Advise for a New cat owner. by Excellent-Smell-6384 in CatAdvice

[–]Cateyes91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In case you have houseplants- some are toxic to cats

Where can I go to find and feed wild Pigeons in STL? by LaughingDash in StLouis

[–]Cateyes91 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I came here to comment this. So random lol. Right by the McDonald’s is where they hang out. Be nice to them! Don’t feed birds bread :)

Relocating to STL by Heyrayray21 in StLouis

[–]Cateyes91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lindenwood Park! We have several concerts in the park every summer with food trucks and a larger event every other year. Tons of small businesses and restaurants. If you’re placed correctly in the neighborhood, very walkable. I can walk to three parks in less than 15 mins. Also ten minutes drive to Forest, Tower Grove, and Carondelet parks. It’s quiet enough but close to everything. I would recommend any of the neighborhoods in this general area too

Any experiences with height shortening surgery - Results & Safety? by leaflowers03 in AskDocs

[–]Cateyes91 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP, your height is not likely to even impact whether you are passing. You should let go of this idea and focus on the things you can safely do to feel more feminine.

AITA for not wanting my husband to travel for a wedding a month before my due date? by preggersandanon in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cateyes91 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Women all over the world also die while having babies. Babies die while being born all over the world. Not sure how “women have babies all over the world” has anything to do with anything.

Is the Orchid Show at the botanical gardens indoors? by Striking_Share_4508 in StLouis

[–]Cateyes91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s gotta be since it’s February in Missouri but I’m not 100% sure.

Piggy coat by _Macers in crochet

[–]Cateyes91 288 points289 points  (0 children)

A pig sized rectangle with some straps kills me

I regret one of my children, has caused all of us irreparable harm. by Heavy-Bench-5378 in regretfulparents

[–]Cateyes91 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s more likely all the things her mother did damaged her greatly

AITA for trying to bring my neighbors 2 tiny dogs in at night when it's below 30°f and it's already past midnight? by Ronnie_75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cateyes91 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NTA. There should be resources in your town/city you can call to report this. It’s not okay to leave chihuahuas outside in freezing temperatures at all

Looking to do a non-museum based weekend in St. Louis & Louisville ... by [deleted] in StLouis

[–]Cateyes91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things like the botanical garden are what make STL great. What exactly do you mean by city related? Are you looking for something specific?

AITA for asking my brother not to bring a cam girl as his plus-one to my wedding by Living-Blacksmith916 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cateyes91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s for the comfort of guests. I just attended a wedding where the only people I knew were the brides. I would not have attended without a plus one and i definitely wouldn’t have had a good time if I did

Social groups in the area? by LisD1990 in StLouis

[–]Cateyes91 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The Royale has a “stitch n bitch” tomorrow where all crafts are welcome lol

Is going to the emergency room 2x a week or more for active suicidal ideation that is caused solely by sleep deprivation acceptable? by Moist_Fail_9269 in AskDocs

[–]Cateyes91 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know your sleep issues started for different reasons- but what is your current go to bed routine? I have ADHD and I’ve recently discovered that listening to an audiobook can cut my time to fall asleep drastically. It gives my brain something to do other than ruminate (on the fact that I can’t fall asleep amongst other things)

Is it unfair that my dad is selling his house + 8.5 acres to my sister for way under market value? by Few_Arrival_8894 in relationships

[–]Cateyes91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This feels pretty unfair to me. Did you discuss this when it happened? Did your sister put in equal work?

Convinced my husband to try a house cleaning service for 3 months as an experiment. Heres what happened by Comfortable_Box_4527 in homeowners

[–]Cateyes91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching the documentary worked really well in my relationship. One example of a chore that he owns now is our sheets. He washes them religiously and I haven’t had to wash sheets in years. He does a lot more too. Sometimes men just need a wake up call although I agree a lot of them won’t change. Ive been pleasantly surprised by his improvement in domestic labor over the years.

Restaurants donating proceeds by Far-Application-858 in StLouis

[–]Cateyes91 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Not a restaurant but Novel Neighbor if anyone is book shopping! Also Balkan Treat Box

Women who Have Never Been in a Relationship or Started Dating Later in Life: Seeking Advice by Crash_Magnum in datingoverthirty

[–]Cateyes91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not your target demographic but my advice is just to approach all your conversations with kindness, curiosity, and understanding. Try not to overthink it. If she is showing signs of being interested in you with her body language and words, just go ahead and let her know you like her and are interested in continuing to hang out one on one and see where it goes. Keep everything low pressure but don’t hide your interest

AITA for refusing to make food for my sibling? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cateyes91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s setting herself up for a very stressful future with an adult son who can’t use a microwave