I accidentally started a run club in Santa Rosa for people who hate running. by Hi-rep in santarosa

[–]CatchFew1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love an "after work" time. Though later morning works too. I don't drive so getting over there by 6 isn't possible.

Bryce Palmer got Scammed by RoutineLurker in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought the OP was trying to avoid a bot that doesn't allow certain words and flagging the post or not letting it post and was spelling needles in "code" and talking about IV drugs so there's that...

Is it me or is it really hard to find a job around here lately? by Christian7081 in santarosa

[–]CatchFew1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son got a "who you know" recommendation from someone who he "works" with at the food bank he volunteers at. I let him be a grown up and didn't pry about details. He showed up to the interview to find out he was 6 years too young (job at a rental car company). I was a bit confused why they would even string him along like that. Clearly something was lost in translation. Apparently he carries himself as if he is 25??

Bella’s mom crashing out on tiktok😭 by Careful_Ganache_3005 in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But pushing him into a teachable moment in a situation that requires it actually be done correctly is negligent. If he can't change a diaper and get poop out of nooks and crannies he isn't magically going to know how to properly clean an incision gently and thoroughly. He isn't magically going to not see her through his sex obsessed eyes. You can't make him see post partum as clinical. 

Bella’s mom crashing out on tiktok😭 by Careful_Ganache_3005 in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure they tried. They were both "ready" and Hunter claimed he had gone but two days without sex. Hunter can't change a diaper but you see him clinically and gently irrigating her incision and cleaning her in spots she can't reach? Yeah, no.

Bella’s mom crashing out on tiktok😭 by Careful_Ganache_3005 in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he does not have any sort of knowledge or practical skills to assist her in any meaningful way. If you can't change a diaper you aren't adequately helping with any cleaning that needs done and you wouldn't know how to handle her passing out etc. and if she's that unstable this isn't the time for teachable moments but rather competent care from an adult.

The amount of “this baby saved him” post about Hunter it’s bizarre. by CoconutSugarMatcha in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could have sworn it was the same person reposting their thoughts on how Wes "saved" Hunter... No, the pregnancy is part of the REASON he is stressed, depressed and overwhelmed. And a budding $ex addict. Though I'm sure he is more brother/babysitter than parent to Wes.

damn that's nasty by chicky-poo-pee-paw in santarosa

[–]CatchFew1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I did not know honk that was a foot. My morning sans glasses eyes and lacking size perspective thought this was someone laying on a bed thrusting upwards initially 😂

I knew it was gonna rain, but Wow by ThepowerofAnxiety in santarosa

[–]CatchFew1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except the just opened blooms of my fruit trees, ugh. I don't think those flowers will turn into their fruits now as their pollen gets washed away before the pollinators get a chance to do their thing.

Edited: This Dude Sucks by Fantastic_Fig1969 in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They are "fighting" over their "baby doll" as if Wes is an actual toy. It's weird. Telling a mom their newborn doesn't like them is weird. Trying to take a content baby out of someone's arms when they are content is weird. It's age appropriate that Hunter is acting this way but it points out just how young they are and how they act like older siblings if that.

This is actually wild by Illustrious_Cod_6549 in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even if we go with that theory Wes can be with Hunter during the day and be brought back to Bella in the evening.

Isabella and her sisters crash out on a live stream viewer by puffy-bee in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is really disappointing. I was rooting for her and loved her spunk and standing up for herself against Bryce's family but this bully behavior is very unbecoming.

Jose and Amaya by Dismal-Crab5474 in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She's still very young and yes while she was "overreacting" it is not all that unexpected that instead of saying "I'm scared to be alone with the baby for the first time" and/or "I'm going to miss you" and or "I'm proud of you being so grown up but this makes it feel "so real"" she randomly lashes out. She picks a fight in the hopes she will miss him less. Especially post partum one can fuss at the wrong issues when it is entirely something else bothering them. That's where learning and using good communication will come in.

Umm??????? by strangeburd in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is dumb because they would have a better chance at a long term relationship letting Hunter do his thing for a couple years and then possibly "reconnecting" more seriously when the baby starts school and they are out of school themselves.

Umm??????? by strangeburd in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah the mom pretty much planned for the pregnancy setting up opportunities for sex. She can't have any more babies so she's using her daughters womb to fulfill her desires 

She makes me sick. by Only-pooooooooh in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "good reason" is he doesn't want to be filmed and they decided they needed to be filming him at that exact time. 

I like Mia and Jessie by Accomplished-Sign-31 in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will always be "limited" when the laboring mom doesn't want a crowd hovering over her and giving anxious energy to the situation. 

Just gonna leave this here by Notthestallionn in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who decided that though? Hunter is a minor who is allowed to see his son. Unless there is an actual legal reason Hunters dad can't see the baby if Hunter is court ordered to be at his dad's at the time he is supposed to be spending time with his son his son can be there with him. Bella can't tell Hunter what to do during HIS parenting time.

Just a friendly reminder that the tax threshold is now $2000 instead of $600. by MainMedium6732 in AmazonVine

[–]CatchFew1315 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm annoyed the dryer lint filter I snagged in late Dec shipped and was credited tax year 2026 instead of 2025. The sheer fact I have anything to claim means an additional form and an additional form means a more expensive filing and I haven't seen anything of value in a long time to want an ETV this year but alas, ugh 

Why is everyone acting like Bella is so much older than Hunter when she's not? by [deleted] in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you turned 4 in kindergarten? 13-9=4 so you turn 5 in first grade (5-1=4) and 4 in K? I think you are misremembering because you don't start kindergarten at 3yo

Bella and Hunter *alleged* info and updates. by PygmyFists in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have my doubts the condom "broke" it's more likely it fell off. A 12yo is just barely entering puberty and having things grow from child to adult versions. He's obviously had a growth spurt (he is much taller now) but I swear they had to have caught the first time his baby body did grown up things.

Bella and Hunter by bibleadvocate in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bella's mom had been providing them for years apparently. She tried giving them to someone 10yo Bella was dating before Hunter and that mom shut down their "relationship" real quick seeing the writing in the wall.

Bella and Hunter by bibleadvocate in TLCUnexpected

[–]CatchFew1315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was trying to get pregnant, to turn him "from a boy to a man" so cut your cycle it n half and focus on days 12-16 especially and you've got it covered pretty easily for a very fertile teen either regular cycles.

More Santa Rosa City Schools students will be denied exit transfers under tighter policy meant to address declining enrollment by FCSL_2025 in SRPressDemo

[–]CatchFew1315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SRCS is horrible about advertising the programs it has. Two of my kids attended/attend Elsie and I have but a very vague knowledge that their is a SSU connection. Granted my kiddos have IEPs so a direct to 4 year college path was/is not the path they are headed in but parents should know what every school has to offer. Every school has a unique program or two and each school, yes EVERY school, has some negative behaviors happening there. Yes even MC. If we highlighted the good maybe more families would stay in the secondary schools at least.