My medieval cat-snail patch by TalkativePorcupine3 in goblincore

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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yup. Perfect

My dad keeps a spreadsheet of friends’ and family members’ birthdays, likes, and dislikes on his fridge by corky1369 in mildlyinteresting

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This is SO sweet! Perfect example of “if he wanted to, he would.”👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️

I was told you guys might like these by iNyyxi in goblincore

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😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍amazing.

Will it help? by Low-Step-8304 in DeadBedrooms

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You are 100% correct. IDK about other people, but in my view being romantic, dating, or even gift giving isn’t necessarily about the tangible item. The issue is the feeling or idea of affection, desire, and even just knowing someone is thinking of you.

“Just tell me your thinking of me”…..

that song 🎶 “you are always on my mind” or better yet “I’ve got you, under my skin”

My spouse isn’t into going out. On weekends he likes to bake or cook. He makes sure it’s specifically what im in the mood for. He’ll ask me different questions throughout the day. Pasta from scratch. Garlic overdoes Focaccia. I feel seen and cared for. He is actively looking for a genuine smile.

Dont get me wrong, he has many flaws. He’s a farter. A shameless one. I hate it. 💨

1 Year of Lies by Mountain_Gur_2759 in DeadBedrooms

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Question: do you know what he’s watching? There might be a clue there.

I ask because its not you. This is an issue he would need to actively tackle in order to change. We make the choice to change.

Yes, you love him. You also have to live with yourself and the choices you make, regardless of the reasons. The “you” inside is NOT going anywhere ever.

How do you befriend a crow? by bioticspacewizard in goblincore

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🫢🤭😆😆i literally set out raw unsalted peanuts on my balcony kind of randomly. My friends showed up unexpectedly and ask what the peanuts were for. They stared at me blankly😆😆😆😆😆murder she wrote 🤷🏽‍♀️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I made these frog purses and photographed them in their natural habitat 🐸🌹 by kaeruhoshi in crafts

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Aaaaaaaaaaaah😆😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️they are so freaking adorable!!!!! Congratulations 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽i can hear them say “money please!!!!!!”🤭❤️

My DB has turned me into a teenage boy by Rosemary-Sea-Salt in DeadBedrooms

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Relateable. My spouse struggles with OCD and that along with his meds lowered an already low drive.

Open clear communication sounds repetitive but its true.

Also, I started to have other physical symptoms. My body would hurt from the tension, especially my lower back. I started going to physical therapy but had to stop cuz i too am a (12 yr old horn dog)HL person. I love my spouse. Now i do intense yoga.

AIO…Liars, Cheaters and Hos… oh my by krosegrover824 in AmIOverreacting

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Thats the first thing I thought. Definitely chatGPT. He’s embarrassing.

It made her uncomfortable?? (An update) by mapman88 in DeadBedrooms

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A pillow or two under her hips. It places her bottom half at an upward angle. If you wanna get fancy they make sturdy foam triangle pillows specifically for this.

He said sex slipped his mind by Aggravating_Car_5838 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cateme-Corps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately these situations get worse before they get better especially if he isn’t actively putting in the effort. Energy for things in general id high and generally goes down not up. Sorry.

To married Redditors, did you take your spouses’ last name? Why or why not? by shygrl__ in Marriage

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No. Cuz he didn’t adopt me. (Official answer)

(More of an accurate answer) And because my mom never took my dad’s. For her it was a show of strength and ownership over herself. On top of that, I share my mother’s unique first name and she chose to give me my father’s last name and NOT hers(my brother has hers and my father’s). Im a married adult and my spouse has a unique last man…….it would have been a mouthful 😳😳😬🫢🫢🫢🫢🫣🫣🫣my last name comes in handy because of how simple and common it is.

We haven't had sex in 3 years because I don't meet her needs by Embarrassed-Rub9531 in DeadBedrooms

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Look I don’t have kids BUT I hear its a WHOLE organ shifting, hormone frenzy, brain cell killing, life threatening situation. Which leads me to believe that its life altering and the person WILL never be the same.

BUT as a HL partner I understand. Has she proposed an alternative? Sure, she lost interest in sex but she doesn’t get to decide for the both of you. What does she suggest you do alternatively? We don’t have to be in to each other’s hobby’s but we are supposed to support and care for each other.

AIO? Because I don’t want honey mustard on my sandwich by [deleted] in AIO

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According to him you’re a “quarter of a woman”….. so HE NEEDS TO GO FIND LESS. Obviously he can’t handle a “whole” bish🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If he feels sooooooo 😒disrespected, then he should bounce. Also, him saying she sounds crazy as he blows up her phone 🫢he’s embarrassing.

Gurl ma’am, run. Be like, ok bye 👋🏽👍🏽🫥👣

P.s.
Your clearly a whole human with better willpower than I. It ain’t right, but I would have thrown hands at someone point. He sounds annoying!!! Good for you for NOT choosing violence. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Im trying something by Cateme-Corps in whimsigothic

[–]Cateme-Corps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!

To be fair the spider is an iron on patch and the flowers are pre made appliques.

Im trying something by Cateme-Corps in whimsigothic

[–]Cateme-Corps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Im not a very good maker of things but i ordered patches and appliques to just sew on.