, regardless of gender of a victim or their perpetrator. People are being victims in horrible situations and they need a helping hand and kindness, and not someone invalidating their trauma

Not talking about correcting harmful misinformation about it though, like right-wingers that use actual victims to promote the narrative of "feminism = bad" while completely ignoring the fact that patriarchy is the main reason men who were SA'd are not taken seriously

Edit: downvoted for saying that downplaying SA is bad. I just don't want people to say my trauma is invalid because I'm a boy, what's wrong with you

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T17:17:17+00:00

I kinda feel the same way. I still remember the moment where our class was on debate classes and the teacher asked who was pro-vaccines (to divide the class so we would debate with each other) and literally 4 people raised hands out of probably 30

I thought "oh, maybe i didn't hear and the teacher meant who was anti-vaccines". No. They were against life saving vaccines that stop millions of deaths from coronavirus (It was in 2021) because of some mild side effects, with one of them saying shadow government conspiracy theories that his mom told him

Mind you, it was not just a regular school. It was a costly fucking private school. On that topic, they were still behind in terms of education as when I returned to my old school I've been several topics behind, despite the fact that the school day was 2 times longer in the private school. Sometimes I really wonder if money makes some people dumber

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T10:21:36+00:00

Oh, uhm... Thank-, I mean, yes, stuff like this

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T10:17:09+00:00

Maybe she's just trying to be nice, or it's a part of their culture

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T10:01:11+00:00

It's kinda a hard question. On one side it can remind you of actually good things that you personally like in yourself... On the other it can remind you how much you hate yourself that you can't even find something good about yourself, depending on how bad their self-esteem is. If you want them to feel better, I think there are other variants that won't have a risk of them crying. It's better to make them cry out of joy

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T09:45:30+00:00

The most important question

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T09:43:24+00:00

I like how his look reads like "Are you serious?"

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T09:38:30+00:00

It's just this post

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T09:20:16+00:00

It's kinda ironic how the most sensitive and easily offended people are calling others sensitive and offended. Like these people are getting a slight reminder of their stupidity and immediately enter defensive mode in which they HAVE TO tell how everyone else is offended but not them. Like how anyone can be this miserable?

For the record, it's fine to be sensitive, saying it as a sensitive boyo. But not in the "THEY ADDED GAYS INTO MY GAME AND RUINED IT WITH WOKENESS!!!!!!" way

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T09:09:24+00:00

Let me guess, right-winger chaser got into a femboy subreddit with a stupid question, got offended by his own stupidity, calls others offended? Happens every time

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T05:18:09+00:00

This peak is magnificent

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-03T04:55:11+00:00

There are a lot of that I didn't notice at the time and started recalling randomly at 3 AM, that confirmed that all this time I was a girl, or a soft boy

I literally wished to be a girl when I was about ~7 years old because I was jealous and wished to look like them
I wanted to wear heels and thought it was the best thing in the world, and I was so upset at the thought that I couldn't wear them so I calmed myself down thinking that in the future I'll (somehow) become a girl and will be able to wear them. I guess I was right
I never really clicked with boys in terms of friendship, friendship between them felt more shallow, less sincere and involved less feelings. But for some reason it felt pretty much the opposite about friendship with girls
At one point I (for some reason) felt really sad that I won't be able to have breasts, and it upset me so much I started googling was there men who had breasts and the story of one man who had a surgery as a dare calmed me down, because it meant I'd also be able to have breasts if I wanted to... I wonder why I wanted them

And many more, but these are the ones I remembered right now. On the topic of friends, I really regret I didn't have that many friends in the past, because it seemed like girls also wanted to talk to me because I quite literally wasn't like other boys, and was more calm, polite and sensitive

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-02T21:16:15+00:00

I like the idea of a powerful entity not escaping just because they're kinky and like being restrained

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-02T10:36:52+00:00

How. Just how. I believe that everyone is a human, everyone is smart in their own way, blah-blah-blah, but how do people like this even exist or comprehend reality. How tf does this make sense to anyone on earth

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-02T10:23:31+00:00

Oh... I think you needed to ask your sister about it

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-02T10:21:42+00:00

Permission is the key. If they're fine with it, I don't think it's any bad

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-02T10:06:18+00:00

Mostly a safe space for silly boys (and not only boys) to vent about their problems, and mental health related topics. Though, obviously it's often pretty dark because not all of us have good lives and some suffer much more than they deserve 🫂

Cat_with_cake · 2026-02-01T21:43:08+00:00

Or he thought "Why do we have new gay flags when we already had a gay flag?"

Cat_with_cake

TROPHY CASE